My friend is from Peru and he came to America when he was 17 years old because he wanted live here. He actually speak english pretty well because his parents got him english learning video tapes and dvd since he was little. He said it was his dream to come to live in America. I've known him for 4 years. He's 25 now.
He's not bad looking, maybe average in the face, lighter skin tone, but he's 5'3. (the average height in Peru for men is like 5'2-5'4 for men) He's always been rejected by women because of his height. He never had a girlfriend because of this, but he's always trying to remain positive because in his words "If I keep getting rejected it just means God has the perfect GF ready for me for another time"
He's basically a blue pilled incel, he's a virgin who's never had sex, he has gotten matches on tinder, until the girls find out about his height then they loose interest, but he still remains positive after so many rejections. I never had the heart to tell him about what inceldom or the black pill is, because I didn't want to crush him.
Well several months back he made a confession to me and told me that he wasn't enjoying his time in America, that he couldn't make a lot of friends and dating was hard and he was feeling lonely. He started to realize that women in the USA had high standards he didn't meet. He told me "Being short is normal in Peru, it's just part of our genes, but now I find myself feeling ashamed of being Peruvian because of my height."
Two months ago he sold all his stuff, and went back to Peru.
I stay friends with him, and suddenly he's a different person. He's happier. His social media shows him now with friends, and he's got a GF, and she's actually pretty cute. He looks like he's having a good time and I'm happy for him. He even has an added status of living in America and speaking english fluently. But he's a bit upset because he feels he wasted so much time in America for nothing, and had to give up his dream.
On one hand I think he ascended because he now has friends and a GF. On the other hand he had to basically give up his dream of living in America because he didn't meet the dating standards, so it kinda feels like coping. I mean, can I really say you're winning in life when you had to give up your dreams just to have a GF? Something any Normie can do in the USA without having to give up their dreams.
Also it doesn't feel like your typical seamaxx where a white guy uses is JBW theory to get an asian gf, in his case he's just going back to where was originally was from.
Just give up your dreams and then you can find a girlfriend bro
TLDR;
Peruvian friend came to the USA at 18
Was always his dream to live in the USA
He's 5'3 because Peruvians are shorter
Failed at achieving friends
Girls reject him for his height
Now is a 25 year old virgin
Sold all his stuff and went back to Peru
Now has friends and a cute girlfriend
Also has above normie status in Peru for living in America and speaking English
Seems happier but at the cost of giving up his American dream.
