Did you ever stand up to your bullies? If you didn't do you regret it?

[quazz]

I only got "bullied" in middle school/junior high. I put bullied in quotations because at the school I went to basically everyone hated everyone else so basically everyone would get fucked with at one point or another, although I definitely got fucked with more then most. Either way during middle school I would constantly fucked with and get in fights with kids. I'd get fucked with then get into a fight then I'd stop getting fucked with for a bit and it would just repeat. I got in some fights but nothing to big that got the whole school riled up (like when you see in the movies a bunch of people watching some kids fight in school and the whole school talking about it after). That was until around the end of Junior High I got in a fight with this one wannabe tough guy, he claimed I was talking shit (I was cause he was acting like he runs shit) and he wanted to fight me. We ended up fighting that day and I beat him up pretty bad a lot of people were watching and talking about it after the fight. I got suspended and after that the kid I fought tried to be my friend after he lost lol.

After that fight I feel like I got some closure for Junior High after getting fucked with for so long, I got some respect and people started to treat me better. Kids would constantly come up to me asking about the fight and stuff like that. If I didn't get in that big fight I feel like I would have kind of felt like shit leaving Junior High and not getting some sort of "revenge" or doing something bad ass. After I finished Junior High and went to High School nobody really harassed me and I was mostly a loner. After all that the only ones that really bullied me are my family and they are the only people I genuinely hate. Did you ever stand up to your bullies and if you didn't do you regret it?

 

[BansBandit]

Yeah i did i actually give him SF for a couple years which lead into highschool but now he’s a gigachad with millions of followers as a male model

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I did beat up a bully who was the 'coolest' kid in middle school. He and his clique was so mean he made multiple teachers, mostly substitutes, cry. He completely cowered and was 100% defense, dodging and blocking for a whole minute. I did gave him some bruises though. After that he and the clique were fairly nice.

Yeah i did i actually give him SF

What does SF mean?

 

[acnescarcel]

i was only bullied a couple times by a guy that was like 6 foot something and fat and ugly. i literally didn't even know his name or why he chose me out of everyone in the school. i didn't really care enough to do anything since it was only like 3 times he did anything and it wasn't stuff he said just random weird shit like pushing my chocolate milk over. i don't regret not fighting him because he would have won and i would have been expelled. bullying isn't something that affected my life very much. i saw kids get bullied 1000 times worse and basically daily. i got off easy.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I tried to, but I couldn't win no matter what I did. Whenever I fought back the school would punish me more than the kids tormenting me, and they would just start again the next day. I was the joke of my entire school. Even thinking about it now makes me feel awful.

 

[grayjedi90]

To be honest. At first i endured it but that was not good. Then i fought back everytime and it kinda got sometimes even worse. But then i came to the conclusion that the best is to just ignore them. They get fueled by your triggered responses to them, i just ignored them never answered them or gave a reaction. If they wanted to physically harm me i defended myself but nothing more. This was the best solution. After a while they didn't bully me anymore because as they said im an empty soulless husk.

 

[quazz]

I tried to, but I couldn't win no matter what I did. Whenever I fought back the school would punish me more than the kids tormenting me, and they would just start again the next day. I was the joke of my entire school. Even thinking about it now makes me feel awful.

Yeah that's the biggest bullshit and would happen to me to. Kids would start shit with me and then run to the teacher saying I attacked them and I would get blamed. After a little I stopped caring and would just go hard whenever I was fucked with, I was extremely depressed for years and didn't care about life at that point so if I got expelled I didn't really care either. Almost had to go to court for what I did but I didn't care cause I was so depressed.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

They get fueled by your triggered responses to them, i just ignored them never answered them or gave a reaction.

This is horrible advice. That is what the typical bully expects. Its not like its normal for the guy to start crying like a baby because a guy is slapping the back of their neck all day. Ignoring it is ultimate sign of submission. Especially when there is a crowd, more so if they are having fun with it.

 

[LebaneseCel]

I'm too short for that and will obviously get my ass beat.

 

[quazz]

To be honest. At first i endured it but that was not good. Then i fought back everytime and it kinda got sometimes even worse. But then i came to the conclusion that the best is to just ignore them. They get fueled by your triggered responses to them, i just ignored them never answered them or gave a reaction. If they wanted to physically harm me i defended myself but nothing more. This was the best solution. After a while they didn't bully me anymore because as they said im an empty soulless husk.

Ignoring is the worst thing to do, think about it if you get fucked with everyday you have nothing to lose. If you go ham and beat the fuck out of the person fucking with you and you get expelled at least you don't have to deal with that shit anymore and plus you will feel good about yourself.

