Hello Lurker/Reporter/Research student/Academic/Visitor from IncelTear/Whoever you are. I am glad you asked, and I'll gladly try to answer
No, I don't hate women. What I feel is resentment. And you called part of the reason why I feel this way towards them. I most certainly hate myself more than I hate women, though, however.......
I most definitely hate beta simp guys more than anything
In addition, aside from resentment, I don't have much respect for most women, reasons being:
- Their double standards (wanting men to pay for everything even if they have a decent paying job/thinking they can hit men all the want but a man isn't supposed to defend himself because "I'm a girl")
- The fact that many of them turn down average looking guys with genuinely great personalities in favor of criminal dirtbags because they're tall, hot, "exciting", etc.
- Their lack of accountability and tendency to blame failures on sexism/misogyny (one example of many: major in engineering, switch majors because of the difficulty, and say the major is full of toxic incels)
- I hate the fact that they tend to lie -- pathologically and pointlessly. A lot. I've caught women in lies many times (incl family members); I have an extremely difficult time trusting a woman's word for that reason
Partly answered, but I never felt respected by women and was treated poorly by then, from childhood until now. For the past few years, I've become a gymcel and have seen results; now, I don't get treated as badly but they do look at me with distrust, as my gym gains have changed me from a skinny-fat goblin to an orc. There's no gym for your face or height (I'm 5'7)
Rejection after rejection, both in person and on dating apps/sites. I ignored my gut for years and kept listening to well meaning family and peers to work on other stuff (exercise, clothes, personality) and I swear I DID, but nothing helped. Instead, the people that supposedly care about me continued to gaslight me, yet no one was honest enough to me to tell me that I'm extremely ugly, because that's not a reality that people want to admit. People kept telling me that "women are less concerned with appearance than men, men are shallower", but the reverse is true. My low ratings on sites like photofeeler sealed it.
Finding a relationship does not require work. It does not require cheesy pick up lines, or nice clothes, or gentlemanly gestures. It is looks, plain and simple. If you're a decent looking guy, you will find someone online. If a girl is interested in a guy, she will make herself available.
