Do we attract into our lives who we currently are?

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

This post is not for the nihilistic users here.

Do you think that we attract into our lives a reflection of who we are? Personally I think this type of thought could be bluepilled nonsence like the Bible or take multiple showers everyday. Reasons are if a person is hardworking they will never even spend time with lazy people. A emotionally mature person will not deal with pople who are emotionally immature on a personal level. So its obvious that we ALLOW similar people around us(except at work, school etc).

I think this law of attraction could just be the same crap like horoscopes, religion, blue pill advice of taking 30X showers a day etc etc

 

[Pancakecel]

I have never attracted anyone, to anything, including myself

 

[Epedaphic]

I don’t think so. I agree it sounds like horoscopes or some other kind of uterus-science. It’s the kind of thing that sounds as if there is merit to it, because of how it’s worded, but is just dumb bullshit.

 

[eldercelder]

I have never attracted anyone, to anything, including myself

Attraction, in the broadest sense, doesn't just mean getting a foid to be sexually attracted to you. It means anyone who is drawn to you, for both positive and negative reasons.

Yes, normies have always treated me like shit. I "attract" weirdoes who ultimately turn on me. Being retards, normies give them a pass. I don't get normie privileges, or retard privileges. I'm treated like shit, but held up to normie standards of punishment.

I've hand many, many, many fuck-ups latch onto me. No, it's not like a horoscope thing. I think they can tell I'm "off" and they can behave in ways around me that they can't around normies. Like, they know they're fucked up, and know their place in the social hierarchy, and know I'm not a normie.

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

I have never attracted anyone, to anything, including myself

shieeet white nigga, I suggest bummaxxing in disguise, collect all the barely just 18 year foids(dont wanna jailbate and land behind bars) , "attract" them to you with some snorting heroine.

 

[Incedel]

I have never attracted anyone, to anything, including myself

Yeah I don't interact with anyone outside of people that I am forced to (parents, boss and cashiers) no one attracted or attracting me

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

Attraction, in the broadest sense, doesn't just mean getting a foid to be sexually attracted to you. It means anyone who is drawn to you, for both positive and negative reasons.

Yes, normies have always treated me like shit. I "attract" weirdoes who ultimately turn on me. Being retards, normies give them a pass. I don't get normie privileges, or retard privileges. I'm treated like shit, but held up to normie standards of punishment.

I've hand many, many, many fuck-ups latch onto me. No, it's not like a horoscope thing. I think they can tell I'm "off" and they can behave in ways around me that they can't around normies. Like, they know they're fucked up, and know their place in the social hierarchy, and know I'm not a normie.

Okay good point. I think you are touching on very aspects of each individuals character i.e "the vibes" they give off just like undercover cops and thugs can "sense" each other.

How to discribe it I dont know but whateva I tried at least

 

[AmnesiaHazecel]

I've hand many, many, many fuck-ups latch onto me. No, it's not like a horoscope thing. I think they can tell I'm "off" and they can behave in ways around me that they can't around normies. Like, they know they're fucked up, and know their place in the social hierarchy, and know I'm not a normie.

I attract dark tried bullies aswell, if you mean this type of people. I think its important to trust your intuition if you meet new people or enter a new social setting and avoid them at all cost.

 

[AlexAnguish]

I attract kidney stones...

 

[Bedford Stye]

This post is not for the nihilistic users here.

Do you think that we attract into our lives a reflection of who we are? Personally I think this type of thought could be bluepilled nonsence like the Bible or take multiple showers everyday. Reasons are if a person is hardworking they will never even spend time with lazy people. A emotionally mature person will not deal with pople who are emotionally immature on a personal level. So its obvious that we ALLOW similar people around us(except at work, school etc).

I think this law of attraction could just be the same crap like horoscopes, religion, blue pill advice of taking 30X showers a day etc etc

No, I don't think so.

People are much too self interested to appreciate other people's best qualities

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

I attract dark tried bullies aswell, if you mean this type of people. I think its important to trust your intuition if you meet new people or enter a new social setting and avoid them at all cost.

I am thinking what if those type of people try their luck with everybody and then simply bully those who respond in a certain way? Or maybe they watch body language?

Just asking because maybe you dont attract them, maybe they come to you based on something else? But i digress

 

[based_meme]

Please don't tell us you buy into that law of attraction new age bullshit.

 

[AmnesiaHazecel]

I am thinking what if those type of people try their luck with everybody and then simply bully those who respond in a certain way? Or maybe they watch body language?

A lion isnt going for the strongest gnu of the herd, that would lower his chance to get a kill.
They are good at noticing weaknesses of their prey.

A dark triad person is constantly testing the boundaries of people around them, to spot for someone that has low self esteem or even hates him/herself already.
Ideally they want to find someone they can abuse for long periods of time, so they dont have to worry where the next supply is coming from. They hate it the most when their scapegoat escapes the abuse and goes no contact.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Well in certain sense its true that people will hang around other people who have similar interests, but I don't think that necessarily has to do with personality types.

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

A lion isnt going for the strongest gnu of the herd, that would lower his chance to get a kill.
They are good at noticing weaknesses of their prey.

A dark triad person is constantly testing the boundaries of people around them, to spot for someone that has low self esteem or even hates him/herself already.
Ideally they want to find someone they can abuse for long periods of time, so they dont have to worry where the next supply is coming from. They hate it the most when their scapegoat escapes the abuse and goes no contact.

Okay good point, thanks for the excellent practical example

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

Well in certain sense its true that people will hang around other people who have similar interests, but I don't think that necessarily has to do with personality types.

please elaborate

 

[NorthernWind]

Human beings are deeper and beyond any 'laws'...

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

If I could attract people like myself into my life I wouldn't be so alone. I have struggled my entire life to find a single human being that strongly resembles myself.

In some context this idea obviously applies. Assortative mating is very relevant to understand genetic trends, as an example.

But if you take this from specific contexts and try to make some generalized natural law out of it, I don't think it holds. Even in the cases were it does apply, the reasons why it applies are not always the same.

Blacks murder other blacks the most because proximity.
Losers hang out with other losers because they have no other choice and failed to join all other groups.
Women come together in certain fields because the trait distrubution evolution has produced in the female sex predispositions them to end up in those jobs.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Human beings are deeper and beyond any 'laws'...

Spread your arms and fly my nigga, show those laws of gravity how powerless they are.

Behavior is still just a result of physics with 20 layers of complexity obscuring the exact chain of causality, but if you disentangle all of that you end up with 'laws' that humans are slaves to just as much as anything else.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

I have never attracted anyone, to anything, including myself