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Blackpill Did you notice how it easy for them to form a social connections?

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Did you notice how it easy for them to form a social connections? Internet psoychologiests and bluepill copers always tell, that you have to do this and this and that in order to form social connections, make friends. In reality, it doesn't matter, such things comes natural, people just come to each other, sit with each other and talk. No matter on what topic, for normies process of talking itself is more valuable, than a content of this talks. You don't have to read some Draiser, Dante or Chekhov for that. You don't need some unique hobbies and other bulshit.
This is particularly clear then you observe people behaviour in newly formed social grups, college group, for example. Few days (if not hours) is enough for people to get acquainted with eachother, some social circles are forming and only not a part of this process, only you is outkast. Why? Because you didnt pass genetic filtration.
Sry for bad eng
 
Only tallfaggots are saved for being a non-NT other than that its over
 
Just be yourself bro

The reality is that if you are not NT, your entire life is going to much harder.
 
Seeing social connections in university classes are hilarious. All of the hong kongers are friends, all of the mainland chinese, the vietnamese, the white girls, and then there's the boys lmao. Legit all white girls in my class sit together and are friends, and the etnics do the fucking same. Then there's no outright chads in my class but all the guys are chill together, even the ones that don't talk sit with us. But even the guys that do talk to girls only talk to the ones that are similar ethnicities (no one talks to the white girls lmfao seeing that I'm the only outright white cunt in there and I would be kicked out of uni if I did probably.
 
No NT = no life

No one likes male aspies
 
If you’re NT then you’ll have a good social life by default at least in terms of friends if you’re not ridiculously ugly. For spergs no matter how hard you try it just won’t work well unless you’re top tier in looks
 
This is particularly clear then you observe people behaviour in newly formed social grups, college group, for example. Few days (if not hours) is enough for people to get acquainted with eachother
I witnessed this firsthand. While normies who had never met each other before were making friends with each other, I was struggling to even walk normally. Never began. There is no improvement, they just live, graze. Fuck them. They af shallow are.
 
Face rating, age and ethnicity
face... don't know really, i don't have any particular deformity or major flaw except for my skin - had severe acne, cured it for the most part, but left with some noticeable postacne scars, will do laser treatment later. 20 y/o, white, brown hairs, blue eyes in Russia. Not diagnosed with any disorder, but introverted and too shy.
 
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Big part of it is connections that your parents have or try to acquire too - being outcast absolutely stems from genetics. Adulthood and onward also dictates how people are accepted. You're either "in" like some weird unspoken cult rule or ostracized. I've lost count of how many times I was judged by other parents of children based solely on how my parents were perceived by them.
 
Big part of it is connections that your parents have or try to acquire too - being outcast absolutely stems from genetics. Adulthood and onward also dictates how people are accepted. You're either "in" like some weird unspoken cult rule or ostracized. I've lost count of how many times I was judged by other parents of children based solely on how my parents were perceived by them.
But we are sons of normie parents for the most part, isn't?
 
The worst thing is that you can't make up for it with conscious effort. I tried to learn social skills for years, I even read books about it and it was a disaster. That's because it needs to come naturally.

When bluepillers say that you don't need to see it as an objective and that you'll make friends and find love when you aren't looking for it, they are actually giving the right advice, because it can't happen any other way. If you keep stressing on doing the right thing you're bound to make mistakes, because you'll hyperfocus on some specific problem and won't think outside the box.

And that's not limited just to social relationships, but most things in life. For normies, success comes naturally. I asked successful people how they did it, and none of them had to put any thought behind it. Yes, they still put a lot of effort, but effort and self-improvement aren't the same thing.

Bluepillers are right. You don't need to try, be spontaneous, do what you feel like doing, and things will come naturally. Too bad they'll never come for us, this advice only works if you aren't genetically inferior. In the end, you get what you deserve, and you deserve nothing because of your genes.
 
