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Cruelest aspect of being an incel?


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In your humble opinion brocels? :feelshehe:
 
I just really want some kids so I can raise them to be better than I ever was. The fact that I can't have that it probably the most heartbreaking. What I would give to have people walk on this earth that would consider me the greatest guy in the world just because I am their dad.

Inb4 "you ugly so you can't make kids" castrated cucks. I don't care.
 
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i think the first if you extend the meaning to fantasies/daydreaming or things like dating sims/self-inserting into romance anime protagonists and shit
 
getting heightmogged
 
I think Peter Pan syndrome is the cruelest part. None of us will ever fully experience what it's like to be a a man and we will be eternally longing for it until we croak. Nothing sounds more depressing than failing at what you were literally made to do. :feelsrope:
 
there must be multiple choices at once
 
i just wanna shoot me some soyers :society: :feelskek:
 
I picked "being outcasted by society..."

To elaborate though, it is brutal because all of society is designed around sexhavers and breeders. As an incel you pay into a system you do not benefit from, whose entire purpose is to subsidize the spawn of breeder sex-havers and perpetuate the sexhaving. You are compelled to be a wageslave cuck for society and if you deviate from that you are punished in various explicit and implicit ways.

If i had a guaranteed NEET pension for the rest of my life i could tolerate being incel. Or, inversely, if i had a loving gf i could tolerate being a wageslave. But not getting sex AND being forced to labor in this nonsensical society for the benefit of rich boomers and welfare leech tyrones is intolerable.
 
I just really want some kids so I can raise them to be better than I ever was. The fact that I can't have that it probably the most heartbreaking. What I would give to have people walk on this earth that would consider me the greatest guy in the world just because I am their dad.

Inb4 "you ugly so you can't make kids" castrated cucks. I don't care.
Feel that, man.
 
Being treated as less than human
 
I just really want some kids so I can raise them to be better than I ever was. The fact that I can't have that it probably the most heartbreaking. What I would give to have people walk on this earth that would consider me the greatest guy in the world just because I am their dad.

Inb4 "you ugly so you can't make kids" castrated cucks. I don't care.
Same mang.
 
Peter Pan syndrome.
Never experiencing how it feels to be a real man and gaining respect from others because you're a valuable adult.
 
the whole scope of being an incel/volcel , people think its just about not being able to attract women but it goes beyond that . Being ugly will affect you in every single aspect of your life such as school , work and everything else.Yet soysciety doesnt want to hear this sort of critique from us
 
My whole existence
 
Pretty much everything that comes with being an incel. Poor mental health, you're ugly and thus not liked, your status follows you everywhere.
 
Simply not having unpaid access to sex, cuddling and deep french kissing with a young woman. I also want to experience impregnating a woman, the same shit why I'm here suffering. I don't really care about fitting in with others and competing against them, I just want to enjoy my life which I can't as a poorcel. Maybe it's the third last option.
 
Being lifemogged and bullied by chads and stacies. It is bad enough being an incel but these cunts have to rub it in your face how your genetic trash that can't get laid everytime I see couples kissing in public I get so upset I want to punch them in their stupid face.
 
Peter Pan Syndrome.
 
In your humble opinion brocels? :feelshehe:
the boy who never grew up


i will never have my first kiss
i will never be apart of a sports team
i will never be a core part of a friendgroup
i will never secretly go to parties
i will never have a sleepover
i will never have a gf

i will simply keep doing what i've always done since i was a kid, rotting in my room alone.

you can always simply become a NEET and avoid society, but you can't avoid yourself and your stunted social life
 
the whole scope of being an incel/volcel , people think its just about not being able to attract women but it goes beyond that . Being ugly will affect you in every single aspect of your life such as school , work and everything else.Yet soysciety doesnt want to hear this sort of critique from us
 
The cruelest part is the Peter Pan archetype.

There will be something about your behavioral patterns that are permanently fucked up that most people can pick up on, because you haven’t gotten out that energy that most people get out when you are young.

It’s especially cruel because it goes beyond even being villified for just being ugly and unwanted / socially unacceptable because most people judge you for not having a woman.

You’ll eventually find some people who will accept those facts about you and won’t be able to accept you anyways because they won’t accept those immature parts of you.

You’ll get a blip of love after decades of lovelessness, hatred, contempt, social ostracization, and bullying, only for that blip of love to end as soon as it starts when they realize how unconsciously immature you are.

