Confidence is a byproduct of looks, a byproduct of the amount of validation you receive in your life because of them, the amount of compliments you receive because of your looks.
You can be remotely good at one thing, if people tell you that you are total shit at that certain thing you will start thinking you actually are because its all about who is liked more and socially accepted.. Its all a show for others, its all a show to seek validation and acceptance in such aspects such as social life and the feeling of having status.
Chad and stacy because of their looks portraying such things such as confidence through their pictures, social lifestyle, sex life everyone will just assume he is confident. They will assume he is confident because of how society has portrayed confident men to be.
Here is the first thing that comes up when you search CONFIDENT MAN, you can type it yourself if you doubt it.
This is how confident men are portrayed, and if you the more chad you look the more people will assume you are confident.
Hence they will shower you with validation and compliments... which ends up making you feel more confident.
If someone is given shit and compared to absolute trash in their life, do you all of sudden expect them to be confident?
Confidence is a total meme, yes water is wet. But its 100% a byproduct of your looks.
You only become confident when people let you know you are, if you are low inhib as a non "confident guy
"you will be just seen as just THAT low inhib guy.
And we all know what that means when you are seen as THAT "overcompensating" guy...
If you dont match the criteria society has set out for what a confident man looks like you will never be seen as confident, unless you are fighter or some other things.
You can be remotely good at one thing, if people tell you that you are total shit at that certain thing you will start thinking you actually are because its all about who is liked more and socially accepted.. Its all a show for others, its all a show to seek validation and acceptance in such aspects such as social life and the feeling of having status.
Chad and stacy because of their looks portraying such things such as confidence through their pictures, social lifestyle, sex life everyone will just assume he is confident. They will assume he is confident because of how society has portrayed confident men to be.
Here is the first thing that comes up when you search CONFIDENT MAN, you can type it yourself if you doubt it.
This is how confident men are portrayed, and if you the more chad you look the more people will assume you are confident.
Hence they will shower you with validation and compliments... which ends up making you feel more confident.
If someone is given shit and compared to absolute trash in their life, do you all of sudden expect them to be confident?
Confidence is a total meme, yes water is wet. But its 100% a byproduct of your looks.
You only become confident when people let you know you are, if you are low inhib as a non "confident guy
"you will be just seen as just THAT low inhib guy.And we all know what that means when you are seen as THAT "overcompensating" guy...
If you dont match the criteria society has set out for what a confident man looks like you will never be seen as confident, unless you are fighter or some other things.
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