The worst thing is that you can't make up for it with conscious effort. I tried to learn social skills for years, I even read books about it and it was a disaster. That's because it needs to come naturally.

When bluepillers say that you don't need to see it as an objective and that you'll make friends and find love when you aren't looking for it, they are actually giving the right advice, because it can't happen any other way. If you keep stressing on doing the right thing you're bound to make mistakes, because you'll hyperfocus on some specific problem and won't think outside the box.

And that's not limited just to social relationships, but most things in life. For normies, success comes naturally. I asked successful people how they did it, and none of them had to put any thought behind it. Yes, they still put a lot of effort, but effort and self-improvement aren't the same thing.

Bluepillers are right. You don't need to try, be spontaneous, do what you feel like doing, and things will come naturally. Too bad they'll never come for us, this advice only works if you aren't genetically inferior. In the end, you get what you deserve, and you deserve nothing because of your genes.
Exactly. It reminds me daoists rule called Wu-wei, or rule of non-doing. "He diminishes it and again diminishes it, till he arrives at doing nothing (on purpose). Having arrived at this point of non-action, there is nothing which he does not do." Things that matter comes natural, by itself, with no rational seeking of purpose, with no artificial motivation, it's like a fate manifest itself in your action. If you found yourself seeking for some purpose, motivation or doing something unnatural in your percieve - you walked the wrong way.
 
Only tallfaggots are saved for being a non-NT other than that its over
Facially attractive Non-NT are saved, ugly, manlet non-NT like me are always being crushed to death by normiescums
 
Big part of it is connections that your parents have or try to acquire too - being outcast absolutely stems from genetics. Adulthood and onward also dictates how people are accepted. You're either "in" like some weird unspoken cult rule or ostracized. I've lost count of how many times I was judged by other parents of children based solely on how my parents were perceived by them.
Relatable to me
 
The worst thing is that you can't make up for it with conscious effort. I tried to learn social skills for years, I even read books about it and it was a disaster. That's because it needs to come naturally.
Yes, if you are born as neurodivergent, as much you tried social skills, it always fail and be a disaster
 
Maybe if you told foids you're 6'5, they'd fawn over you
 
Just be yourself bro

The reality is that if you are not NT, your entire life is going to much harder.
avi/pfp sauce? Looks like a good gooning material
 
Normies are like animals. They are normally attracted by their kind rather than the people that share their hobbies or beliefs.

I remember back in HS where there was this guy interested in politics and more specifically marxism. Mind you, he wasn't a libshit. He was also a socially right wing nationalist, he was only left wing only when it came to economics. I at the time was a natsoc, so even if our beliefs were at odds with each other we still kinda managed to tolerate each other and have civilized discussions about politics. Yet when social groups were starting to form, he was in this group where most of them didn't even care about politics. None of them shared his interests, but he was having a greater time than being in my presence. Even tho we had something more in common than those sheep cattle.

Stuff like this is what makes me think that even normies may try to act as though they have personalities, they would always throw away that shit the moment they get to being with their kind. And it's also a brutal reminder that you are an outcast with no place in that enviroment. You are just taking empty space. Nothing would change if you were there or not. You are but a ghost observing normie behavior. Don't try to form bonds with normfags, they are animals deep inside.
 
Normies are like animals. They are normally attracted by their kind rather than the people that share their hobbies or beliefs.

I remember back in HS where there was this guy interested in politics and more specifically marxism. Mind you, he wasn't a libshit. He was also a socially right wing nationalist, he was only left wing only when it came to economics. I at the time was a natsoc, so even if our beliefs were at odds with each other we still kinda managed to tolerate each other and have civilized discussions about politics. Yet when social groups were starting to form, he was in this group where most of them didn't even care about politics. None of them shared his interests, but he was having a greater time than being in my presence. Even tho we had something more in common than those sheep cattle.

