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Do you feel like you deserve a girlfriend?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I'm not talking about what society might think, I'm talking about your feelings on the matter.

Do you feel like you deserve a girlfriend?

Personally I feel like a manchild whose life is in chaos and that I don't really deserve anything right now. I haven't had my shit together for a long time, and I've had all the chances in the world to fix it, and yet I didn't. I couldn't even handle having a girlfriend, it would be too much of a change for me who spends all my free time rotting.
 
I don't really think I do. Or well, my gf won't think I deserve her.
 
No, and i don't want one. At least not in this life.
 
not really. But I deserve respect
 
I'm not talking about what society might think, I'm talking about your feelings on the matter.

Do you feel like you deserve a girlfriend?

Personally I feel like a manchild whose life is in chaos and that I don't really deserve anything right now. I haven't had my shit together for a long time, and I've had all the chances in the world to fix it, and yet I didn't. I couldn't even handle having a girlfriend, it would be too much of a change for me who spends all my free time rotting.
As a human and a good guy i think i absolutely deserve at least some fucking attention and not being ignored like i was a garbage bin
 
I feel like I deserve a cold, fast, bullet in my head.
 
I really want one so much, but no I probably don't deserve a gf.
I feel like I deserve a cold, fast, bullet in my head.
This. I'm both a piece of garbage, and in constant emotional deprivation. A bullet would resolve both problems.
 
I absolutely deserve a girlfriend. In terms of the nature of them, probably not.
 
of course. i deserve it,i need it.
 
I don't feel like I "deserve" a gf, but I feel like I would be a better bf than many other dudes. At least I would try harder than many other dudes.
 
No way I am a filthy piece of shit that is extremely toxic, antisocial, and ugly there is no way I could do anything to please a girl.
 
sometimes. It's frustrating to take a great deal of care looking after myself and receive absolutely nothing for it, while Chad just have to exist
 
Honestly, no. All joking/memeing aside, no-one is owed anything.

What gets me, though, is that I've tried harder than most people ever will and have absolutely nothing to show for it. For most people, relationships just happen as a natural part of life. I've tried much harder than them to make it happen, but I can't make it happen. This, and the fact that girls have it so, so much easier in terms of getting dates/relationships/sex. I'm all for gender equality - no-one should be at a severe disadvantage in life because of an accident of birth - but there is absolutely no equality here, yet somehow I don't think feminists would put this forward as a pressing concern when they talk about gender equality.
 
I'm not talking about what society might think, I'm talking about your feelings on the matter.

Do you feel like you deserve a girlfriend?

Personally I feel like a manchild whose life is in chaos and that I don't really deserve anything right now. I haven't had my shit together for a long time, and I've had all the chances in the world to fix it, and yet I didn't. I couldn't even handle having a girlfriend, it would be too much of a change for me who spends all my free time rotting.
Yes definitely, I have worked in the past and if I need to/get the motivation and I can do it again, I also think I would a good bf personality wise we could learn a lot from each other. And then I'm a part of this society and have all sorts of obligations like taxes and being indoctrinated from birth to suppress my natural desires to rape/murder so I deserve it tbh. Ofc I'm a sort of a manchild in many aspects but that's just a result of having to live without a gf so I could never really mature.
 
i don't think i deserve one, but i also don't think i don't deserve one, i'm still on UNI
 
So long as other men get them without deserving them, then yes. Whole idea of this liberationist western system is that if one class gets something everyone else becomes entitled to the same, only field where that doesn't apply is sex, cuz a sexual free market is the only free market good for women
 
of course. i deserve it,i need it.
tbh.. for all the time and money i spent looksmaxing and getting rejected and treated like scum by foids i deserve something that other guys dont even have to worry about
 
I think I deserve more than 0 human contact
 
I am entitled to a girlfriend
 
Considering that femoids are given things for free while producing no value at all in return, I don't see any reason against me deserving a girlfriend. Just a girlfriend, not one thousand.

However, I'm aware that it's not going to happen because men are basically forced to do everything for no assured reward, and most importantly, my looks.
 
Yes, I deserve my looksmatch. But given the fact that they are so evil, mean and entitled she does not deserve me.
 
