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Discussion Do you think childhood trauma matters or not

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Like for example a decent 7/10 or 6/10 tall guy was raped as a kid and as a result they develop ptsd as an adult do you think that would make it over for them or do you think they would still mog personally i think being raped as a kid can ruin your life and will make everyone see you as a weirdo no matter i you're tall and a 9/10 because you wont be able to hold a conversation or have a good enough social life like everyone else
 
An attractive guy will always get laid somehow, trauma or not.
 
we should have a raped as a child pill tbh that shit will fuck up anything you want to do in life
 
trauma is exaggerated asf

i also got sexually assualted by some fags when i was a kid but i am totally mentally ok now, you just got to pass things and remember to do what they did to you to other people in the futur
 
Just go on soytok and you will see foids worshipping attractive guys with mental illness/trauma
 
It does matter and by a wide margin. The thing is though most people who suffered a terrible childhood usually CTB in their teens or 20's.
 
It does matter and by a wide margin.
Agree.

I've got serious C-PTSD due to molestation at age 7. It definitely contributed to my arrested development, together with the autism, ugliness, poverty, ADD, bad parenting etc.

It's not over because it never began.

The thing is though most people who suffered a terrible childhood usually CTB in their teens or 20's.
"study conducted by the National Comorbidity Survey Replication found that approximately 1.5% of respondents met the criteria for C-PTSD."

most of those who CTB young have CPTSD, but the converse is not the case.

CPTSD is far more widespread than bus-catching.
 
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foids get sexual abuse becomes sluts that chase low inhib violent CHAD (reminds them of dad) while boys just become incels and/or just celibates and or faggots
 
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you might lose some social charisma but at the end of the day it's your looks chico
 
another term for doing yourself in

Like for example a decent 7/10 or 6/10 tall guy was raped as a kid and as a result they develop ptsd as an adult do you think that would make it over for them or do you think they would still mog personally i think being raped as a kid can ruin your life and will make everyone see you as a weirdo no matter
some people (but not all) who suffer SA related trauma can become hypersexual as a result so even if it did happen, it doesnt reduce the chances that they'd have sex, but it can definitely reduce the normality of ones social interactions with others because of the trauma
 
will make everyone see you as a weirdo no matter i you're tall and a 9/10 because you wont be able to hold a conversation or have a good enough social life like everyone else
if you've a chad face and height you'll just be seen as quirky and endearing, and possibly even stand out in a sea of chads for your kind-hearted nature
 
Yes if he was raped by a dude.
 
I think looks is above everything and an attractive person will find partners even if they came from hell
 
I think it's a snowball effect
 
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This guy grew up and got married twice.
 
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#154412912Wednesday, January 21, 2015 10:03 PM CST
"WHY DO YOU LET YOURSELF BE AN EASY TARGET FOR PEOPLE" Although the following statements may appear as patronizing or otherwise negative, I'm not trying to insult you, I'm merely trying to help you rationalize the situation. In society, 'acceptance' is a necessary aspect beginning from the very critical durations of cognitive development, failure to feel accepted by other individuals has some degree of influence on your psychological state, though this varies on an individual basis. These other individuals, who are targeting you, are likely targeting you simply because you aren't accepted in their clique and thus harassing you is a mechanism for the individuals involved to gain support from other members of their Social-Circle without being ridiculed as many people tend to avoid sources they're uncertain and thus uncomfortable with. I'm assuming, then, that you're feeling insecure due to the consistent insults you've received and perceive yourself as inferior, which would be completely incorrect. Though this may certainly be difficult to comprehend at the current duration of time, each individual has characteristics that vary from another person, the people bullying you are likely attempting to make their "Friends" perceive them as 'good' as a method of increasing self-confidence that they may be lacking. I'd highly suggest that you communicate with someone you trust about the situation and attempt to adapt how you perceive the issues involving yourself, although you may be receiving insults, you certainly aren't inferior and shouldn't consistently be aggressively criticized.
Re: Bullying is not cool,its serious
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#150249495Saturday, November 22, 2014 10:35 PM CST
Alright. While it's certainly accurate that "Bullying" is a rather persistent problem that certainly does requires awareness and management to appropriately handle the problem, creating a thread on an internet forum such as this certainly won't provide a solution to the problem and it's likely going to cause aggressive and unnecessary arguing. If you want to reduce the quantity of "Bullying" occurring then I would suggest that you communicate with people outside of a screen and utilize a website oriented towards problems such as this as it's a significant more effective strategy.
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#153258496Sunday, January 04, 2015 1:10 PM CST
"Bullying" is entirely capable of affecting an individual for many years afterwards as the individual themselves will recall the events eventually. The degree of psychological damage depends on the kind of bullying and how the individual perceives the situation; Recurrent bullying will eventually alter the psychological state of the targeted individual, regardless of the extremity due to the simple fact that the person is consistently enduring psychologically harmful reminders of how the individual(s) bullying them perceive the person, the degree of psychological effect increases once you consider the individual's actual perception of the bully and the social circumstances toppled with the duration of time the individual is bullied. Many individuals who suffer a sufficient quantity of bullying during childhood often develop psychologically instability as the "Painful" memories eventually begin to dominate their perception of other humans with effects ranging from vendettas against socially-adapt and "Accepted" humans in general and development of narcissistic personality traits(Nearly always the eventual result of an inferiority-complex), to a significant degree of self-perceived inferiority that can result in the inability to psychologically connect with adjacent individuals due to fear of disapproval stemming from irrational thoughts and trigger the development of usually lifelong disorders such as "Depression".
 
