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do you have erectile dysfuction?

torujo

torujo

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my erections are weak af and im just 19 years old
 
Get your test levels checked.
 
No. My peepee is very healthy.
I don't fap often. Maybe once or twice a week.
 
Stop fapping @torujo
 
torujo said:
a girlfriend could help me

True.

Keep fapping to mio from k on.

Is she your waifu? She's your avi so I assume so.
 
Yes. I don't even masturbate. I could never get myself off, before or after getting cut at 25. I'd get semi's with escorts but even they would eventually die. I have wet dreams and that's all. My dick knows it is over. FML.
 
I have trouble reaching an orgasm on occasion, but that's just a side effect of my antidepressants.
 
My dick is always hard, fucking annoying as fuck. If I don't rub one out my dick bugs the fuck out of me and won't go down.
 
nah but i got a small cock
 
Legit been over a year since I've gotten an erection. Been on Spironolactone nearly a year and a half at this point so I'm sure that's why.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Legit been over a year since I've gotten an erection.  Been on Spironolactone nearly a year and a half at this point so I'm sure that's why.

and why do you take that drug now??


Minjaze said:
I have trouble reaching an orgasm on occasion, but that's just a side effect of my antidepressants.

which one?
 
nausea said:
and why do you take that drug now??

I take it for hair loss.
 
Have it. Fighting against it.

It's in the brain. My ED was caused by psychological trauma. Had a mediocre erection this morning, decided not to jerk it. Time can bring your mojo back as well as a loving girlfriend (haha).

When a breeding stallion is rejected by a mare, masturbates too much (yes) or got kicked in the groin by another horse, he might develop ED until the breeder helps the stallion make a positive experience with a mare. Very few stallions get ED from testosterone issues.

Bottom line: even Chad horses get ED and can overcome it so let's hang in there @ all guys who want to beat it.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Legit been over a year since I've gotten an erection.  Been on Spironolactone nearly a year and a half at this point so I'm sure that's why.

Did your sex drive disappear as well? Being on antidepressants did that for me, fucking sucks tbh because your general drive to do anything in life goes with it.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Legit been over a year since I've gotten an erection.  Been on Spironolactone nearly a year and a half at this point so I'm sure that's why.

So what's the point exactly? Even if you got a girlfriend you wouldn't be able to fuck her.
 
You better have as an incel
 
Framecel222 said:
So what's the point exactly? Even if you got a girlfriend you wouldn't be able to fuck her.

If I were bald I would be a 1.5/10. I'd rather people not be actively disgusted by me when I'm out in public. Right now I'm just invisible. Being invisible is MUCH better than being "repulsive". I've experienced both.

Also relationships are not about sex. It's all about validation. Even when I had a sex drive, sex was never a priority for me and I would have been happy with a sexless relationship even back then. I wouldn't be able to feel sex in a tactile sense anyway.

Female validation > everything else.

And before someone says "chads don't seek validation, that's beta!" I'll preemptively call bullshit on that. Even Chads intensely crave female validation, they just won't admit it in those terms.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
If I were bald I would be a 1.5/10. I'd rather people not be actively disgusted by me when I'm out in public. Right now I'm just invisible. Being invisible is MUCH better than being "repulsive". I've experienced both.

Fair enough.
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Also relationships are not about sex. It's all about validation. Even when I had a sex drive, sex was never a priority for me and I would have been happy with a sexless relationship even back then. I wouldn't be able to feel sex in a tactile sense anyway.

Female validation > everything else.

And before someone says "chads don't seek validation, that's beta!" I'll preemptively call bullshit on that. Even Chads intensely crave female validation, they just won't admit it in those terms.

I agree that female validation is much more important than sex, but even if you're okay with a sexless relationship, she wouldn't be. You'd get dumped very quickly.
 
Framecel222 said:
but even if you're okay with a sexless relationship, she wouldn't be. You'd get dumped very quickly.

Women don't like sex.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Women don't like sex.

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What led you to this conclusion?
 
Framecel222 said:
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What led you to this conclusion?

Which gender buys porn?
Which gender "gets headaches" and makes excuses not to have sex?
Which gender pays lots of money for sex?
Which gender avoids sex whenever possible?

