Hi, little me! I'm you from the future!
The reason I'm talking to you is because you, little Sadness, have just experienced your first romantic feelings for the opposite sex! You're one of the first in your class to do so! You can thank your high T levels for that.
Now, there's something called sexual intercourse. You don't know what it is yet, and you won't know until later in your life. All you can imagine doing to a girl right now is kissing her. You wonder deeply what it's like to be kissed on the lips, and who can blame you? After all, you see it everywhere you go; in person, in movies, on TV - especially in those children's sitcoms that glamorize a character's "first kiss". As a result, you're starting to think of a "first kiss" as a customary milestone in one's youth, and you're correct.
So, now you're excitedly wondering "When will my first kiss be?". You're a smart kid, and you know that girls your age aren't into boys yet. Your most educated guess is in middle school - which still seems lightyears away - and you're all but certain that it'll happen before or during high school. It's an understandable guess, based on what you've seen in the media.
Unfortunately, I have some really bad news for you, kid. I'm 17 and I still haven't had my "first kiss". Yes, it's been nine years, I've lived more than twice your lifetime and I've still never kissed a girl.
You used to be the odd one out because you liked girls, and now I'm the odd one out for the opposite reason: because I've never done anything with a girl.
Do you notice how girls treat you now? They avoid you and think you're "gross", but that's just because they think that all boys are "gross". As you grow up, their attitudes towards other boys will change… but not towards you. They will be just as disgusted by you as they are right now, only it'll hurt a lot more because you'll see how well they'll treat other boys.
Do you remember those mean kids who bully you on the playground? Well, they're the ones who will be getting all the girls. I know, it's an injustice. They're the ones who will kiss girls in middle school, and do that "sex" thing in high school. The girls, who for some reason like to act like they're morally-superior beings, will watch in amusement as your bullies torment you, and later give them all the love that they don't deserve. However, if you try behaving like your bullies, you won't get the same results, you'll just be hated even more. Why the double standard, you ask? Well… it's complicated.
All I can say is: Buckle up, kiddo. You're in for a shitty ride.
The reason I'm talking to you is because you, little Sadness, have just experienced your first romantic feelings for the opposite sex! You're one of the first in your class to do so! You can thank your high T levels for that.
Now, there's something called sexual intercourse. You don't know what it is yet, and you won't know until later in your life. All you can imagine doing to a girl right now is kissing her. You wonder deeply what it's like to be kissed on the lips, and who can blame you? After all, you see it everywhere you go; in person, in movies, on TV - especially in those children's sitcoms that glamorize a character's "first kiss". As a result, you're starting to think of a "first kiss" as a customary milestone in one's youth, and you're correct.
So, now you're excitedly wondering "When will my first kiss be?". You're a smart kid, and you know that girls your age aren't into boys yet. Your most educated guess is in middle school - which still seems lightyears away - and you're all but certain that it'll happen before or during high school. It's an understandable guess, based on what you've seen in the media.
Unfortunately, I have some really bad news for you, kid. I'm 17 and I still haven't had my "first kiss". Yes, it's been nine years, I've lived more than twice your lifetime and I've still never kissed a girl.
You used to be the odd one out because you liked girls, and now I'm the odd one out for the opposite reason: because I've never done anything with a girl.
Do you notice how girls treat you now? They avoid you and think you're "gross", but that's just because they think that all boys are "gross". As you grow up, their attitudes towards other boys will change… but not towards you. They will be just as disgusted by you as they are right now, only it'll hurt a lot more because you'll see how well they'll treat other boys.
Do you remember those mean kids who bully you on the playground? Well, they're the ones who will be getting all the girls. I know, it's an injustice. They're the ones who will kiss girls in middle school, and do that "sex" thing in high school. The girls, who for some reason like to act like they're morally-superior beings, will watch in amusement as your bullies torment you, and later give them all the love that they don't deserve. However, if you try behaving like your bullies, you won't get the same results, you'll just be hated even more. Why the double standard, you ask? Well… it's complicated.
All I can say is: Buckle up, kiddo. You're in for a shitty ride.