She is close to shit tier 3/10 ,pretty ugly bitch,very sad story bro and very relatable


Re: lmao my dad who's been away for like most of my life
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#158661030Thursday, March 26, 2015 1:27 AM CDT
Biologically, fertilization occurred, and that certainly wasn't a mistake. It would seem that your father is using you as a target for his own issues, likely out of internal psychological conflict for his abandonment of his offspring. Personally, I would suggest communicating with a trained professional in psychology about this as the situation is apparently causing you distress due to your lack of parental acceptance.
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#150854133Sunday, November 30, 2014 8:34 PM CST
"problem is I've cut off contacts with everyone outside my family except for a select group of people once a month at a club meeting so yeah" I would suggest attempting to retrieve an assessment from a qualified psychologist.
u live for?

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#182817833Monday, February 01, 2016 1:07 AM CST
Well TheMagentaDelight, your evident naivety is rather astounding, and repulsive. The concept of "living for family" is certainly existent. It is the product of the natural hedonistic-inclinations shared mutually between all human individuals. Relatives provide many individuals with a mechanism to receive self-pleasure via reassurance/assistance from external people. That is why they are so heavily celebrated.
 
Bullying destroyed my self image I think about the stuff those guys said and the times I was beat up pretty often and it translates into my misfortune with women I have no confidence or "game" (even though that's not the most important factor by any margin). I don't even want to leave the damn house these days because this world drives me fucking nuts and want to go ER with my characters fists (In the videogame GTA 5)
 
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When I was a four-year-old, my parents and I lived in a duplex, where my father would hit Mother and damage the walls, resulting in holes near a wooden desk she used for sewing. I recall pouring soap in my eyes at this age to stop them from arguing.

When we moved, my father would regularly come home and argue with Mother over anything he disliked. He broke the windows in our living room as well as the windows in our kitchen, he broke a "Leopard Statue", he broke our kitchen table, he broke plates, he threw Mother's computer and clothes into the garbage bin. He'd regularly pound on Mother's room door(Used for crafts). He'd yell at Mother as he was driving her to work.

One day, Mother was asked by my father to write a check, which she did. However, he was angry because she was drying off after a shower. This led him to shove her onto the floor(She was naked) and kick her legs repeatedly, which I was present for and saw. He also broke her fingers and cut her knuckles, injured her knees and kicked her abdomen. Our utilities were cut off three times due to failure to pay, and the result was living with my paternal grandparents for weeks at a time. On the day we moved in with my maternal grandparents, me and Mother sat in the dark since my father didn't pay the utility bill("Well, then leave"; he left the house after yelling, which I hid from).
 
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I've got serious C-PTSD due to molestation at age 7. It definitely contributed to my arrested development, together with the autism, ugliness, poverty, ADD, bad parenting etc.
CPTSD is far more widespread than bus-catching.

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I was an anxious fifteen-year-old with MDD and GAD. Each day, I was filled with crippling anxiety/"hazy depression" and would often start "shaking" on the way to group therapy. They gave me stress balls so I would stop fidgeting with my hands during therapy time. Still, the group psychologist considered me "NT" and often criticized me for my failure to make eye contact with other people in the room/failure to speak to other group youth(Social cue problems).

Note that I had no friends or associates outside of group therapy and yet was being asked to pander to a pretty White lass with shallow thinking. This was during a time when I was being verbally and physically abused by one of my parents for being unable to function like NTs.
 
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I have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria from ASD/ADHD. In those days, this was the sort of personality I had:

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My father would often denigrate me for my autistic traits and sometimes hit me. I was a heavily-depressed/anxious "puppet" for Normies to string around. I wasn't even comfortable with asking to go to the bathroom or looking around the therapy room due to fear of criticism.
 