It’s like we are rabbid dogs that people kick because it’s fun, and occasionally someone rubs a chew toy in your face and says good boy, only to kick you in the nose.
 
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Seeing people in intimate relationships, friend groups, PDA, etc…
 
my biggest issue is that nobody cares, no matter what, nobody. cares.
 
The gaslighting, bullying and slander. Despite how horrific our life circumstances are, society has no empathy for us. When we earnestly share our problems, they patronise us and give us garbage advice. When we vent about our situation, they call us terrible people and say that this is the cause of our inceldom (despite legitimately evil people getting into relationships all the time). That's when they're not just casually mocking and dehumanising us for our lack of sexual experience.

It's bad enough that we're barred from enjoying many of life's pleasures, but society has decided to collectively rub salt in the wound. It makes the stigma and humiliation we face even more burdensome.

my biggest issue is that nobody cares, no matter what, nobody. cares.
Nobody has our backs. We are oppressed in every sense of the word.
 
The cruelest part is the Peter Pan archetype.

There will be something about your behavioral patterns that are permanently fucked up that most people can pick up on, because you haven’t gotten out that energy that most people get out when you are young.

It’s especially cruel because it goes beyond even being villified for just being ugly and unwanted / socially unacceptable because most people judge you for not having a woman.

You’ll eventually find some people who will accept those facts about you and won’t be able to accept you anyways because they won’t accept those immature parts of you.

You’ll get a blip of love after decades of lovelessness, hatred, contempt, social ostracization, and bullying, only for that blip of love to end as soon as it starts when they realize how unconsciously immature you are.

It’s like we are rabbid dogs that people kick because it’s fun, and occasionally someone rubs a chew toy in your face and says good boy, only to kick you in the nose.
I can relate to that very well
 
Nobody has our backs. We are oppressed in every sense of the word.
when I'm sad, I have nobody to cry on. When I'm happy, I have nobody to laugh with. When I'm scared, I have nobody to hold.
 
Crippling boredom
 
Watching the people around you, both physically and online, succeed in various aspects of their lives, while my own life remains in eternal stagnation where I am unable to go anywhere because I'm too much of a loser incel. And while they do so, they don't give a shit about you. No one ever cared and no one ever will.
 
Being a walking ghost who only gets interactions when asking for directions or taking pictures of family’s
 
I just really want some kids so I can raise them to be better than I ever was. The fact that I can't have that it probably the most heartbreaking. What I would give to have people walk on this earth that would consider me the greatest guy in the world just because I am their dad.

Inb4 "you ugly so you can't make kids" castrated cucks. I don't care.
 
Swallowing the Teen love pill and the NTpill
 
daily thoughts of suicide. guess that's the only thing that's always there for me
 
For me it's the dying alone thing. I was laying in bed last night before going to wageslave and I just thought to myself "oh my good I'm gonna live the rest of my life alone and I'm gonna fucking die alone" and it was fucking brutal.

There's nothing to look forward to. It's all just living the rest of my days in this prison that is my apartment apart from going to wageslaving, gym and grocery shopping.
 
The constant unrelenting isolation. You watch vidoes of ex cons crying about being in the hole (solitary confinement) when thats literally our lives.
 
I just really want some kids so I can raise them to be better than I ever was. The fact that I can't have that it probably the most heartbreaking. What I would give to have people walk on this earth that would consider me the greatest guy in the world just because I am their dad.

Inb4 "you ugly so you can't make kids" castrated cucks. I don't care.
I think bringing children into the world is morally wrong because you are forcing somebody against their consent to exist because of your own selfish reasons of muh legacy I'm very proud to be an anti-natalist I wish for the human race to go extinct myself included no humans means no ruined Planet no people means no people problems life guarantees misery that is why I live in Epicurean lifestyle I just want to enjoy myself enough before I die and that means as a Insel getting the fuck away from people and spending my time getting high getting intoxicated and watching funny videos and learning things about the world around me but in all honesty I am pretty depressed and sad knowing I'm going to die a virgin and alone
 
Obviously the main thing is constantly knowing that I am unlovable and not being able to do anything about it;
Though literally the happiest I've ever felt was in a dream where I was on a date and was given a present, extremely brutal waking up.
 
These two:
  • Being stuck as the perpetual Peter Pan archetype of the boy who never grew up.
  • That there’s literally no way to change your fate through gym or surgery maxxing.
 

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