But with the same looks u have now. For me it definitely will and i mean by a lot. I attribute half of the problems i face to do as much with my "personality" being: neurodivergent, socially anxious, overthinker and just not interesting enough from years of rotting and isolating, as it does with how i look. But to be fair all this came from being unnatractive growing up.
Well said, man.
A man is a complete package of features that together, all add up to
desirable or
undesirable.
Of course height, a great face structure, being the right race, and wealth or some other manifestation of power, are very powerful ones. Those are almost trump cards and can make you desirable on their own. So if you've got several of those trump cards, you're going to enjoy a life where the most attractive women compete for your attention, all you need do is show up and women are all over you. We've all seen this.
That is essentially Wilkes McDermid's blackpill. He wasn't a single-issue coper, he seems to have discovered, measured and described the blackpill independently of any kind of online incelosphere, and he knew it was over for him as a ricecel in London because he'd figured out that in London you need to be tall, white or black, and wealthy or powerful. And you really need at least two of those three things to meet womens' requirements.
So there are a lot of normgroids who are not the elephant man, but they're nowhere near Chad.. and yet some other quality that they have carries them through and they manage to score. Either they are interesting enough, or funny enough, that they can make themselves compelling or desirable to a few women, or at least they can make themselves tolerable enough to a few women, that they can find some kind of love and affirmation in their lives. We've all seen this.
But for those of us who are fairly unattractive in terms of looks, AND ALSO are a bit slow thinking, uncool, unfunny, never know the right thing to say, struggle to hold a 1-on-1 conversation with anybody unless they are a particular buddy boyo who gets you... that's a bit of a valley of doom you're (we're) in.
You don't trigger women's instinctive animal mating desire just by existing as 6'8" Chad. And you don't have the ability to at least try to overcome that natural disadvantage, by ingratiating yourself with women through exceptional social skills, in the way that we've all seen some very average looking dudes (if not downright ugly dudes) do.
You're not an incel because of some overwhelming deal-breaker, like you're a dwarf or a mutant or you're shitting into a bag or drooling on the arm of your wheelchair, you haven't got FUCK NIGGERS or KILL ALL WOMEN tattooed on your forehead.
You're just generally
not enough in some whole mix of ways. But the net result of that is the same: inceldom. Pursuing sex or romance leads you to nothing but rejection, time and time again. This is the reality of inceldom that often gets shouted down by all of the loud single-issue copers we have.