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#184134660Monday, February 22, 2016 2:00 AM CST
Well, I suppose that you could use the "f = m * a" formula to calculate the necessary quantity of force. ROBLOX provides the "GetMass()" method to calculate the mass of an object. You may be able to use something such as this: Obj = Environment.Game.Object; Acceleration = 5.8; Force = Obj:GetMass() * Acceleration;

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Like for example a decent 7/10 or 6/10 tall guy was raped as a kid and as a result they develop ptsd as an adult do you think that would make it over for them or do you think they would still mog personally i think being raped as a kid can ruin your life and will make everyone see you as a weirdo no matter i you're tall and a 9/10 because you wont be able to hold a conversation or have a good enough social life like everyone else
im sure he’d suffer because of it but that wouldn’t make him incel. Women love those psychologically damaged good looking guys jfl
 
im sure he’d suffer because of it but that wouldn’t make him incel. Women love those psychologically damaged good looking guys jfl

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My mother, as kind as she may be, used to grab me very forcefully(By the neck, as I was fidgeting with items; I would ache from it) and repeatedly tell me "Do you hear me!?! If people see you doing that, they will think you are men-tally retar-ded!" while shaking me and shaking the item near my eyes. She would tell me how embarrassing it is to have an autistic son who fidgets with items as a form of stimulation. Other times, she would hit me. When I said, "Please don't hit me!" once, she started laughing.

She displayed a pattern of "circular reasoning" that I tried to explain to my psychologist at the age of fifteen. It was futile, though.

Yes, very true. My mother used to criticize my autistic behavior.

She would say "I was 'square' myself as a child, but your behavior is weird. You are w-e-i-r-d", "I'm embarrassed to have a son that 'does this'(Making fidgeting gestures)", "Please! I don't care about your anxiety. Do you want to live on the streets?"(When I was too anxious to leave my room, or In response to her loss of items, which she blamed on me, the most convenient target for her anger)

My grandmother would often ask me to do things for her. I obediently tried to follow her instructions and received denigration as a result. She would yell at me and say things like "Look! Use your eyes!"(Because I was anxious and had visual processing issues), "Did you hear me!?! That isn't the way I told you to do it!"(When I would drop things or make mistakes because I was sweating and anxious out of fear of upsetting her). She would tell me "Put your head up. No one did anything to you" because I was too anxious to make eye contact with her.

When I was a young child, I'd sit with Mother and she would tell me about her negative experiences. She was working from early night to early morning.

Yes. Most people view me as an incompetent young child due to my height, ASD symptoms and stuttering problem. Femoids of my age assume I am 12-15(I'm 23+). Laughed/gazed at "weirdly" many times.

Anyway....I've always been socially dissociated. I remain in my apartment to avoid denigration.
 
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I've had severe anxiety for most of my life. A decade ago, I would wake up each day with tingling/rushing sensations throughout my body and crippling depression. "Going through the motions" was how I lived. I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder in group therapy.


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#182375885Monday, January 25, 2016 4:45 AM CST
"Can you feel anything during astral projection?" Yes. You can feel the molecules surrounding you dissipating in a gradual manner. "Does your astral body get out of your physical body automatically?" Not quite, it is a process of gradual ascension. You can only reach complete ascension if you envision an abstract realm separate from reality.
Re: i didn't even know my cousin is getting married tomorrow
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#149376977Saturday, November 08, 2014 4:16 AM CST
Hopefully you enjoy the events surrounding your relatives then.
Re: I hope none of my family members pass before their time.
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#151140918Friday, December 05, 2014 3:45 PM CST
Perhaps you simply have a significant degree of loneliness that has resulted in your extensive emotional attachment to your relatives? Although it's certainly understandable, It's important to have a durable realization that any sudden occurrences could result in unexpected and potentially life-altering effects and thus I would suggest that you attempt to maintain a positive relationship with them while making sure to prevent yourself from becoming too psychologically dependent on them.
 
Exactly.

I was told to chat with my maternal grandmother - Someone who criticized me for my (at the time) inability to speak to her comfortably, which later became stuttering.

"Talk? Can't you talk?"

"Stop speaking in such a high-pitched voice"

"Speak up!"

"Speak louder"

"I don't know why he can't talk" (To Mother; Post-Stuttering)

"You can speak to your mother, can't you? Then you can speak to me normally"

"Talk!"


No. Holes are not deities.

My grandmother told me to travel with my half-relatives. I knew they were feigning respect and I disliked them greatly.

Yes...if only I was fortunate enough to lay back like Alexandria and Neisha in the home of their grandmother, enjoying SNAP, TANF and constant trips to Pick-N-Save.

Sadly, I was not...I was born into the home of two quarreling parents, who preferred violent acts over peaceful words.


I'd always cringe when Mother would become upset in public. My maternal grandmother taught her well.

With Larry's presence, she may have had more success.

Mother and I lived with my grandmother and step-grandfather for several years.

My grandmother would often denigrate me for being anxious. Once, she was choking, and I disregarded it, so she referred to me as "Brain Damaged".
 
Thats probably the only real trauma thats hard to recover from everything else is easy

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