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Do you talk to friends or family

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copemaxx9002

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I don't tbh that much
 
I talk to my online friends, but rarely with my family. There's not much I can get from those normies who are ignorant ( and purposely so) to the current condition
 
I talk to my online friends, but rarely with my family. There's not much I can get from those normies who are ignorant ( and purposely so) to the current condition
lucky u have online friends who care about u
 
Yeah, I talk to my mother, uncle, and grandfather regularly. Can't avoid talking to my mother because I live in the same house, lol. She's always arguing with me that I need to put myself out there more. She doesn't understand how hard it is as an undesirable man nowadays. I technically have two friends, but we see each other so infrequently, it barely matters. I'm lucky to see either of them once a month. I have a few brocels I talk to in DMs on here regularly though.
 
Yeah, I talk to my mother, uncle, and grandfather regularly. Can't avoid talking to my mother because I live in the same house, lol. She's always arguing with me that I need to put myself out there more. She doesn't understand how hard it is as an undesirable man nowadays. I technically have two friends, but we see each other so infrequently, it barely matters. I'm lucky to see either of them once a month. I have a few brocels I talk to in DMs on here regularly though.
That's nice man. Yeah your mom will probably never get it.
 
I talk to my online friends sometimes, just my mom, dad, and cousin. I have no friends irl and my old friends from school are all gone and moved their own path in life
 
That's nice man. Yeah your mom will probably never get it.
She will not get it. She does understand partially why it's so hard to make friends though because she seems to have Asperger's and never had any actual friends as long as I can remember though. What she cannot comprehend is why I can't get a gf. For her, relationships were always easy to get despite it being hard for her to make female friends. Right now she is a 59 year old 230 pound obese woman, and many guys still try to start conversations with her despite her having no interest in sex or romantic stuff anymore. I am objectively way better looking than she currently is, so she can't understand why it's so hard for me when even she could effortlessly get a guy if she wanted to
 
Yes I talk to my IRL friend group quite often same for my family
 
I talk to my online friends sometimes, just my mom, dad, and cousin. I have no friends irl and my old friends from school are all gone and moved their own path in life
Is your cousin a male or female? I also have cousins, but they live so far away, I only see them at family funerals usually
 
0 friends. Talk with family members only when they initiate a conversation
 
I barely have 2 friends and struggle to hang out with either of them once a month. They never met either, so no friend group. I genuinely couldn't imagine being part of an actual friend group and not be the complete outcast
 
I barely have 2 friends and struggle to hang out with either of them once a month. They never met either, so no friend group. I genuinely couldn't imagine being part of an actual friend group and not be the complete outcast
Life is chiller alone anyways
 
Is this sarcasm? If not, mogs me for having an IRL friend group.
It’s not, I already stated that I am neurotypical, I do have a IRL friend group, we play video games together, go outside together, play sports togethe etc… I am unable to get women due to me being ugly (@Lonelyus, @Jason Voorhees , @K1ng N0th1ng , @Cayden Zhang) all said I’m sub5 when I showed them my face in pms and Im short (5’4). I’m not autistic or anything.
 
No. I only talk to my mom rarely
 
It’s not, I already stated that I am neurotypical, I do have a IRL friend group, we play video games together, go outside together, play sports togethe etc… I am unable to get women due to me being ugly (@Lonelyus, @Jason Voorhees , @K1ng N0th1ng , @Cayden Zhang) all said I’m sub5 when I showed them my face in pms and Im short (5’4). I’m not autistic or anything.
Just goes to show in your case that your personality is absolutely not the problem. Don't let anyone gaslight you and say it is. I know for me, my autism contributes a lot to failing romantically and socially. Good for you though to have a friend group. Do you actually feel respected and like a real part of the group? I felt like an outcast from all friend groups I was in even in elementary school. Never had a friend group after 5th grade and haven't had a female friend since 4th-5th grade. Jfl, one time we were playing hide and seek at a classmates birthday party in 5th grade, and they forget I was even playing so didn't bother to look for me. I had enough of it, so I asked the parents if I could walk their dog. They let me. When I came back from he dog walk, even this kid's older sister told me that I look lonely and asked if I was alright. I just said I was fine. My autism and effects of being outcasted were visible to a complete stranger who never saw me before that. Absolutely brutal NTpill
 
I only talk with my mother and father but that will change when I move out
 
Good for you though to have a friend group. Do you actually feel respected and like a real part of the group?
Yes, genuinely though. There’s just one dude (We’re 12) in that group I don’t like cuz he often makes fun of my looks and we had beef at some point and my friends forced him to apologize to me.

Jfl, one time we were playing hide and seek at a classmates birthday party in 5th grade, and they forget I was even playing so didn't bother to look for me.
I’m sorry man this is fucking brutal, you don’t deserve this bro. That’s fucked up.

