Experiment Do you think it's possible to be true friends with normies/chads/chadlites as an incel?

[Mainländer]

I have two Chadlite friends in Brazil. The two happen to be good people and never bullied me or other incelish acquaintances.

But their realities are so fucking different than mine that I feel our friendship is not really healthy to me. One of them just said in a Whatsapp group I'm in, to another friend: "you guys should stop fucking escorts, fucking normal girls is easy, just go to a party and take one back home".

The other one, I made a small trip with him and some other friends last year and we ended up going back together ahead of the others. He spent the trip telling me about the girl from Tinder he fucked in the first date, the other from his work who looks like a fucking model, the other with whom he's "just friends" but turns out he already kissed her as well, etc.

And I'm convinced they just can't relate that much to the pain we feel because of our inceldom, just like foids. To them, all of this must be something normal, they can't fathom how much hearing this as an incel hurts. The one from the trip is super bp as well, told me once that looks don't matter with foids kek. Dude looks like fucking Jared Leto, is 6'2, fucks JBs at 29 and thinks his looks didn't played a role on this. He doesn't even have a good personality from a foids perspective, he's super calm and laid back, 0 aggressiveness.

It's sad because I met that guy from the trip back in middle school and we were really close, but the more we grew up, the more our tastes and fates diverged from one another, because he was already gl and actually became a bit better with age, whereas I already had poor looks and got way worse with age. We became way less compatible, he's a positive person through and through while I'm the biggest pessimist I know.

 

[Cuyen]

Well ı have Chad friends .actually all of my friends are Chads tbh since we barely have incels and ı don't have problem with them,some of them my homies and they got my back since childhood and they respect me because ı never left them alone when anything jumps on them

 

[Deleted member 12256]

With chads or chadlites no way in hell, with normies it's possible under cirmustances, they will bust your balls with their bluepill talk....

 

[Deleted member 12355]

You can be friends with people who are woke, as they will generally tend to be more sympathetic. So no normies

 

[Life Wasted]

No, you will always envy them for having a better life than you, at least I would.

 

[happiless]

No, you'll always be the male equivalent of a foid's fat friend.

 

[Void]

Once they get a girlfriend they will simply not be able to give you the attention or interest you need. It'll be a slow but gradual death of your friendship.

Happened to me too many times, this is why I dont bother with people anymore.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

normies and chads who are chill shouldn't be a problem to be friends with.

 

[Mainländer]

Once they get a girlfriend they will simply not be able to give you the attention or interest you need. It'll be a slow but gradual death of your friendship.

Happened to me too many times, this is why I dont bother with people anymore.

It's tough to maintain friendships as a depressed incel. Some of my former friends became normies, some careermaxxed and got to betabuxx foids, some just moved in a completely different mental direction than me.

I have one friend with whom I'm still compatible but he does nothing but working and studying to be a public servant now.

 

[Void]

It's tough to maintain friendships as a depressed incel. Some of my former friends became normies, some careermaxxed and got to betabuxx foids, some just moved in a completely different mental direction than me.

I have one friend with whom I'm still compatible but he does nothing but working and studying to be a public servant now.

Friends are only temporary indeed. Dont you live in Germany where its hard to make friends as an ethnic as well

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

 

[Mainländer]

Friends are only temporary indeed. Dont you live in Germany where its hard to make friends as an ethnic as well

I've already given up on the prospect of making friends here.

 

[GetFucked]

As long as they don't realize how hopeless you are with women. Even a beta will drop you if you impact his chances of getting laid

 

[BottomFeedER96]

No unless that chad or normie used to be incel and knows how it feels. Otherwise all of your “friends” would go out to places and not take you anywhere because your ugly. It’s happened to me plenty of times. Me and all my single co workers lived together in a barracks and during the work week they’d hang out with me and we’d smoke and joke during work to pass the time and when the weekend hit and they all went out, none of them would take me with them. They’d all bring back hot girls from their trips to Munich and Berlin or wherever and I’d stay at the barracks just drinking myself to oblivion unless I felt like escortcelling.
And when people would call me a virgin I’d get mad and say I’m not. And they would refute and say “hookers don’t count”. It was a horrible time for me. And when I’d have 24 hour duty I’d have to see them all come in late at night bringing a new girl to their rooms. It was fucking hell and I hated it.
They’d all pretend to be my friend but deep down they’d never let me hangout with them. I’d hear them talk to everyone and ask them if they were free and never asked me. I never asked because I don’t ask people for shit. I refuse. You can’t be friends with normies or chads. We should just have a meet up someday when I come back from ZOG duty in a month

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

No, I can't befriend anyone who isn't an incel, seeing Chads and normen living their NPC lives and having gfs and shit really pisses me off.

Incels and the rest of humanity are different species at this point

 

[GeneticFilth]

No, the hate for ugly males is way to strong. You might be friends with them, but they will just treat you like shit e.g. says the virgin teeeheee. You just have to constantly defend yourself and it gets tiring so you just prefer to be by yourself.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

no they will leave you if you don’t normie and do normie shit

 

[wizardcel]

I have Chadlite acquaintances, but I'm not close to them. I avoid people like the plague. I have turned down some many invitations from normies over the years that no one invites me out any longer. The last time I went to a party was in 2015, needless to say, it was suifuel. I can't stand being close to people who look better than I do. Their presence fills me with rage and envy. Personally, I'd rather be by myself. It's not like I can tell them about my frustrations as an incel. They wouldn't understand. I'm ok being friendless.