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Brutal Did anybody here have selective mutism in school?

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I had "selective mutism" in 8th grade (age 13-14). That meant that I didn't talk to any students at school even when they spoke to me, I just refused to say anything back to them. I also refused to speak to my extended family when we visited, even when they spoke to me. But I would speak to teachers at school (mostly because I didn't want to get in trouble), and I talked to my mom at home like normal. I had it the whole school year September to May. I was bullied extremely badly every day that year because of it. I hid in the library during lunch instead of eating in the lunch room. It went away by the 9th grade though.

I didn't even know there was a "clinical" term for this. At the time I thought I was the only person in the world who had ever had this problem. Although it usually occurs much earlier in childhood, like age 4-8. Apparently it's very rare to occur as late as age 14.

The worst bullying happened in "Gifted and Talented" class. I was put in there because of my high test scores. Yeah, the smart kids were the worst bullies.
 
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Cho Pilled. No I didn’t have this but I was always shy around women. I became more anti social during highschool at first I was fine but the last two years of school I became more and more shy. Now after school I barely leave my house anymore.
 
I had "selective mutism" in 8th grade (age 13-14). That meant that I didn't talk to any students at school even when they spoke to me, I just refused to say anything back to them. I also refused to speak to my extended family when we visited, even when they spoke to me. But I would speak to teachers at school (mostly because I didn't want to get in trouble), and I talked to my mom at home like normal. I had it the whole school year September to May. I was bullied extremely badly every day that year because of it. I hid in the library during lunch instead of eating in the lunch room. It went away by the 9th grade though.

I didn't even know there was a "clinical" term for this. At the time I thought I was the only person in the world who had ever had this problem. Although it usually occurs much earlier in childhood, like age 4-8. Apparently it's very rare to occur as late as age 14.
sounds fucking gay "selective mutism"

I JUST DONT WANT TO TALK BECAUSE I HATE PEOPLE AND I SOUND FUCKING STUPID WHEN I OPEN MY MOUTH
 
Brutal. I never got to that point
The most similar thing i did was sitting alone
 
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Cho Pilled. No I didn’t have this but I was always shy around women. I became more anti social during highschool at first I was fine but the last two years of school I became more and more shy. Now after school I barely leave my house anymore.
Oh wow I didn't know Cho had it.
 
Brutal. I never got to that point
The most similar thing i did was sitting alone
The worst bullying happened in "Gifted and Talented" class. I was put in there because of my high test scores. Yeah, the smart kids were the worst bullies.
 
Oh wow I didn't know Cho had it.
Yeah he only talked to his sister mostly when he was a little kid. When he became older he talked a little and tried to be sociable but everyone thought he was weird and women treated him like an animal.
 
sounds fucking gay "selective mutism"

I JUST DONT WANT TO TALK BECAUSE I HATE PEOPLE AND I SOUND FUCKING STUPID WHEN I OPEN MY MOUTH
That's understandable. When I was a teen, one reason I was self-conscious about talking was because people said I sounded like a girl, and I didn't like my voice. Especially talking on the phone, people called me "ma'am" sometimes. :lul:
 
The worst bullying happened in "Gifted and Talented" class. I was put in there because of my high test scores. Yeah, the smart kids were the worst bullies.
yeah i also had high scores. First they were something i though would make me happy and second, more important, i didn't have social life. So my only life were the school exams. That till 16-17 when i began to get tired of school, more depressed and noticed that good grades were no cope
 
Yeah for most of my highschool years, the only difference is that almost no one tried to speak to me, so it was my default to be mute.
 
I had "selective mutism" in 8th grade (age 13-14). That meant that I didn't talk to any students at school even when they spoke to me, I just refused to say anything back to them. I also refused to speak to my extended family when we visited, even when they spoke to me. But I would speak to teachers at school (mostly because I didn't want to get in trouble), and I talked to my mom at home like normal. I had it the whole school year September to May. I was bullied extremely badly every day that year because of it. I hid in the library during lunch instead of eating in the lunch room. It went away by the 9th grade though.

I didn't even know there was a "clinical" term for this. At the time I thought I was the only person in the world who had ever had this problem. Although it usually occurs much earlier in childhood, like age 4-8. Apparently it's very rare to occur as late as age 14.

The worst bullying happened in "Gifted and Talented" class. I was put in there because of my high test scores. Yeah, the smart kids were the worst bullies.
Chopilled
 
Yeah right now i have some kind of selective mutism because a lot of times i dont greet people i already know or i barely spoke words to them, too tiresome
 
I talk normally to my parents, sister and brother in law, but I'm quiet and awkward around extended family and people I don't know well like my parents' friends. Where I'm from, people, middle aged and older men especially, are loud and very extroverted, and it's hard for me to keep up so I don't say anything unless I'm asked a question.

I never ignored people in school and I often tried to socialize and be funny. The reason I've never had actual friends is that even though I spoke to people at school and generally wasn't disliked by other kids, at home I wanted to be left alone and play vidya, browse the internet, you know the usual incel activities.
 
Literally got bullied by a classless bitch of a teacher for not being able to read aloud a passage
 

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