Serious Dating single mothers as older male incel?

[neet]

I'm currently in my thirties now, still an unexperienced virgin and try to date women from my age bracket but I noticed that most women are having a boyfriend/married and starting to settle down and start a family. The few who are single are single mothers with small kids. What are the pros/cons of dating single mothers?

 

[lnceI]

there are no pros

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Cons:
You'll be raising someone's kids
Rarely will you have sex
Waste of time
Pros:

 

[neet]

there are no pros

Even single mothers having too high standards. I tried sending a DM on a dating website but she refused by telling me that I'm not her type.

 

[neet]

Cons:
You'll be raising someone's kids
Rarely will you have sex
Waste of time
Pros:

Beggars can't be choosers. Ofc every men wants a young hot women without children but if you don't have high SMV, you have nothing to choose. Take it of leave it, so I'm in doubt since I'm a asian guy but prefer white women but as you might know asian guys are not popular among whites.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Beggars can't be choosers. Ofc every men wants a young hot women without children but if you don't have high SMV, you have nothing to choose. Take it of leave it, so I'm in doubt since I'm a asian guy but prefer white women but as you might know asian guys are not popular among whites.

Asian guys have it the worse. Asian women hate them, white women hate them, black women hate them, latina's hate them, it's over for Asian men.

It's not really about the looks of them, but it's more about the personality of them. Why reward a woman who removed you from the gene pool for decades to go and fuck chad, get pregnant with their kid, and now you're paying money to help raise that kid and you're likely not going to get sex that often with the Mom.

 

[SupremeFroggy]

They're looking for betabuxxers but still have quite high standards, even if they don't want to breed anymore.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Don't

 

[Pointless]

I'm currently in my thirties now

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[Cuckoja]

I'd say its worth it unless shes a serial single mom with bunch of baby daddies. Lets face it, total majority of people have a past at 30s. Just don't get too involved with the kid if the mother isn't serious about you. Its unfair to you and the child.

 

[Violet loner]

Even single moms are choosers

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Cons:
You'll be raising someone's kids
Rarely will you have sex
Waste of time
Pros:

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Just don't. Fuck her if you can, quickly as possible but that won't gonna happen. They will spread the legs after you spend a lot of money on them and her kids and that's not worth it.

 

[zd60]

Don't

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Cons:
You'll be raising someone's kids
Rarely will you have sex
Waste of time
Pros:

Trvke.

 

[TooSomething]

Even single mothers having too high standards. I tried sending a DM on a dating website but she refused by telling me that I'm not her type.

Not her type = fugly

 

[TooSomething]

Is one a volcel if one refuses to date single mothers?

 

[SupremeFroggy]

Is one a volcel if one refuses to date single mothers?

If one wants to date you then yes, but imho no kids is a reasonable standard if you want to keep both your dignity and mental health.

 

[GmeOvr]

I'm currently in my thirties now, still an unexperienced virgin

You really need some experience, I suggest you come to Pattaya.

 

[slavcel11]

not only there are no pros, if you are old enough there are no other options

 

[ThanostheGOAT]

Cons:
You'll be raising someone's kids
Rarely will you have sex
Waste of time
Pros:

 

[Zero53]

Pros: