Well it is more like a combination of looks and the attitude/mentality. If you lack in looks you are expected to compensate with other things. I rejected to do that. I never forced myself to be extremely extrovert, extra social, that typical guy in friendzones. Because it really doesn't help. I mean if you have a little intelligence you see that how people treat you. You can be their "pet" at best if you force it, if not being hated. By the way I tried it. So it is not just assumptions out of thin air.
So called "dating material" and ignored ones are totally different and these really not change in any groups as I saw it. It is predetermined in the code/DNA. I don't believe in cold approach either. Have you even observed an attraction between two people? It just happens. It is natural. So really approaching to a 1000 foids just to get rejected makes no sense to me other than making me more depressed. I just see it degrading that you force and force and force more just to get rejected for any type of relationship either romantic or friendship or whatever. If you are a valuable person and they don't see a value in you. Then what can you do? This confirms that looks and status are all.
By the way in which era a normie guy had to approach to 1000 girls just to marry. This used to just happen as a part of the life. For instance isn't it humiliating that one reads many books, get two degrees, have a broad worldview, have countless of skills, healthy, well functioning and still approach a piece of crap foid, not one, 1000 at least! You would expect to get at least someone at your level right? But in this current world from a waitress girl to professor to a disabled or amputee, they all go for Chad. So it really doesn't make a difference.
I don't believe in pure aspie-cel. I have seen Chadlites with zero social skills, autistic from a 50 meters, are getting attention continuously on their weird social media profiles, be popular in groups etc. Seeing this might cause truecels to go literally insane, mentally fucked badly So I don't know if it is an excuse but I see I cannot function normally anymore in any social setting even I want. Already an outcast. I feel like hating everyone right from the beginning.