I could go on but I'll say that after getting on spironolactone, my sex drive is zero.

No testosterone, no sex drive. Simple as that.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
I could go on but I'll say that after getting on spironolactone, my sex drive is zero.

Where do you even get this stuff. Can you simply buy it everywhere in the USA?
 
modus_coperandi said:
Where do you even get this stuff. Can you simply buy everywhere it in the USA?

Online pharmacies like alldaychemist carry it.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Which gender buys porn?
Which gender "gets headaches" and makes excuses not to have sex?
Which gender pays lots of money for sex?
Which gender avoids sex whenever possible?

Obviously men have higher sex drives, only the most cucked normies would deny this. This is not the same thing as "women don't like sex."

Ryo_Hazuki said:
I could go on but I'll say that after getting on spironolactone, my sex drive is zero.

No testosterone, no sex drive. Simple as that.

Right, one anecdote proves everything. You know, after I stopped taking creatine a month ago, my acne has reduced by 75%. Should I go around saying, "creatine definitively causes acne, simple as that?" Of course not. One anecdote means almost nothing. 

Testosterone is just one of many factors that affects sex drive.
 
Framecel222 said:
Obviously men have higher sex drives, only the most cucked normies would deny this. This is not the same thing as "women don't like sex."


Right, one anecdote proves everything. You know, after I stopped taking creatine a month ago, my acne has reduced by 75%. Should I go around saying, "creatine definitively causes acne, simple as that?" Of course not. One anecdote means almost nothing. 

Testosterone is just one of many factors that affects sex drive.

You badly want to believe women have sex drives because you want to believe one day a woman will WANT to have sex with you.

Male fantasy.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
You badly want to believe women have sex drives because you want to believe one day a woman will WANT to have sex with you.  

Male fantasy.

This is honestly one of the dumbest things I've heard in my life. To say that women flat-out don't enjoy sex goes against all scientific research, life experience, and frankly common sense. Since I don't want to believe that anyone is this dumb I'll assume this is a form of advanced cope, where you don't want to believe that women enjoy sex because you're not getting it. It would torment you to know that right now a woman is experiencing pure ecstasy bouncing on Chad's cock while you rot. And of course you also need this cope because you can't have sex after taking your test-blocker, so you need to tell yourself "it doesn't matter, women don't enjoy sex anyway."

And lmfao @ acting like I'm the one coping when YOU'RE the one who holds an opinion that virtually nobody agrees with. What percentage of people do you think would agree with you on this? I bet it's less than 1%.

Head on over to /r/deadbedrooms if you don't think women enjoy sex. I can't wait to see how you cope your way out of this one. "It's all men LARPing!" "Those women are the one in a million exception!" "They're unwittingly being injected with test in their sleep!" Just lol @ your coping.
 
Framecel222 said:
And lmfao @ acting like I'm the one coping when YOU'RE the one who holds an opinion that virtually nobody agrees with. What percentage of people do you think would agree with you on this? I bet it's less than 1%.

Ah, the good ol argumentum ad populum fallacy. Funny because pretty much everyone here holds opinions that are vastly unpopular to society, which I presume includes you.

But in case you don't understand the logical flaws of appealing to popularity...popular opinion doesn't dictate what objective reality is. Popular opinion on what is true and false changes over time and varies between cultures. An objective truth is still an objective truth whether believed by everyone, most people, few people, or no one at all. Reality is not some sort of democracy where whatever is believed by the majority instantly becomes objective reality (though only for as long as said opinion is the majority one).

But yes, this and many other things I have stated, are not popular beliefs, even here. Here most people think high T low in inhib guys always slay and think most women don't like "faggy" pretty boys. But I just I call it how I see it, no matter how unpopular it is.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
You badly want to believe women have sex drives because you want to believe one day a woman will WANT to have sex with you.  

Male fantasy.

Well, femoids obviously do care about sex enough to try to get it from Chad by all means necessary. Femoids do like sex, just not with us.
 
VLÖ said:
Well, femoids obviously do care about sex enough to try to get it from Chad by all means necessary. Femoids do like sex, just not with us.

