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Discussion Do you have 'social anxiety'?

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Loooook, I do. I do, I guess? Hm, I don't really want to interact with anyone unless I am 100% forced by my parents -- that was very common during my teenage years (my parents wanted me to go to the public pool and other places; initiating phone conversations with classmates while I wanted the complete opposite: staying indoors). So, yes. I do experience anxiety when being put in undesirable social situations where my input is required or, sometimes, ignored by the other parties.

Now, forming up friendships with other peers of my age is nothing of my interest despite my desire of experiencing 'love' with a woman (do not mistake with procreation): kissing (oxytocin), etc. But, as we all know, having a social circle (social network) is, unfortunately, quite necessary if you really desire the achievement of doing 'things' with a 'girlfriend'. I hate the way you're forced to do things you don't really like, but it's what it is! I - hate - livvvvvvvinbg.
 
it's what it is
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tbh
 
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I guess its more so embarrassment cause I can't pick up on social ques and shit so I end up looking retarded.
 
I guess its more so embarrassment cause I can't pick up on social ques and shit so I end up looking retarded.
What do you mean by 'social clues'? Could you provide examples? I've learnt to use the finger like the 'jihadi' fighters you see on filmography propaganda when doing threatening talk and/or mentioning religious figures but that's all, I guess. Of course, there are ome other gestures I've unconsciously picked up after constant exposure in high school setting... if you include the no gestures like this one:

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Part of these gestures aren't natural outputs, at least the majority of them. I tend to do gestures consciously (manually) -- just like arm swinging, but I end up putting both hands into my pockets instead.
 
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Yeah, very much. I avoid every social interaction if i can. If im around people, i feel nervous and tense and count minutes until i can go home to be alone. If i could i would never leave my house.
 
What is there to elaborate? There is no such thing as mental illness.
What's your source to back such controversial claims, dear renowned clinician with > 130 IQ?
 
f i could i would never leave my house.
The bad thing I really hate (the feel of depression) is anhedonia, boredom. My anhedonia kicked in once I left a low-dose Risperidone (2020).
 
What's your source to back such controversial claims, dear renowned scientist with > 130 IQ?
This "mental illness" narrative is used to sell you hormonal drugs to lower your testosterone. If you feel bad - there is a reason for it and you should either fix it or accept it as unfixable. As for your "Science" argument, these "scientists" are the ones who suddenly decided that ACTUALLY trannies are totally valid and are actually able to change gender.
 
I used to petrified of socialising in my school days of HS

I have grown out of it now, but I find people obnoxious and myself inept to engage, and I uncomfortable because I know what I am and where I rank in soyciety
 
Retard, as I have said, my point is that there is no such thing as mental illness.
You're an AQdite pork piece of shit. Where's your Egyptian webinar emir? Who's leading your group? I hope you get destroyed in Tombouctou.
 
It's more the way incels are treated by their peers at school and later that develops the "social anxiety" in the first place I think.

Normies and foids with it do fine still in life, foids can have anything wrong and have relationships, sex, opportunities for good jobs etc compared to equivalent males though.

I used to think I had it, but it was there constantly. So it was more avoidant personality disorder, which is basically just protecting yourself from the negative outcomes anyway after a while.
 
The bad thing I really hate (the feel of depression) is anhedonia, boredom. My anhedonia kicked in once I left a low-dose Risperidone (2020).
I had to google that tbh. Lately i also dont find pleasure in anything. Best i can do is to feel peaceful without being nervous, which requires to avoid people since they hate me.

Yesterday i dropped my nephew to school and both the cleaning "lady" and his teacher yelled at me, like wth, why are normies so angry? Fuck them.
 
I used to think I had it, but it was there constantly. So it was more avoidant personality disorder, which is basically just protecting yourself from the negative outcomes anyway after a while.
I think my feeling of 'anxiety' came from the fact that I was left alone with nothing to do (recess, the break between classes?) in an undesirable setting. It's like putting a pinguin in the middle of the Arabian Peninsula desert.
 
