Oh boy, we are on a forum who some would say escorts already revoke your status.
To me if you are unable to find a compatible partner you can be classified an Incel, meaning you can't find someone who can't find you attractive or unable to share interests.
A lot of men here would say only looks matter, others money, others dick size.
And many, many here would gladly date a girl once and be divorced, this is not my case, I believe words do need to be worth something, if she says she loves another man before you then she is no longer worthy of YOU.
Thus a man who is KHHV and is looking for a KHHV woman is an Incel, as he has zero saying on the matter, since it is practically impossible to find a woman like that.
That is the meaning of the word involuntary, is against my will that women are natural sluts from an early age, I have zero and I mean absolutely zero control in their hypergamy / polygamy.