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Discussion Do any of your parents empathize with your situation?

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What do they tell you? Do they gaslight you and tell you to improve and try harder? Or do they understand that you were dealt a bad hand and because of that they feel guilt and shame?
 
No, earlier i had rage on my mom, once again i m convinced she doesn t give a shit about if i ever have a gf
she still doesn t want to accept and she gaslights me with bluepill speech ,,ur not that short, ur not that ugly, that girl will come, if u stay in your room how can a foid find you?''
 
No, earlier i had rage on my mom, once again i m convinced she doesn t give a shit about if i ever have a gf
she still doesn t want to accept and she gaslights me with bluepill speech ,,ur not that short, ur not that ugly, that girl will come, if u stay in your room how can a foid find you?''
My dad used to do this for years but then slowly he gave into the blackpill and admitted I was right. Now he lives in total emotional devastation.
 
Their knowledge of it is not very good but my mother is aware to some degree that I look like shit. She doesn't see it as a huge issue. I have mentioned that I wont get married and my mother seems to just think that it is some phase or something because she does not take it seriously. They are shit at raising children too so I am not normal and they are aware of that. Despite this, they still think they will have grandchildren from me.
 
My family seem bluepilled so no
 
Dad kind of does. He knows it's tough, but he also has that right-wing boomer mindset of work hard and treat women well and they'll treat you well, despite him seeing the same shit I do with many family members and acquaintances.

Mom is completely oblivious, and worst off she's stubborn about it. I tried once explaining to her that the way she's treated is completely different to how I'm treated, and that went as well as you'd imagine.
 
they don't give a damn, they are sad about the fact I have no friends but overall they just don't care about my relationships with girls.
 
Don't talk them about this.
But knowing how my family is. They would say either bluepilled shit or say that not having gf is not a problem
 
No, they think whatever problems I have are my own fault.

They don't bother talking to me much anymore, they know my situation, and that it will probably be this way for the foreseeable future so, in that sense they've given up on me I think.
 
my family told me I should be dead and treat me like the genetic dumpster I am. It’s not their fault because they’re all HTN/Chadlites so no one knows how I turned out this way.
 
No, they think it’s all my fault for being passive in my life and not trying to socialize
 
They tell me that I’m going to find one eventually
 
No they're groids, they think all my problems are my fault
 
my family told me I should be dead and treat me like the genetic dumpster I am. It’s not their fault because they’re all HTN/Chadlites so no one knows how I turned out this way.
WTF?! Torture them all!
 
Couple of months ago, my dad told me "You gotta make a friend. It's unordinary not to have any at your age". I got uncomfortable, deflected and changed the topic quick. Didn't think much of it and forgot about it. Few weeks later (the next time I saw my dad), he apologized for saying that. I could tell he felt really guilty for bringing it up, when I didn't think much of it at all. Told him it was fine.
 
WTF?! Torture them all!
my stepdad was the one who said that and he got killed by a random crackwhore trying to rob him :lul: karma
 
Couple of months ago, my dad told me "You gotta make a friend. It's unordinary not to have any at your age". I got uncomfortable, deflected and changed the topic quick. Didn't think much of it and forgot about it. Few weeks later (the next time I saw my dad), he apologized for saying that. I could tell he felt really guilty for bringing it up, when I didn't think much of it at all. Told him it was fine.
Make him feel even more guilty for ruining your life with bad genes! :feelsdevil:
 
well my dad doesn't care and my mom has always tried talking me out of wanting a gf (not bc she doesn't want me to have one but bc it's clear she knows I can't). it was always obvious how she spoke about how relationships are "overrated" and "not worth the trouble" and "especially if she's good looking she'll cheat on you" etc. I know she's right but it's still annoying to hear.
 
They are sad and mad but atleast they don’t physically assault me.
 
What do they tell you? Do they gaslight you and tell you to improve and try harder? Or do they understand that you were dealt a bad hand and because of that they feel guilt and shame?
No, they just say that women aren't "everything" or that my girlfriend will "arrive" soon.
Still, they think I have the same chances as Chad jfl
 
No, I'm treated like a dog by everyone
 
they just tell me some stupid generic bluepilled shit.
 
My dad calls me every weekend telling me to suck it up and stockholm syndrome just any chick I'd like. I'm not going to prison just for hole.
 
My dad used to do this for years but then slowly he gave into the blackpill and admitted I was right. Now he lives in total emotional devastation.
How old r u boyo
 
No, I'm afraid to talk about inceldom with them, because they could mock me for being loser
 
Nope if they did they would give me lots of money for copes
 

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