Just goes to show in your case that your personality is absolutely not the problem. Don't let anyone gaslight you and say it is. I know for me, my autism contributes a lot to failing romantically and socially. Good for you though to have a friend group. Do you actually feel respected and like a real part of the group? I felt like an outcast from all friend groups I was in even in elementary school. Never had a friend group after 5th grade and haven't had a female friend since 4th-5th grade. Jfl, one time we were playing hide and seek at a classmates birthday party in 5th grade, and they forget I was even playing so didn't bother to look for me. I had enough of it, so I asked the parents if I could walk their dog. They let me. When I came back from he dog walk, even this kid's older sister told me that I look lonely and asked if I was alright. I just said I was fine. My autism and effects of being outcasted were visible to a complete stranger who never saw me before that. Absolutely brutal NTpill
Very brutal to read brocel, how do you cope with inceldom being this lonely holy fuck bro. I cope with my friends but being lonely to this extent has to be extremely depressing. I genuinely hope you can ascend and have a happy ending fuck this clown world. Serial killers get pussy and 100s of fans while being absolute garbage.
 
Yes, genuinely though. There’s just one dude (We’re 12) in that group I don’t like cuz he often makes fun of my looks and we had beef at some point and my friends forced him to apologize to me.
They sound like good friends to stick up for you. Really glad you have that. Just don't take it for granted because I would love to have some decent friends. I'm rotting alone almost 24/7 anymore now that my dad died. He was my best friend and we did lots of cool car stuff together. Now, I'm doing all that shit alone too and have to fix my riding mowers at the cabin myself. Many projects are very tricky and require 2 people to do easily and I literally have nobody that can help. I have to somehow replace an engine in a lawn tractor myself (engines are very labor intensive to swap). My mother can sometimes help a tad, but I'm mostly on my own. I really wish I had some friends to go hang out with and do stuff. Just today, there was some local free concert, and I had nobody to go with. I rode my bike there and it was alright, but it's not the same alone
I’m sorry man this is fucking brutal, you don’t deserve this bro. That’s fucked up.
Thanks man.
Very brutal to read brocel, how do you cope with inceldom being this lonely holy fuck bro. I cope with my friends but being lonely to this extent has to be extremely depressing. I genuinely hope you can ascend and have a happy ending fuck this clown world. Serial killers get pussy and 100s of fans while being absolute garbage.
It's hard to cope. I try to keep myself somewhat occupied with car projects and tractor projects, and also video games. There are some online multiplayer car driving games I join and troll people in the chat section, lmao. I also join under the username ™ S L Ã ¥ Ë R ™ and ram other players with the big truck in the game and push them into the water sometimes. It's a good cope tbh. Hopefully I can ascend at some point. MY standards aren't even high. I'd dat a 300 pound fatty, a 3/10 face girl with a decent body, or a woman 20 years older than me.
 
They sound like good friends to stick up for you. Really glad you have that. Just don't take it for granted because I would love to have some decent friends. I'm rotting alone almost 24/7 anymore now that my dad died. He was my best friend and we did lots of cool car stuff together. Now, I'm doing all that shit alone too and have to fix my riding mowers at the cabin myself. Many projects are very tricky and require 2 people to do easily and I literally have nobody that can help. I have to somehow replace an engine in a lawn tractor myself (engines are very labor intensive to swap). My mother can sometimes help a tad, but I'm mostly on my own. I really wish I had some friends to go hang out with and do stuff. Just today, there was some local free concert, and I had nobody to go with. I rode my bike there and it was alright, but it's not the same alone

Thanks man.

It's hard to cope. I try to keep myself somewhat occupied with car projects and tractor projects, and also video games. There are some online multiplayer car driving games I join and troll people in the chat section, lmao. I also join under the username ™ S L Ã ¥ Ë R ™ and ram other players with the big truck in the game and push them into the water sometimes. It's a good cope tbh. Hopefully I can ascend at some point. MY standards aren't even high. I'd dat a 300 pound fatty, a 3/10 face girl with a decent body, or a woman 20 years older than me.
Brutal I’m sorry for your loss brocel. Yup I really hope you can ascend at some point with a girl who loves you. Can you tell me what are those driving games brah
 
friends yes
family no
 
Brutal I’m sorry for your loss brocel. Yup I really hope you can ascend at some point with a girl who loves you. Can you tell me what are those driving games brah
I appreciate it man. The games are just Crash Simulator Multiplayer on the site playhop and Free Rally Vice on Crazygames (map is based on gta vice city in this one, but the cars aren't as good because it's a free game, lol). In the Free Rally Vice game, I take the big tow truck and ram the other players. Some players actually know me and get scared when I join sometimes, lol
 
How old is she? Do you hang out frequently and do anything fun, or not really?
Nope, and unlike me, she’s in a relationship in her 20s not very attractive though. I just talk to her in WhatsApp because we kinda have a brother and sister bond. I only talk to her once a month though. We don’t hang out because we live far away from each other. So I haven’t seen her for a few years
 
Nope, and unlike me, she’s in a relationship in her 20s not very attractive though. I just talk to her in WhatsApp because we kinda have a brother and sister bond. I only talk to her once a month though. We don’t hang out because we live far away from each other. So I haven’t seen her for a few years
Brutal
 
I have a few beers with my dad and uncle regularly.
 
i talk to my mother because i live with her,dont talk to any other family
dont have any irl friends
 
Some but only because I have to.
 
Only my parents and surviving grandparents.
 
That’s part of moving out and away from family unfortunately, you just don’t bond as close as when you live in the same location
Yep, sadly this is true
 

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