Did your dad teach you how to be a man?

[Caesercel]

Mine sure didn't. He has this thing where since he figured it out on his own that I should too. He always says "my dad never had to teach me that" or "my dad never talked to me about this". He thinks that since he learned it all on his own the same should apply to me. This is not to say my grandpa was a bad father but he belonged to a different generation and dad had to figure out modern life all on his own. I understand he wants me to be an independent man but fuck he was like this when I was little too. I just wanted him to groom me to become a man not a pussy . I don't want to be a dissapointment anymore

 

[Friezacel]

No being man for your face

 

[Razielcel]

He was a coward and left us when I was a toddler.

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

My father taught me everything that I don't want to be. He didn't even have to try to do so.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Fuck living up to your parent's expectations. I don't give a shit what they wanted me to be. I'm my own person and I refuse to be held to any sort of ideal.

My parents always say they want me to be like this, like that.

God fucking dammit. All that I care about is that they help me have a roof. If they really wanted this shit to happen they could have either raised me better or chosen not to give birth to me.

 

[Stupid Clown]

I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.

 

[WeirdPanda]

I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.

 

[FreeCipher]

I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.

same and whenever he was around, the interactions were rarely good

 

[Stupid Clown]

same and whenever he was around, the interactions were rarely good

Yes.

 

[Poopless One]

He taught me basic right and wrong distinction. Beyond that he was rather useless.

 

[unionistcel]

Mine sure didn't. He has this thing where since he figured it out on his own that I should too. He always says "my dad never had to teach me that" or "my dad never talked to me about this". He thinks that since he learned it all on his own the same should apply to me. This is not to say my grandpa was a bad father but he belonged to a different generation and dad had to figure out modern life all on his own. I understand he wants me to be an independent man but fuck he was like this when I was little too. I just wanted him to groom me to become a man not a pussy . I don't want to be a dissapointment anymore

Yes I sadly ignored sorry Dad love you

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

same and whenever he was around, the interactions were rarely good

 

[UglyVirgin]

I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.

 

[userrrr]

my dad never had to teach me that" or "my dad never talked to me about this".

I had pretty much the same story

 

[GrandWizard_137]

Ma father tawt me good chrustian values laik naw sex befo marriage, praisin our lawd an saviour jesus chraist and killing them damn dirty ay-rabs!

 

[TheJester]

My dad is a bum ass loser who has not taught me any in life.

Literally.

He has no homework skills. He has no Electrician skills. He cant really cook either or knows of a healthy diet. He is a gaming, gambling and porn addict for as long as I know.

He has worked all kinds of jobs, never had a consistent carrier despite having a Bachelor degree and a completed apprentanceship as a painter.

He is a fat diabetic loser who can't live by himself and would have been a Incel guaranteed if he was a Zoomer instead of a Gen X.

Edit: Plus for the past 30 years he basically always took care of his parents who are even bigger losers.

My grandma is a ultra-low-IQ diabetic and cronically narcisstic women who has never worked in her life and has no internet and let herself be manipulated by so called "friends" lol. She expected these so called "friends" to help her out in old age despite that those "friends" are all 70+ yo as well and have their own problems. She is a gullible, naive idiot who has no money but ALLLLL the expectations on my loser dad and me - her loser grandson despite that it was her who fucked this family up the most by giving away her little money to scammers and basically sitting on her ass and watch TV and go to Restaurants fine dining all the damn time.

My dad whos getting older still travels to them pretty much every 2 weeks for the past 30 years to bring them things, to help them out with finance, to copy their documents and clean their bathrooms because they are too demented to do thst now.

Its crazy really. They need to Die already.

 

[totalfoiddeath]

he didnt he doesnt even acknowledge i exist he sees me as a failure automatically

 

[justuseless]

Change ur avi if u want to be a man

 

[WeirdPanda]

My dad is a bum ass loser who has not taught me any in life.

Literally.

He has no homework skills. He has no Electrician skills. He cant really cook either or knows of a healthy diet. He is a gaming, gambling and porn addict for as long as I know.

He has worked all kinds of jobs, never had a consistent carrier despite having a Bachelor degree and a completed apprentanceship as a painter.

He is a fat diabetic loser who can't live by himself and would have been a Incel guaranteed if he was a Zoomer instead of a Gen X.

Sounds based.

Shouldn't have been a parent but still based.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

No
He knew it was over so he didn't bother

 

[NDManlet173]

My dad left

 

[guessthatsit]

No my stepdad is a cuck soyboy beta male who talks behind my back. He raised me like a soyboy and I hate him.

