Zyros
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https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/7rmyio/today_i_experience_being_fa_and_beta_right_in_the/
Holy shit this is the BIGGEST insult you can receive from a girl. For her to come up to you and a friend she knows from the same time as you, completely ignore you (even interrupt you), give all attention to him and even try to take him away with her leaving you alone. Holy shit I can't think of a better way to call a male "worthless and inferior" to his face than this. I would never do this to a girl yet I've seen girls do this SO MANY TIMES: giving all the attention to one male and treat another like he is invisible, while knowing the two of them for the same amount of time and being in the same social setting in the same group. They truly don't know about empathy.
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]My friend and I are both in the same class with this girl who I had a class with previously. I had good conversation and interactions with that girl and I decided to ask her out for coffee (as suggested by my normie friends) at the end of the quarter. Got subtly turned down. Went home, no biggie. Ever since we had classes together again I just basically never look at her or talk to her just to show that I can take a hint and I'm not a clinger or a creep.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]In this quarter my friend and I are both in the class, they are working together in a research group and she highkey flirt with him daily before and after class. I was sitting with him in the back of the class room (by ourselves) and was talking about the homework in this other class we were taking, she walked in and basically interrupted our conversation and asked him to sit by her in the front. He declined (I don't think he's into her) but I'm slightly offended at the request, why? I was having a conversation with my friend, and you are basically asking him to leave me and sit up front right in the middle of our conversation like I'm nothing.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Anyway, after class started I moved up closer to the front just so I can take clearer picture of the board, she turned around and looked at me and quickly look away. Maybe she meant no harm but then I realized she might still think that I am "trying to get close to her" or something. The thing is I wasn't, but for some reason I felt like I am offending her by moving closer, that I'm SUPPOSED to stay away from her after the rejection last quarter.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Why do we feel that way? Why is it that we must somehow feel inferior? Or ashamed? Yeah I like girls, I am attracted to girls, why? What's the problem? I am a fucking heterosexual male (well I'm not fucking, but you know what I mean), who has emotional needs and some time I need to pretend I'm cuddling with someone and I shouldn't be ashamed of that. Yet I do.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]If nothing else I know you FAs always have my back. I'm worthy, and I choose to have my value determined by people who matter like you.[/font]
Holy shit this is the BIGGEST insult you can receive from a girl. For her to come up to you and a friend she knows from the same time as you, completely ignore you (even interrupt you), give all attention to him and even try to take him away with her leaving you alone. Holy shit I can't think of a better way to call a male "worthless and inferior" to his face than this. I would never do this to a girl yet I've seen girls do this SO MANY TIMES: giving all the attention to one male and treat another like he is invisible, while knowing the two of them for the same amount of time and being in the same social setting in the same group. They truly don't know about empathy.