Yesterday i dropped my nephew to school and both the cleaning "lady" and his teacher yelled at me, like wth, why are normies so angry? Fuck them.
Maybe we're seeing the end of our current civilization. Most people seem to be angered by something; you can spot decadence in every part of society, etc. It's like someone is speeding up the 'process'.
 
What do you mean by 'social clues'? Could you provide examples? I've learnt to use the finger like the 'jihadi' fighters you see on filmography propaganda when doing threatening talk and/or mentioning religious figures but that's all, I guess. Of course, there are ome other gestures I've unconsciously picked up after constant exposure in high school setting... if you include the no gestures like this one:
Its more like things like tone and body language, when I would try to get foids apparently doing things like crossing your arms or legs or certain tones means your making them uncomfortable, I would also make jokes that were inappropriate and end up getting called to the principals office
 
social anxiety can be a pain, because normies will treat you like shit for not fitting in, and that just compounds it

good luck dealing with it
 
sofial anksietsy akshually meaqns you are ugly and no one wanted to socialize with u
 
Yeah i have severe anxiety for over a decade now due to years and years of mistreatment and bullying growing up
 
There is no such thing as mental illness.
That's what a sheltered,coddled Andrew tate dickrider would say.
Trucels know that anxiety is real because they experience it first hand
 
That's what a sheltered,coddled Andrew tate dickrider would say.
Trucels know that anxiety is real because they experience it first hand
Anxiety is not a mental illness you fucking brown subhuman. It's simply a feeling. Now, if you believe that you have "anxiety disorder" or something - you are just coping.
 
if you believe that you have "anxiety disorder" or something - you are just coping.
Said the sheltered ,privileged cumskin
 
Anxiety is not a mental illness you fucking brown subhuman. It's simply a feeling. Now, if you believe that you have "anxiety disorder" or something - you are just coping.
Fakecel GrAY moment
 
I think I'll be enrolling in that college. Everyone wants to join in. AFAIK, it's part of the Ivy League. Also, tuition fees are not really that expensive.
 
To some extend yes but I think its more that I know my presence isn't wanted so I don't bother with other people. When you're ugly and you've been treated like you're ugly and unwanted, then that's your brains default status.
 
Yeah, very much. I avoid every social interaction if i can. If im around people, i feel nervous and tense and count minutes until i can go home to be alone. If i could i would never leave my house.
I act similar but I feel like a loser/mama's boy afterwards.
 
I act similar but I feel like a loser/mama's boy afterwards.
Same, when people treat you like that, its inevitable. Sometimes i wonder if people think im mentally challenged /retarded.
 
Sometimes i wonder if people think im mentally challenged /retarded.
Probably they do. Not everyone, of course.
If you don't act like typical NT normie, people assume that there is something wrong with you.
 
Social anxiety has meant i am virtually unemployable
 
Yes I do.
Have you tried benzos?

It's more the way incels are treated by their peers at school and later that develops the "social anxiety" in the first place I think.

Normies and foids with it do fine still in life, foids can have anything wrong and have relationships, sex, opportunities for good jobs etc compared to equivalent males though.

I used to think I had it, but it was there constantly. So it was more avoidant personality disorder, which is basically just protecting yourself from the negative outcomes anyway after a while.
At the mental ward I was at, all the young foids had a boyfriend. While none of the men did as far as I know of. It was very blackpilling.
 
Yes and no? Depends on the social situation. If something's directed toward me, like a question and a bunch of people are staring at me... than yes. If it's one-on-one, I'm usually fine... then again, I haven't talked to another human being since I quit my job a month ago, so.. I'm sure my old ways will come back.
 
Avoidant Personality Disorder.
Its torture.
 
Yep and an extreme version where I go out of my way to avoid talking to people. It's a rational mental development when you're at the bottom of the genetic barrel and everyone has treated you like garbage your whole life.

No point in socializing if you're just going to be made a fool of and at best ignored.
 

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