I had to learn how to be an adult when i moved out of my mom's place at age 40 (she finally got on my nerves too much). It was a stressful time. Like I got my first car and had to learn how to maintain it and stuff (buying insurance, car wash, getting oil changed, regularly checking tire pressure, etc.). I got my drivers license at 16 but I hardly ever drove until age 40, but even now I don't drive much, I don't like driving, it's kinda scary. Also had to learn how to rent an apartment and sign up for utilities and wash dishes and use the garbage disposal correctly. I knew how to do laundry because I did it sometimes in college.
I don't really know how to cook. My mom was a pretty good cook, but I just make spaghetti (you just boil noodles and heat up the jarred sauce) or heat something up in the oven or microwave from a package.
I'm not dumb i just had to get up to speed on this stuff that people usually start doing at age 18 or 22. Imagine me trying to do romance for the first time with zero experience

(age 40+ KHHV+touchless+dateless).