I'd say it's not so much women trying to get sex with Chad as it is women trying to get with Chads and using sex as an incentive because most Chads want sex and won't want a sexless relationship.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
I'd say it's not so much women trying to get sex with Chad as it is women trying to get with Chads and using sex as an incentive because most Chads want sex and won't want a sexless relationship.

But how does that explain femoids that are actively on the cock carousel even though they could easily get a stable relationship with a Chad?
 
VLÖ said:
But how does that explain femoids that are actively on the cock carousel even though they could easily get a stable relationship with a Chad?

Because a lot of women can't get a stable long-term relationship with chad. At least not all the time. 10 percent of young dudes are Chads, max. Most girls want Chads. Obviously not every girl can have a chad boyfriend consistently. So what ends up happening is Chads pump and dump a lot of these women, and the women end up bitter about it.

This is also why most women think guys in general have no problems getting women. The guys THEY go for have no problems getting women because they're only going for chads. The other 90 percent of men are invisible. Of course eventually most end up settling for an average boyfriend/husband for beta bux but they end up resentful because their beta bux husbands look nothing like the hot young chads they were chasing (and getting pumped and dumped by) during their youth. So they end up cheating on their husbands with a much younger Chad but even then it's not a sexual thing in their mind. It's an emotional thing, they're just using sex to get closer to Chad. Of course the Chad will go along with it as long as he has to because he still wants to fuck her, but she's only one of many. Deep down she realizes this, which only makes her more resentful and this takes a toll on her marriage, and ultimately leads to the divorce where she gets his house, gets custody of the kids and forces him to pay alimony and child support.
 
Yes, my libido is basically non-existent at this point. It started happening around 2 years ago (when I was 28), and it gradually got worse over time. I can still get an erection if I wrap my mind around it, but it's always kinda weak and won't last for long. I think it's a combination of low T, age, depression, the blackpill, misogynistic thoughts, and my fucked up view towards sex.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Ah, the good ol argumentum ad populum fallacy.  Funny because pretty much everyone here holds opinions that are vastly unpopular to society, which I presume includes you.

But in case you don't understand the logical flaws of appealing to popularity...popular opinion doesn't dictate what objective reality is.  Popular opinion on what is true and false changes over time and varies between cultures.  An objective truth is still an objective truth whether believed by everyone, most people, few people, or no one at all.  Reality is not some sort of democracy where whatever is believed by the majority instantly becomes objective reality (though only for as long as said opinion is the majority one).  

But yes, this and many other things I have stated, are not popular beliefs, even here.  Here most people think high T low in inhib guys always slay and think most women don't like "faggy" pretty boys.  But I just I call it how I see it, no matter how unpopular it is.

Nice job responding to a very small part of my argument and COMPLETELY ignoring the rest of it. It's very obvious that you're just going to believe what you wanna believe, no matter how illogical it is. The fact that you chose to do that almost makes me think that on some level you know you're wrong, but you have to keep arguing to save face. 

And if I was going to make a definitive statement that virtually everyone would disagree with, I would try to come up with something more convincing than one anecdote. Your argument is "I took test-blockers and my sex drive disappeared, therefore it's impossible to have a sex drive with low test, therefore women don't like sex and the millions of women who claim to are all lying." Do you realize how insane that is?! How do you explain the countless women whose sex drives plummeted after they took birth control pills? How would it be possible for their sex drive to become lower if it's already nonexistent? I'm not exaggerating when I say that this is the weakest argument I've ever seen someone stick with through multiple comments.

@blickpall I have a new idea for your community highlight threads: Cope of the Week. Our friend Ryo has a very strong submission for it.
 
Framecel222 said:
I would try to come up with something more convincing than one anecdote.

Men are 99 percent of people buying porn. That's not an anecdote.

Men are the ones paying women for sex, and pretty much never vice versa. That's not an anecdote.

Women are the ones who "get headaches" to avoid sex. That's not an anecdote.

I'll admit there are probably some HIGH T women that have something resembling a sex drive, but they're a minority.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Men are 99 percent of people buying porn. That's not an anecdote.