 

[BansBandit]

I did beat up a bully who was the 'coolest' kid in middle school. He and his clique was so mean he made multiple teachers, mostly substitutes, cry. He completely cowered and was 100% defense, dodging and blocking for a whole minute. I did gave him some bruises though. After that he and the clique were fairly nice.

What does SF mean?

Suicide fuel, he went into a depressed introvert mode for a long ass time, but used that depression and isolation to better himself by working out in the sun in his backyard. He then emerged from that depression with a shredded body and a great tan, ascending him to gigachad status

 

[TheGoat]

I got bullied in elementary for being ugly and short. I was a bold kid, I’d mess with my bullies cause them to bully me worse. In 2nd grade I dug a hole small enough for me under the stairs that leads up to the slide at the playground at school, I did something to the bully to make him mad at me and I ran and climbed inside the hole under the slide and when the bully would try tic squeeze though the hole I’d kick the fuck outta his fingers

 

[Inbuddhist]

I was bullied only once by a guy, it wasn't a very mean bullying, he just made fun of the way i shaved one day.

But since i have anger issues, and he was way too strong to be confronted physically, i photoshopped pictures of him taking dicks in his ass and sent them to his family/girlfriend/friends, he hit me on the street then brought his parents to my parents asking to resolve the matter and never spoke to me again.

And no, i don't regret it.

 

[Evildoer]

I always did, i could win even with three on one, so usually nobody bullied me, i was just an outcast, feared and ignored by anyone.

 

[quazz]

I was bullied only once by a guy, it wasn't a very mean bullying, he just made fun of the way i shaved one day.

But since i have anger issues, and he was way too strong to be confronted physically, i photoshopped pictures of him taking dicks in his ass and sent them to his family/girlfriend/friends, he hit me on the street then brought his parents to my parents asking to resolve the matter and never spoke to me again.

And no, i don't regret it.

LOL that sounds autistic as fuck, what did he say about your shaving. And why did he snitch to his parents.

 

[NobodyLovesMe]

I only got bullied pretty hard in like 6th grade. But a lot of people in my grade was. It was like a free for all.

Never really stood up to them, who knows what they would’ve done to me

 

[Deleted member 8499]

I did but it didn't work since I was beta and ugly with no friends to stand up for him.

 

[Inbuddhist]

LOL that sounds autistic as fuck, what did he say about your shaving. And why did he snitch to his parents.

Autistic or not i resolved the matter at least and was never approached again.

I'd rather seems autistic than bullied like a bitch

Well he just said that it was weird for a teenager to have a beard like that (i was one of the first teenagers in my class to get a beard)

 

[Anonymous MG]

I never got bullied in grade school, I never interacted with anyone at all and remained basically invisible during the entirety of school. Never had any close friends, mostly just acquaintances I had short conversations with out of necessity. You can't exactly form an aggression or hatred for someone you probably don't even know who exists.

 

[129samot]

In my school everyone was bullied. Even chads. Everyone just bullied each other

 

[Kanakops]

I have do and I regret, it's was really humilliating and I have cry in front of all peoples

but also I don't really get bullie after secondary 2-3

 

[quazz]

I only got bullied pretty hard in like 6th grade. But a lot of people in my grade was. It was like a free for all.

Never really stood up to them, who knows what they would’ve done to me

Yeah in my school everyone got bullied I was thinking maybe it was just my school that was like that but I guess not. This one kid getting bullied thing seems like a meme to be honest.

In my school everyone was bullied. Even chads. Everyone just bullied each other

Yep everyone hates everyone these days. People only hide it once they get older so they don't screw up their career and they are more self aware of how they are seen.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Yeah some guy that was supposed to be in high school but got held back a bunch of times. Filled my backpack full of textbooks and slammed them in the back of the head with it.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

I'm too short for that and will obviously get my ass beat.

Same we are meant to submit

 

[Asianmanletcel]

i regret not standing up and the internet back then wasn't that helpful what to do about bullying

 

[BabyFacedIncel]

All the time, if you dont stand up to bullies your a bitch IMO. Im not short but was skinny AF and got my ass kicked in highschool few times for hitting back but it was worth it. If you are really short just use a chair when they are sitting down and bash it over their head, people wont fuck with you as much.

The guys who beat me up because I attacked one for throwing something at me in art class they all beat the shit out of me but I knew where the guy lived and I torched his car. After I left that school that is.

 

[Dopeycel]

I did, I beat him up with help from a friend. But then the bully squealed to his father, who got me in deep trouble, and I was labelled the bully.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

There was this one guy who'd constantly put me down. I could easily beat him up badly if I tried. But I couldn't - the guy had 3 older brothers, all three had gone to jail before and wouldn't hesitate to kill me if I ever confronted my bully. So it just wasn't worth it, I had to take the abuse, and so did others in my class too.