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Loficell

Loficell

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I think so. It's basically unfair how little of a chance I got from the start. With my mom and 3 sisters, I was constantly surrounded by females my whole life. Inherently that weakened me and of course the men I encountered my whole life could sense that. I was never bullied in the traditional sense but I was pittied and ignored.

I can't but help blame my father's genes for holding me back. He's a weak oriental man, honestly wouldn't be surprised if he's an actual cuckold. He spends his days wageslaving away to fund my two younger sisters and mother (my older sister found her own orbiter now). No matter how much I try my asian side will always hold me back from succeeding. From birth I was already less of a man. I'm overly short, I'm scrawny as all hell, and lack masculintiy as a whole. Sometimes I dream that if my father had tried even a little raise me as man things would've turned out different. Or better yet, if I had some source of masculinity to bring me up.

It's pathetic. It's worse knowing none of this effect my sisters or mother, instead I'm the only who has to bear this burden.
 
No amount of good upbringing can change your genes. But I guess a blackpilled father could give you hgh, that could make you taller and more masculine.
 
Doesnt matter even if you were surrounded by guys. It is the responsibility of the dad to blackpill his son. My dad didnt and thats why i ended up here. I was bluepilled and told that studying and earning a good living is the only way to attract a woman. Curry soyciety bluepills men from a young age. It is a machine that produces weak men who are born, wageslave their whole lives and then die.
 
I regret my father never beat the living shit out of me and kick me out when I was 18.
 
Bro , all male children need a mentor to guide them when they hit puberty and prepare them for adult life . But non of us sadly have any mentor .
 
We all need a true Jedi master.
 
I regret my father never beat the living shit out of me and kick me out when I was 18.
high IQ. I think the biggest low inhib chad is a dude whos mother was pump and dumped by a chad, the father left and his chadlet son grows up with a violent street gang as a father figure. nothing can beat this combo.
 
Doesnt matter even if you were surrounded by guys. It is the responsibility of the dad to blackpill his son. My dad didnt and thats why i ended up here. I was bluepilled and told that studying and earning a good living is the only way to attract a woman. Curry soyciety bluepills men from a young age. It is a machine that produces weak men who are born, wageslave their whole lives and then die.

That's true...my dad was too hopefull and refuse to teach me reality. If I knew how bad life was gonna be I seriously would've roped before I even hit high school.
 
no father for your face
 
I doubt it. Even if Chuck Norris was your mentor, society would always see you as a rat because of your looks
 
It's over for order66cels
Why did my broskis cloneskis have to kill my blue waifu :cryfeels:
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No, it was better for my parents to divorce, though I do have a chadlite stepfather. (not related)
 
It would not made a difference
 
No, it was better for my parents to divorce, though I do have a chadlite stepfather. (not related)

How are you alive? I couldn't cope with even a lite mogging me at my own home constantly tbh.
 
No, my looks would still make me unattractive.
 
Nope, what's holding me back is simply my looks.
 
if I was raised by a strong man I'd have realistic expectations in life, confidence and discipline growing up and would pick up skills such as working with my hands, how to fight and how to drive at a way earlier age. however you look at it getting raised by a intelligent, competent father gives you actual life skills that will be put to use.

getting raised by single mother on the other hand grants you paranoia, being a pussy who avoids all risks even the ones you need to take when you're a child to have a complete healthy growth as a humanbeing psychologically, no money because women spend shit on clothing, jewelry and accessories and don't give you enough allowance for you to do anything with, unrealistic expectations and having a breakdown when those expectations are not met. women raise people like themselves and men do the same thing. I was unlucky because I was raised by a single mother who never figured out how life worked, never saved any money for me or did anything with her life besides going on trips and wasting all her money on chocolate, other delicacies and jewelry.
 
Only if my dad bring me a female.
 
upbringing is everything
 
Most fathers are bad at raising their sons and recognizing early on that there is a problem and their son is struggling. They simply go into denial mode and bluepill themselves that you are awkward, shy and late bloomer but they never give advice just leave on your own to figure things out and by the time you are an adult its already over.

If I ever get to reproduce and have son I'll take him escortceling if he is virgin at age 18
 
How are you alive? I couldn't cope with even a lite mogging me at my own home constantly tbh.
tbh, I think it's a bit different since he's become like my real dad. My mom was a stacy in her prime years, but when its family its kinda different
 
No, this is complete cope. I know plenty of Chads who come from broken homes, literally has no effect on their success with women.
 
To some degree. My dad is there, but he’s still learning himself how to be a dad because he himself didn’t really have a dad when growing up, only an uncle (who turned out to be gay and died from an STD in the 80s), so theres that. I can’t blame my dad tbh.
 