Porn is catered to men's preferences. Also at least 1/4 of porn viewers are women. I've seen higher estimates though.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/11/pew_online_viewing_study_percentage_of_women_who_watch_online_porn_is_growing.html

Ryo_Hazuki said:
Men are the ones paying women for sex, and pretty much never vice versa. That's not an anecdote.

Yes men have a much higher sex drive than women on average. That isn't the same thing as women not liking sex in general. Men are pretty much always DTF whereas for women it might be a couple times a week.

Ryo_Hazuki said:
Men are the ones paying women for sex, and pretty much never vice versa. That's not an anecdote.

That's because women can get sex whenever they want without paying whereas men can't. 

Ryo_Hazuki said:
I'll admit there are probably some HIGH T women that have something resembling a sex drive, but they're a minority.

Just lol. You keep insisting that testosterone is the only thing that affects sex drive yet you have nothing to back this up. And you still haven't explained the birth control thing.
 
Framecel222 said:
Just lol. You keep insisting that testosterone is the only thing that affects sex drive yet you have nothing to back this up. And you still haven't explained the birth control thing.

Testosterone causes higher sex drive I don't think I need to provide citation for that one.

Estrogen actually LOWERS sex drive.

https://www.healthline.com/health/high-estrogen#symptoms

"decreased sex drive" is listed as a symptom of HIGH estrogen.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Framecel222 said:
I would try to come up with something more convincing than one anecdote.
Men are 99 percent of people buying porn. That's not an anecdote.
Men are the ones paying women for sex, and pretty much never vice versa. That's not an anecdote.
Women are the ones who "get headaches" to avoid sex. That's not an anecdote.
I'll admit there are probably some HIGH T women that have something resembling a sex drive, but they're a minority.
As much as framecel is an autistic fakecel, he's right, it sounds like pure cope to say women don't enjoy sex. They just have lower sex drives but they still rub their clits with a Hitachi toy to the thought of a 5'2 balding Indian janitor fucking them, as long as he has a good personality (cucktears told me this is true btw)
 
@Ryo_Hazuki @Framecel222

Women have reported having sex drives for multiple decades in studies. It's barely ever been questioned, because conventionally they have been tested on how their sex drives manifest and how the manifestation is different from that of men. In other words, it's pretty much assumed to exist, as there hasn't been a reason to assume it doesn't. If we look at other species, female sex drives are a guaranteed fact - hence, "being in heat." For human women, that effect is mirrored by ovulation. At this time, their dating preferences switch from "safe" choices such as more effeminate Chadlites to full-on High T Chads. In order for sexual drives to activate and change preference, there has to be a sexual drive in the first place. Please refer to this thread:

https://incels.is/Thread-BlackPill-Women-s-preferences-for-men-change-with-their-ovulation-cycle

It would have to be a very complex and globally enforced ruse if there is not a single scientific paper that I'm aware of that proves the absence of a sex drive in women, and all existing sex studies simply determine the form and manifestation of said drive. Ockham's razor leads one to deduce that the more likely conclusion is that women do have a sex drive, but it is different and generally lower on average than men's.
 
blickpall said:
@Ryo_Hazuki @Framecel222

Women have reported having sex drives for multiple decades in studies. It's barely ever been questioned, because conventionally they have been tested on how their sex drives manifest and how the manifestation is different from that of men. In other words, it's pretty much assumed to exist, as there hasn't been a reason to assume it doesn't. If we look at other species, female sex drives are a guaranteed fact - hence, "being in heat." For human women, that effect is mirrored by ovulation. At this time, their dating preferences switch from "safe" choices such as more effeminate Chadlites to full-on High T Chads. In order for sexual drives to activate and change preference, there has to be a sexual drive in the first place. Please refer to this thread:

https://incels.is/Thread-BlackPill-Women-s-preferences-for-men-change-with-their-ovulation-cycle

It would have to be a very complex and globally enforced ruse if there is not a single scientific paper that I'm aware of that proves the absence of a sex drive in women, and all existing sex studies simply determine the form and manifestation of said drive. Ockham's razor leads one to deduce that the more likely conclusion is that women do have a sex drive, but it is different and generally lower on average than men's.

Thank you, you articulated this much better than I could have.
 

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