False, you are speaking about this issue within the context you were indoctrinated under, the context of "consensuality", do you think men in the "cave man days" were getting down on one knee and gifting women flowers hoping they would let them fuck?
Obviously no, they would just take a woman by force for the most part
So one sex being horny is only an evolutionary negative if there is little sexual dimorphism between them, and between male and female humans there is a lot, men are a lot faster and stronger than women, even in terms of bone density, one sex being horny would not hinder reproduction at all because the other can't even resist an act of forced intercourse
What you just said here is a perfect example of how men are being indoctrinated, the year of indoctrination your mind has faced is so hardwired into you, that you project the concept of consensual sex all the way back into the past, as though it was always the norm
Either way I'd say its more that women like sex, but only with high tier males, other than that its transactional