I've put lots of effort into going to the gym and hygiene etc but apparently cucks think I dont deserve it but chads who do nothing do deserve it
 
I do not want to know that. my genetic garbage makes anyone close to me start to feel bad about my horrible looks and my underdeveloped body. a woman who was forced to stay by my side would be unhappy, constantly grumpy, and it would do me much harm.
 
absolutely not. I am garbage. Sometimes I wish I could un-blackpill myself to think differently, to brainwash myself into thinking I have a chance but then I would just keep getting my hopes up for nothing. I simply must come to terms with the fact that I am undeserving and inadequate.
 
We all deserve a gf especially people who wagecuck
 
Yes, I feel like I should be given a girlfriend. Just because I'm not the cream of the crop doesn't mean I should be fucking ostracized from what every Chad and Stacy does.
 
Deserve a girlfriend? Not really.

I would like to be treated like a human.
 
having a gf should be a human right
 
Yes I do feel I deserve them as a reward when I lose weight and looksmaxx
 
No. No one deserves anything.

However it would be nice if you could earn a girlfriend. Obviously this is not the case since its all about genetics. You either are genetically worthy or youre not.
 
yes absolutely. i can provide hours of entertainment
 
No. It’s something I think about a lot. I’m a train wreck of a human being. Sometimes I wonder if a girl were to actually take interest in me, could I, with good conscience, accept her? I don’t think I could.
No way I am a filthy piece of shit that is extremely toxic, antisocial, and ugly there is no way I could do anything to please a girl.
:feels::feels::feels::feels:
 
I think we at least deserve a chance... but nope, manlets with unsightly faces don't get any.
 
Honestly, no. All joking/memeing aside, no-one is owed anything.

What gets me, though, is that I've tried harder than most people ever will and have absolutely nothing to show for it. For most people, relationships just happen as a natural part of life. I've tried much harder than them to make it happen, but I can't make it happen. This, and the fact that girls have it so, so much easier in terms of getting dates/relationships/sex. I'm all for gender equality - no-one should be at a severe disadvantage in life because of an accident of birth - but there is absolutely no equality here, yet somehow I don't think feminists would put this forward as a pressing concern when they talk about gender equality.
This.

I just do not care enough about getting a girlfriend to put any more work into it than I already have. What can a foid offer me that I can't offer myself? Maybe some things, but not enough to justify all the orbiting and simping I'd have to do for even the tiniest chance at getting them. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
 
Maybe. But I don't think I have anything that would be interesting to a girl tbh. I am a basically opposite to what a girl would want, basically a living caricature of what girls are probably repulsed by.
 
I’ve suffered too much to have to be lonely now.. yes I deserve a girlfriend.
 
I'm too genetically inferior to deserve a girlfriend, but I really wanted to have one. :cryfeels:
 
I don't believe I deserve one I know I'm genetic trash
 
At the very least
 
I think so. I don't think I'm worse than a lot of normans with girlfriends.
 
I'm not talking about what society might think, I'm talking about your feelings on the matter.

Do you feel like you deserve a girlfriend?

Personally I feel like a manchild whose life is in chaos and that I don't really deserve anything right now. I haven't had my shit together for a long time, and I've had all the chances in the world to fix it, and yet I didn't. I couldn't even handle having a girlfriend, it would be too much of a change for me who spends all my free time rotting.

Positive reinforcement from success with woman would have pushed most of us to get our shit together faster and sooner.

I'm starting to see this pattern everywhere.

Very young chads that are yolked out at the gym driving +50k BMW's happily climbing up the corporate latter and keeping a consistant workout schedule with their super hot GF at the gym..

While sub-human entities are struggeling to wake up, eat a correct diet, and get their ass to the gym and/or aggressively pursue life goals like chad does.

Their dopamine rich lifestyle allows them to plow through difficult times like knife going through butter... while us incels have to constantly fight off suicidal thoughts, depression, and loneliness WHILE going through the difficulties that life naturally brings

I'm coping right now with MGTOW philosophies (this stuff really works).. but sometimes I relapse...
 
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Yes, I deserve one. I wouldn’t be a wretched person if I did have one.
 
Yes, i have tried and tried and tried, i have asked femoids out and have been rejected and ghosted
 

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