No amount of good upbringing can change your genes. But I guess a blackpilled father could give you hgh, that could make you taller and more masculine.
and no amount of good upbringing can change foid hypergamy..unless foids are educated on how damaging their own nature is.
 
Doesnt matter even if you were surrounded by guys. It is the responsibility of the dad to blackpill his son. My dad didnt and thats why i ended up here. I was bluepilled and told that studying and earning a good living is the only way to attract a woman. Curry soyciety bluepills men from a young age. It is a machine that produces weak men who are born, wageslave their whole lives and then die.
Biggest truth ever. Was told as a kid “just do good in school and earn more and you’ll get more and better girls than the white people”
 
Male guidance wouldn't change my shitty genes. Look at Meeks, father was a nigger criminal.
 
No, this is cope. Tons of tyrones come from single moms. All that matters is genes. My brother and I were raised the same, and yet he lived the normie life because he had a 4.5/10 face and I rotted in my basement because I had 1/10 facial bones.
 
No I had a dad and 5 brothers. It's OVER
 
I too lacked a father figure for the most part. I was raised mainly by my mom, grandmother and aunts. My grandfather was there for a while but I was still a child when he died. But I don't think that's the main reason for my inceldom at all.

With a present father figure I could have turned more low inhib or something, but that wouldn't change my ugly face.
I too lacked a father figure for the most part. I was raised mainly by my mom, grandmother and aunts. My grandfather was there for a while but I was still a child when he died. But I don't think that's the main reason for my inceldom at all.

With a present father figure I could have turned more low inhib or something, but that wouldn't change my ugly face.
 
Do you think a lot of our problems would have been solved if we just had real male guidance when young


Yes. If that male guidance was in the form of a male cosmetic surgeon.

Cliffs:

Rhinoplastyy-255.jpg





Also for the LULZ...

British Teen Spends US$26,000 On Cosmetic Surgery To Look Like David Beckham


british-teen-spends-26000-on-cosmetic-surgery-to-look-like-d_ze3b.jpg


 
I think so. It's basically unfair how little of a chance I got from the start. With my mom and 3 sisters, I was constantly surrounded by females my whole life. Inherently that weakened me and of course the men I encountered my whole life could sense that. I was never bullied in the traditional sense but I was pittied and ignored.

I can't but help blame my father's genes for holding me back. He's a weak oriental man, honestly wouldn't be surprised if he's an actual cuckold. He spends his days wageslaving away to fund my two younger sisters and mother (my older sister found her own orbiter now). No matter how much I try my asian side will always hold me back from succeeding. From birth I was already less of a man. I'm overly short, I'm scrawny as all hell, and lack masculintiy as a whole. Sometimes I dream that if my father had tried even a little raise me as man things would've turned out different. Or better yet, if I had some source of masculinity to bring me up.

It's pathetic. It's worse knowing none of this effect my sisters or mother, instead I'm the only who has to bear this burden.
Chad and tyrones are born in single parent broken home and probably abused but since they got the face they get females easily
Doesnt matter even if you were surrounded by guys. It is the responsibility of the dad to blackpill his son. My dad didnt and thats why i ended up here. I was bluepilled and told that studying and earning a good living is the only way to attract a woman. Curry soyciety bluepills men from a young age. It is a machine that produces weak men who are born, wageslave their whole lives and then die.
Curry parents have the perfect mindset to produce wagecel slaves for society
 
Doesnt matter even if you were surrounded by guys. It is the responsibility of the dad to blackpill his son. My dad didnt and thats why i ended up here. I was bluepilled and told that studying and earning a good living is the only way to attract a woman. Curry soyciety bluepills men from a young age. It is a machine that produces weak men who are born, wageslave their whole lives and then die.
rhtally on point. they. train us to be dogs or society from birth to death.
 
We all need a true Jedi master.
The closest i had was a old antique store clerk buddy who's favorite thing to say was...

"FOG PROWLER!"

Dude loved saying that over and over! He laughed and laughed and laughed!

It's was creepy and funny...
 
cope. It might've made things a bit better but you would still be an incel at the end of the day
 
Yes. If that male guidance was in the form of a male cosmetic surgeon.

Cliffs:

Rhinoplastyy-255.jpg





Also for the LULZ...

British Teen Spends US$26,000 On Cosmetic Surgery To Look Like David Beckham


british-teen-spends-26000-on-cosmetic-surgery-to-look-like-d_ze3b.jpg


He needs to lose weight first!
 

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