Teutonic Knight
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My girlfriend lied about virginity
Hi all! I really have no one to talk to (besides my girlfriend) so I decided to post on this forum because I am really really devout catholic and I really need to share this with someone and hear advices and maybe ask for a prayer…I am really broken right now so here goes my story…I warn...
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The most brutal part:
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We made a commitment and decided to wait for marriage(if we even get to that…) and NEVER went further from a simple kiss,hug or honest talk and prayer. We went daily to mass and everything seemed perfect.
Unfortunetly yesterday she came to me without a usual smile,she was really sad and had hard time telling me what was problem with her…we talked and talked and I found out that she was not a virgin as she claimed she was(she did told me before that she allowed her ex to touch her bottom and breast but I thought that was MAXIMUM)…looks like althought she still had her himen (didn’t have vaginal intercourse) she pretty much did everything else…
She claimed that she didn’t know that it was bad at a time and that she understands it just now when she is with me and that now she understands what is love and purity of love.
I listened to her and did my best to make it work,she cried and I wiped her tears trying not to cry myself…I decided to forgive her…problem is at the time she still didn’t tell me what was that she did with him…
Today she finally told me WHOLE truth…she broke up with him as I said about 4 years ago and in relationship it wasn’t that bad…it was sinful but only…erm…hand work
BIGGER problem with me is when she told me that he gave her and she gave him oral sex 2 YEARS AGO…meaning 2 years after they broke up…she claims she was still in love and wanted him back,he gave her oral sex and she did it to him…but during intercourse got disgusted and didn’t want to do it. till the end(although he did it to her completly)
what really hurts me is that she knows how much purity means to me,this happened about a year before we started dating and at the time were getting somehow romantic so I feel betrayed…and everything I thought I knew about her in this 4 years and my whole relationship was a LIE!!!
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Just find a virgin Catholic girl bro advice to Catholic males is the biggest cope. I feel like I would be more devastated if a girlfriend/wife told me she actually wasn't a virgin and gave oral sex to one man later on then if she just admitted that she had sex with 30 Chads before we started dating.
I think this kind of situation is the most devastating.