Stuff like this is what makes me think that even normies may try to act as though they have personalities, they would always throw away that shit the moment they get to being with their kind. And it's also a brutal reminder that you are an outcast with no place in that enviroment. You are just taking empty space. Nothing would change if you were there or not. You are but a ghost observing normie behavior. Don't try to form bonds with normfags, they are animals deep inside.

I tell you solemnly, that I have many times tried to become an insect. But I was not equal even to that. I swear, gentlemen, that to be too conscious is an illness- a real thorough-going illness.
Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground
 
This is why you so often hear advice such as "It will happen when you least expect it!" and "Just join a hobby!"

Neutotypicals don't need to go out of their way to manufacture some sort of connection. For them, it really does just happen naturally—just by being in the vicinity of other people.

Living as an autistic male is a fate worse than death.
 
I got NTpilled the other day when a guy from work whom I'd only seen like 3 times in half a year, came once again. There was me, him, and the other guy, who supervises us and whom I see regularly but dont talk to. Imagine my surprise, when not only they connected with each other AND found common topics to talk about for almost 30 minutes straight, AND this wall all giga inconsequential daily shit like the job, the weather, fucking coffee and whatnot. In 10 minutes they echanged more words than I during my entire time there (more than half a year). Whereas I was ALWAYS excluded casually. It's never about fucking hobbies, none of the boring nerd shit. You either mingle in with normie crowd and people sense you as one of them, or you don't.
 
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And yes, the essence of the conversation to normies is fucking MEANINGLESS. It literally has no fucking purpose. Zero, and I can't stress it enough. The entire point is to sniff each other asses, like dogs. To know who is who, to vibe with each other.
 
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And yes, the essence of the conversation to normies is fucking MEANINGLESS. It literally has no fucking purpose. Zero, and I can't stress it enough. The entire point is to sniff each other asses, like dogs. To know who is who, to vibe with each other.
Tbh, there Is no problem with that, it's just us who can't fit, or doesn't allowed to fit
 
Stuff like this is what makes me think that even normies may try to act as though they have personalities, they would always throw away that shit the moment they get to being with their kind. And it's also a brutal reminder that you are an outcast with no place in that enviroment. You are just taking empty space. Nothing would change if you were there or not. You are but a ghost observing normie behavior. Don't try to form bonds with normfags, they are animals deep inside.
 
When bluepillers say that you don't need to see it as an objective and that you'll make friends and find love when you aren't looking for it, they are actually giving the right advice, because it can't happen any other way.
True, they insist on just-world fallacy belief which is incorrect.
 
True, they insist on just-world fallacy belief which is incorrect.
Yes obviously I didn't write it but that's what I meant. They're correct about it being the only way, but they're incorrect because they assume that it will happen to everyone. Normies are kinda blackpilled in that sense, because they aknowledge that hard work doesn't matter. The problem is that they don't admit that not everyone has it as good as them and they'll never find love or success, regardless if they try or not.
 
What's with all this talk about "autistic behaviour" again. It's ALL LOOKS. Many studies have proven this you can find them easily by searching on here at this point. As long as you pass the looks threshold you will be accepted in groups, if you don't you won't. Your behaviour basically does not matter (unless you have insane level tourettes or something).
 
What's with all this talk about "autistic behaviour" again. It's ALL LOOKS. Many studies have proven this you can find them easily by searching on here at this point. As long as you pass the looks threshold you will be accepted in groups, if you don't you won't. Your behaviour basically does not matter (unless you have insane level tourettes or something).
Autistic behavior = not being chad.
 
What's with all this talk about "autistic behaviour" again. It's ALL LOOKS. Many studies have proven this you can find them easily by searching on here at this point. As long as you pass the looks threshold you will be accepted in groups, if you don't you won't. Your behaviour basically does not matter (unless you have insane level tourettes or something).
Autistic like behaviour could begin to show after enduring bad treatment as an ugly person tbh. Maybe a lot of tism diagnoses are outright wrong and biased to looks
 

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