Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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Obviously most of us won't have kids, but do you ever think about having a son and how you'd raise him?
It's weird. Since I was ~16 I already knew I never wanted kids, I actually spent a lot of time thinking about how much I didn't want kids for many years. Because I hate work and I'm very frugal, the idea of working all day and being tired then coming home to and taking care of a kid seemed like slavery to me. And the cost of raising him too. And I guess since I wasn't getting any attention from girls and I had no friends also made me antisocial and loveless so of course raising a kid didn't seem like a good idea.
But lately, for the past 1 or 2 years, my mind keeps wondering. Probably cause this forum makes me dwell too much about sex and love and relationships, which I didn't care about as much before. But I keep imagining how I'd educate my son.
I think I'd be very kind and loving and I wouldn't pressure him at all about grades. AT ALL. I'd probably fight with his mother to not stress him out about grades, they don't matter. I was stressed about grades mostly because of mom and I ended up a loser anyway. Had good grades in uni, still didn't matter one bit (cause I picked meme social science degrees to get good grades but nvm).
One thing that I'd force upon him would be fighting lessons. I'd make him the opposite of me. I WOULD NOT let him be a weakling like me, your life as a boy is destroyed if you're weak. I'd send him to fighting lessons for like 2 hours every day as soon as possible. 5 or 6 years old. I'd make him a fighter. My dad made me kind and "intellectual". I'd rather have him be a brute than a weakling like me. I'd send him not to karate or some weak ass jap shit. No, mma or other hardcore shit. Preferably something where they teach you how to punch and take a punch, but with a little bit of takedowns and grappling and shit. I'd make my son strong, idc if he never goes to college and is a thug, I'd rather have him be that than an "intellectual" weakling like me.
Though I'll never have one, and that's probably for the best. I'm not fit for being a parent, I'm too lazy and anxious. And obviously I can't get any pussy.
It's weird. Since I was ~16 I already knew I never wanted kids, I actually spent a lot of time thinking about how much I didn't want kids for many years. Because I hate work and I'm very frugal, the idea of working all day and being tired then coming home to and taking care of a kid seemed like slavery to me. And the cost of raising him too. And I guess since I wasn't getting any attention from girls and I had no friends also made me antisocial and loveless so of course raising a kid didn't seem like a good idea.
But lately, for the past 1 or 2 years, my mind keeps wondering. Probably cause this forum makes me dwell too much about sex and love and relationships, which I didn't care about as much before. But I keep imagining how I'd educate my son.
I think I'd be very kind and loving and I wouldn't pressure him at all about grades. AT ALL. I'd probably fight with his mother to not stress him out about grades, they don't matter. I was stressed about grades mostly because of mom and I ended up a loser anyway. Had good grades in uni, still didn't matter one bit (cause I picked meme social science degrees to get good grades but nvm).
One thing that I'd force upon him would be fighting lessons. I'd make him the opposite of me. I WOULD NOT let him be a weakling like me, your life as a boy is destroyed if you're weak. I'd send him to fighting lessons for like 2 hours every day as soon as possible. 5 or 6 years old. I'd make him a fighter. My dad made me kind and "intellectual". I'd rather have him be a brute than a weakling like me. I'd send him not to karate or some weak ass jap shit. No, mma or other hardcore shit. Preferably something where they teach you how to punch and take a punch, but with a little bit of takedowns and grappling and shit. I'd make my son strong, idc if he never goes to college and is a thug, I'd rather have him be that than an "intellectual" weakling like me.
Though I'll never have one, and that's probably for the best. I'm not fit for being a parent, I'm too lazy and anxious. And obviously I can't get any pussy.
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