
NorthernWind
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Strong parent are usually high at dominance hierarchy so they were less likely to be bullied and taken advantage at school and at work. They usually project their aggression outside ( because they can ) than inside [their family].
Weak parents were probably often humiliated, bullied and taken advantage by their peers and coworkers. And due to multiple factors ( like low status, physical weakness, mental illnesses, weak character ) they rarely fight back.
So they transfer all this accumulated anger inside them to their own family making their children's life hell.
They use their children and sometimes other family members as an emotional trash can.
Being a trash can in which others drain their anger, disappointment, dissatisfaction, negativeness is a much worse than being an emotional tampon.
Weak parents were probably often humiliated, bullied and taken advantage by their peers and coworkers. And due to multiple factors ( like low status, physical weakness, mental illnesses, weak character ) they rarely fight back.
So they transfer all this accumulated anger inside them to their own family making their children's life hell.
They use their children and sometimes other family members as an emotional trash can.
Being a trash can in which others drain their anger, disappointment, dissatisfaction, negativeness is a much worse than being an emotional tampon.
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