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Discussion Coworkers invite me to get a drink after work, should I go?

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Today, I overheard my normie coworkers planning an after-work meetup tomorrow to drink and socialize. :feelsmega: No one was mentioning it to me. :feelsrope: They don't really like me. I’m not part of their circle. I've firmly cemented my reputation as the extremely quiet, socially awkward loner. :feelscry: The males dislike me more than the females. :feelsseriously:

After a whole hour, one of the females reluctantly approached me and asked if I would come. :feelsseriously: I inquired about whether they'd be drinking alcohol (hoping for an excuse to opt out for religious reasons) but she quickly added, "You don’t have to drink, there's other options." I said that I’d decide tomorrow.

Should I go? :forcedsmile:

I already know what's going to happen: me walking behind them like I'm a stalker, then awkwardly sat in silence, fake-scrolling on my phone as I feel their glances that say, 'Why is he here?' as I desperately wish I could just go home.
 
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No. For an incel, socialising is like pouring petrol on a fire.
 
you're going to be used as a scapegoat, just cannon fodder basically
 
Hell no.

You're better off just drinking at home like I do.
 
I already know what's going to happen: me walking behind them like I'm a stalker, then awkwardly sat in silence, fake-scrolling on my phone as I feel their glances that say, 'Why is he here?' as I desperately wish I could just go home.
Kek been there before ngl. You answered your own question. Don't go and give them a made up excuse. The only reason they invited you was to feel better about themselves. Normies love to look down on and laugh at others less fortunate than they are. They are psychopaths.
 
I would go just to observe these animals in their natural behavior
 
Today, I overheard my normie coworkers planning an after-work meetup tomorrow to drink and socialize. :feelsmega: No one was mentioning it to me. :feelsrope: They don't really like me. I’m not part of their circle. I've firmly cemented my reputation as the extremely quiet, socially awkward loner. :feelscry: The males dislike me more than the females. :feelsseriously:

After a whole hour, one of the females reluctantly approached me and asked if I would come. :feelsseriously: I inquired about whether they'd be drinking alcohol (hoping for an excuse to opt out for religious reasons) but she quickly added, "You don’t have to drink, there's other options." I said that I’d decide tomorrow.

Should I go? :forcedsmile:

I already know what's going to happen: me walking behind them like I'm a stalker, then awkwardly sat in silence, fake-scrolling on my phone as I feel their glances that say, 'Why is he here?' as I desperately wish I could just go home.
No- they invited you out of pity- it would be better if you made an excuse such as telling them you're volunteering- it would improve your reputation and allow you to not go.
 
If you're sure that they're just asking you because they feel obligated to include everyone at the workplace, then don't go. If they hate you, forcing them to be around you more will only make things worse at your job. Always remember that women control the workplace in Current Year, and they HATE ugly men.

If you're on the fence, then it's a tough call. These are rare golden chances for us ugly men to socialize past university.
 
Today, I overheard my normie coworkers planning an after-work meetup tomorrow to drink and socialize. :feelsmega: No one was mentioning it to me. :feelsrope: They don't really like me. I’m not part of their circle. I've firmly cemented my reputation as the extremely quiet, socially awkward loner. :feelscry: The males dislike me more than the females. :feelsseriously:

After a whole hour, one of the females reluctantly approached me and asked if I would come. :feelsseriously: I inquired about whether they'd be drinking alcohol (hoping for an excuse to opt out for religious reasons) but she quickly added, "You don’t have to drink, there's other options." I said that I’d decide tomorrow.

Should I go? :forcedsmile:

I already know what's going to happen: me walking behind them like I'm a stalker, then awkwardly sat in silence, fake-scrolling on my phone as I feel their glances that say, 'Why is he here?' as I desperately wish I could just go home.
fakecel mogger.

Drink alcohol, loosen up and educate them on the blackpill
 
one of the females reluctantly approached me and asked if I would come.

Incel status 1
 
Do whatever you want, I don´t like to socialize so I´d say no.
 
They want you to come to make fun of you. They want you to be their jester.
 

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