difficulty in saying "no"

[Zaphod2.0]

I have just returned from a sandals shop, I was looking for a cost effective sandal as mine broke. Looking alone I see that everything was very expensive, then the saleswoman came and insisted that I try the slipper and I tried, besides I have not liked him very much it was very expensive. She said the price and I wanted to refuse it, but I always have trouble saying no. And when I say "no" it's with great difficulty.
It's not an isolated case, always when I'm served by a salesperson, even in supermarkets I pretend to get something healthy.

 

[nice_try]

You sound like a huge cuck

 

[Deleted member 21821]

have just returned from a sandals shop

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Really? Nigger? Tha fuck

 

[Zaphod2.0]

Stopped reading
Really? Nigger? Tha fuck

dissert

 

[Zaphod2.0]

You sound like a huge cuck

maybe I am submissive, but not cuck. it's much more connected to fear

 

[GhostedPhantom]

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Really? Nigger? Tha fuck

What's wrong with sandals? They're good if you're going out in hot weather and don't want to get athlete's foot or something. The only reason I don't have any is that I go out only once in a blue moon.

maybe I am submissive, but not cuck. it's much more connected to fear

@nice_try It depends on what you mean by "cuck" but he's right that there's a difference. On the one hand there's a cuck who's[UWSL] going out of his way to do something submissive to please others because it matches what his cucked ideology would dictate. OP's inability to say "no" probably comes from a lifetime of being shut down every time he tries to speak his mind, to the point where his whole subconscious mind reflexively prevents him from standing his ground or correcting others. Stopping that kind of behaviour isn't as simple as "oh yeah, I really am cucked, I'll just start acting as confidently as Chad now".[/UWSL]

 

[Mecoja]

maybe I am submissive, but not cuck. it's much more connected to fear

You should use the " ill think about it" "ill browse around and come back" "i forgot my wallet" if you cant say simply "no, thanks"

 

[Emba]

Just imagination they are asking you something very bad...

Such as;

"Would you like to eat my hot steamy shit?"

Then you can say "NO!"

With confidence.

 

[BornToLose]

I have just returned from a sandals shop

 

[Loner94]

Wtf just say no

 

[Saint Cho]

I have just returned from a sandals shop, I was looking for a cost effective sandal as mine broke. Looking alone I see that everything was very expensive, then the saleswoman came and insisted that I try the slipper and I tried, besides I have not liked him very much it was very expensive. She said the price and I wanted to refuse it, but I always have trouble saying no. And when I say "no" it's with great difficulty.
It's not an isolated case, always when I'm served by a salesperson, even in supermarkets I pretend to get something healthy.

You just need to work on growing your inner hatred and anger towards the world. Before you interact with anyone, remind yourself that this person doesen't give 2 flying fucks whether you live or die, and is only thinking about how to take advantage of you. The more you despise other people, the easier it is to be cold and ruthless towards them.

 

[RandomGuy]

I’m had similar problem buying stuff. Being a hermit makes me awkward when out shopping at times. Overspent 800$ because I couldn’t say no. I can fake NT social interaction for a short time, but sometimes fooling myself when trying to act normie. Make dumb mistakes. Being alone for so long does that.