My first post here.
Back in the PUA and redpill days people would always say that you need to go out there and ask a lot of women out, be the center of attention of a group, put yourself out there, say the right things, it's a numbers game etc
It's all bullshit. Chad doesn't need to do anything. One of the most brutal blackpills for me was a chad at my university.
Guy is tall and very broad (large frame, wide shoulders), fairly masculine rectangular Arnold type face. But he was extremely high inhib. He was (and still mostly is) the silent guy. When a group forms and people talk he doesn't say shit. He might say a few words in 5 or 10min. He sits quietly alone, he's not outgoing at all.
But guess what? Half of the girls want to fuck him. It's insane how many women he's had chasing after him. It's funny because I'm in STEM and 90% of the students are guys. One morning before an exam we were waiting outside of the exam room and there were a few seats. He sat alone. Then when the girls started arriving they always went towards him, tried to talk to him but he was just looking at his notes. Quickly there was a crowd of like 10 chicks (which is like half of the girls of our year lmao) just centered around him, talking to him or to each others.
Just sit there bro. Just don't talk bro.
When we would have group projects he would always be exclusively with girls or with his best friend. Just imagine lmao, lab work and 6 chicks all in his group. Meanwhile all the other 7-8 lab groups were male only except one girl who was with her bf. They would all rather be with him. They would rather share him than be with a non chad.
Just do your college work and let them come bro.
And he was very picky I heard, only went for certain types of girls unless he was very horny. He rejected them a lot. One of the most popular girls got rejected several times but kept trying. I heard one night after a party she brought him home (he lives on the other side of town) and he went for the sofa. She kept telling him she wanted him to sleep in her bedroom but he said nah i'm good. Even after that she kept following him everywhere and trying lmao. She'd rather be rejected and humiliated many times. It's only after like 2 years or so of rejection that she went for a chadlite, but she still tries to hang around him.
I don't go to parties but I have a somewhat normie friend that's my source of info. He said he would sit or stand in a corner and wait for girls to come to him. Sometimes when he headed towards the bar to grab a drink he would literally get grabbed and pulled by some random girl he never met. So much for "personality".
Just stand there bro. Or just move until you get grabbed and pulled bro.
The most hilarious thing I heard is that a chubby chick who also follows him everywhere and gives him those eyefuck stares was nagging him one night at a party. She wanted to go home and bring him with her. He got annoyed so he left with her. When he got to her doorstep he said it's late I'm tired, I'm going home. Then, without telling her, he went back to the party and got himself a turbo cutie lmao. Imagine being able to treat girls like that.
And another crazy thing I've been told is that at a bus stop at like 2 or 3 am a random woman walking to her apartment (she probably just came from another party) stopped, whispered some things to him and they both went to her place. My friend was speechless. He's an average looking guy and late at night women are only scared or paranoid about him or other men. But with chad it's different.
Just stand at the bus stop at 3 am bro.
Don't get me wrong. I don't hate the guy. He's actually pretty friendly. But he would literally be that quiet friendless sperg if it wasn't for his looks. He did everything wrong according to PUAs but got carried by his genes.
After all those years and insane amounts of validation he's a bit more outgoing, daring etc but he's still quite introverted. Fuck people who talk about confidence. He didn't need it and the only reason he has some confidence now is because he's been treated like a god every single day in college.
Edit: I know another chad like that from high school too so expect another post like this
