Discussion Do you think it would've been better for your parents to get you a prostitute to lose your virginity to, or doing it yourself?

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

She recalls how in the 1980s, it was common for long-haul truckers to introduce their adult virgin sons to brothel services. Dad would take the young man on the road during the summer after he finished high school, accompany him through the potentially awkward process of choosing a woman in a line-up, then enjoy a drink at the bar while his son got that first sexual experience under his belt.

Beginning in the 1990s, more often it was mothers who brought their inexperienced offspring to the “cathouse”, and not just for the young man to lose his virginity, but so that he might gain confidence interacting with a woman, receive guidance on pleasuring a woman and learn about the sensual side of sexual intimacy.

These days, Cummins said, virgins tend to show up alone. Some act shy about it, but most openly share their status, if only to apologise for their perceived haplessness.

‘More like therapists’: adult virgins turn to Nevada brothels for sex – and healing

The oldest profession is helping a generation of young men who have intimacy-stunted lives due to social media and internet porn

www.theguardian.com

This passage got me thinking.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

Unless you're a low functioning autistcel, I don't see why you would want to go to a brothel with your parents.

It would be extremely embarassing. Yes, being an old male virgin is also embarassing. But going with your parents is on a completely different level of embarassment.

 

[DarkStar]

I’d want them to pay for it, but i’d want to go through the experience of everything myself.

Despite having helicopter parents, I’ve grown to become self-reliant & develop myself; it’s something you will understand as an autist.

Unless you're a low functioning autistcel, I don't see why you would want to go to a brothel with your parents.

It would be extremely embarassing. Yes, being an old male virgin is also embarassing. But going with your parents is on a completely different level of embarassment.

Exactly, i can’t imagine going with my dad who’s always been the “better” of the two & more “cool” one.

 

[VλREN]

OMGXISA IS THAT A REFERENCE TO THE HIT VIDEO "asexual"!???!?!?!?!?

 

[DarkStar]

Only four replies? This is one of the bettER threads I've seen lately

 

[Stupid Clown]

Only four replies? This is one of the bettER threads I've seen lately

The forum seems dead today.

 

[DarkStar]

The forum seems dead today.

it's seemed dead as of late

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Yes, it would have been better if my parents got me an escort when I was younger.

That would have saved me a lot of suffering and overthinking about sex, which is not nearly as special as I thought it was.

 

[InceldianWarrior]

Crazy how much better parents used to be.
This example really shows that 1 they actually cared and 2 they were much more based/realistic

 

[Regenerator]

I'd prefer to go by myself.

 

[Indari]

That's just good parenting.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

It's still illegal here but if my parents had any foresight they would pay an escort to pretend to be interested in me and to seduce me.

 

[Epedaphic]

Idk man. I’m still really on the fence about an escort.

 

[NiggasCallmedaDrink]

Idk man. I’m still really on the fence about an escort.

 

[Incline]

Despite everything, I can't shake off some leftovers of my pride, that is why I despise when people pity me, that is one thing I hate above all. I would never let my parents humiliate me like that. My life might be a complete trainwreck and disaster but if there is one thing I have never asked for from anyone is help. Not like anybody can help me anyway, aside from giving me a pity fuck but that is empty as fuck, well at least it's one form of pity with actual benefits I guess.

Anyway, no I would never do that.

 

[rcnfive]

He grew up in a religious family but had only remained celibate out of respect for his longtime girlfriend’s abstinence beliefs. Recently, though, Barry learned that she was sleeping with other people, and they broke up.

jfl. holes gonna hole

 

[Ahnfeltia]

What in tarnation... imagine going to a cathouse (when I learn a new word I wanna "test-drive" it) with one of your parents. I have no desire to have sex with a prostitute, so my answer to your question would be "neither" I suppose.

 

[Nate Dogg]

It would've been weird if my parents got me a prostitute.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I wouldn't want my parents to take me into a brothel, but it would be nice if they gave me the money to pay for escorts.