 

[Caesercel]

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My grandma is a ultra-low-IQ diabetic and cronically narcisstic women who has never worked in her life and has no internet and let herself be manipulated by so called "friends" lol. She expected these so called "friends" to help her out in old age despite that those "friends" are all 70+ yo as well and have their own problems. She is a gullible, naive idiot who has no money but ALLLLL the expectations on my loser dad and me - her loser grandson despite that it was her who fucked this family up the most by giving away her little money to scammers and basically sitting on her ass and watch TV and go to Restaurants fine dining all the damn time.

Does she have a phone number. DM me

Change ur avi if u want to be a man

Wut

No my stepdad is a cuck soyboy beta male who talks behind my back. He raised me like a soyboy and I hate him.

My mom took care of that

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

My dad showed me how to drink and said to me: "Wenn Dir irgendeiner blöd kommt, dann hau ihm auf die Mappe!" (If someone gives you a hard time, punch him in the face)

 

[psyop]

Does she have a phone number. DM me

Lol

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Honestly, my father never really showed much interest in being a parent in general. He enforced physical discipline but that was about it. I don't think he wanted kids, though I think ultimately both of my parents regretted having kids in the end.

In the grand scheme of things though, while my parents weren't "good" parents, they weren't really bad parents. I've known a lot of people who were abused, molested, etc growing up so I can't really complain.

I honestly think "good" parents are exceptionally rare. Like the parents who actively care about their children, are supportive, actively listen to their kids, etc. are the exception to the rule. Realistically the best you can hope for are parents who don't actively harm you.

I also can't blame my upbringing for how I ended up. I'm just low IQ and ugly, nothing would have changed that. In the words of Hamudi of Syria "a long time ago i was born and my life was over".

 

[Caesercel]

.
. In the words of Hamudi of Syria

Love how this sounds like he's some 12 century desert sufi poet and traveler.

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

My father never took care of me (neither did my mother), I was raised by my grandparents

 

[Kselectedvirgin]

He always encouraged me to do exercise, but now im too lazy

 

[Qizarate]

Teached me to stay subhuman

 

[Fed_911]

No being man for your face AND HEIGHT

 

[Fed_911]

I'm just low IQ and ugly

Same

 

[PrototypeCel]

my dad would always get frustrated when i didnt learn something right away leading to him yelling which would turn me into a nervous wreck everyt time hes around

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

He was a coward and left us when I was a toddler.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

That motherfucker was entirely absent.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

my dad raised me to be a coward that lives in fear

 

[sadlemon]

My mom was a hoarder who worked only 1 year thru her life, did not work afterwards. My father was abusive always screaming and expecting the world out of me, meanwhile he always had excuses for himself.

They were not good parents, are there worse? of course, but they left me with hardly anything positive. They did not give me any bonuses and only gave me problems, not only genetically but the environment i grew up with made me a worse human overall.

I'm not grateful at all for the 'life' they gave me, i would prefer being dead 100%. Alas i'm alive so what can i do

 

[Wumbus]

I spent the majority of my childhood isolated playing video games. My dad was working most of the time.

 

[JKlancecaster069]

No he was always too busy with work or my other family members to teach me anything.

 

[DarkStar]

Sadly, my dad wasn't around a whole lot when I was a younger kid so I was around my mom more

Granted, as I got older we have done some of the usual "father son" bonding stuff, but then also he never really taught me how to "be a man" come to think of it

 

[FuckYou]

My dad is a bum ass loser who has not taught me any in life.

Literally.

He has no homework skills. He has no Electrician skills. He cant really cook either or knows of a healthy diet. He is a gaming, gambling and porn addict for as long as I know.

He has worked all kinds of jobs, never had a consistent carrier despite having a Bachelor degree and a completed apprentanceship as a painter.

He is a fat diabetic loser who can't live by himself and would have been a Incel guaranteed if he was a Zoomer instead of a Gen X.

Edit: Plus for the past 30 years he basically always took care of his parents who are even bigger losers.

My grandma is a ultra-low-IQ diabetic and cronically narcisstic women who has never worked in her life and has no internet and let herself be manipulated by so called "friends" lol. She expected these so called "friends" to help her out in old age despite that those "friends" are all 70+ yo as well and have their own problems. She is a gullible, naive idiot who has no money but ALLLLL the expectations on my loser dad and me - her loser grandson despite that it was her who fucked this family up the most by giving away her little money to scammers and basically sitting on her ass and watch TV and go to Restaurants fine dining all the damn time.

My dad whos getting older still travels to them pretty much every 2 weeks for the past 30 years to bring them things, to help them out with finance, to copy their documents and clean their bathrooms because they are too demented to do thst now.

Its crazy really. They need to Die already.

how old is he?

 

[FuckYou]

our relationship is pretty normal

 

[TheJester]

how old is he?

56