Here i asked niggergpt to translate the post:
First of all, I wanted to post this on Reddit Iskrice, but I see you can’t add photos there.
In this post, I’m sharing my Tinder experience (M, 31).
I’ve noticed that many people don’t realize what actually plays the biggest role in dating and flirting: looks and a certain “I-don’t-care” attitude. Over the past few months, I’ve tested “silly” and primitive openers on Tinder in Croatia and a bit in Slovenia. My profile only had my photos, and I’m Croatian, so there was no “foreigner” factor influencing the results.
From what I’ve seen, the main takeaway is: the better you look and the more you show that you don’t overthink the other person, the more attractive you are. Does this always work? Of course not, but much more often than people realize.
Another point: there’s a common narrative that Tinder attracts a certain “type” of person. In reality, Tinder is a lot more like the real world than people want to admit. Most people between 20–40 either use or have used Tinder at some point.
If this can help guys see what actually works, great. Women often give advice that isn’t very effective because they don’t want to seem “easy,” so it’s useful to see a different perspective.
The main point: looks + a certain “carefree confidence” (which can show in your Tinder opener or in-person communication). With every one of my test openers, the girls continued talking; it was rare for someone to immediately unmatch.
If anyone recognizes me, username checks out.
