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Can't get a woman cause I'm not really a man

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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There are certain ... standards, expectations from a man. Criteria that if you do not fulfill you're not even on the radar.

Now, we all know that ugliness is of course the top thing eliminating us from the dating pool. But a lot of us are also crippled by various mental problems and weaknesses. Other than that, we have the lifestyles of children, not men. Many of us haven't even reached the lifestyle of a teenager, I certainly haven't, I'm a damn kid at 26.

I see the importance of gymcelling now. It might not get you women, but there are certain things a man must do to be a man, and being physically strong is one of those things.
 
Yeah, just whatever helps at this point.
 
But a lot of us are also crippled by various mental problems and weaknesses
we are not incels because of those mental problems
we have those problems because we are incels
 
Yeah, just whatever helps at this point.
Tbh nothing helps, but thinking about things is pretty much the only thing I've got now. It's not like I'll actually do something, but my thoughts and my imagination are the only things that are easy to do when wallowing in misery and depression.
 
I’m just a disabled ugly autistic man.
 
Other than that, we have the lifestyles of children, not men. Many of us haven't even reached the lifestyle of a teenager, I certainly haven't, I'm a damn kid at 26.

I fucking hate this life. It is like beeing forever 17, but unfortunately you get older biologically, but mentally and based on experience you are still 17. There is even no real room for to improve.
Since you get older and older, time is fading. You will be declined from all apprenticeships. You need to earn money in a low-level job, like me. Perhaps you can find somewhat decent place in this job after spending years in that company, but the thing is, we do not have this time anymore... That is the whole problem. We would have needed a stable life from the very beginning.
Which means having an education, a decent job and payment, an own apartment, a driver licence and a decent car. If you do not have any of this at age 20, it is over.
 
It's so fucking unfair all a foid has to do is to simply exist meanwhile a man has to workout 4 times a week needs a high paying job and on top of that isn't even allowed to be average looking no he needs to be at least a fucking chadlite to be considred worth dating.
I fucking hate this life. It is like beeing forever 17, but unfortunately you get older biologically, but mentally and based on experience you are still 17. There is even no real room for to improve.
Since you get older and older, time is fading. You will be declined from all apprenticeships. You need to earn money in a low-level job, like me. Perhaps you can find somewhat decent place in this job after spending years in that company, but the thing is, we do not have this time anymore... That is the whole problem. We would have needed a stable life from the very beginning.
Which means having an education, a decent job and payment, an own apartment, a driver licence and a decent car. If you do not have any of this at age 20, it is over.
Basically this tbh ngl
 
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I fucking hate this life. It is like beeing forever 17, but unfortunately you get older biologically, but mentally and based on experience you are still 17. There is even no real room for to improve.
Since you get older and older, time is fading. You will be declined from all apprenticeships. You need to earn money in a low-level job, like me. Perhaps you can find somewhat decent place in this job after spending years in that company, but the thing is, we do not have this time anymore... That is the whole problem. We would have needed a stable life from the very beginning.
Which means having an education, a decent job and payment, an own apartment, a driver licence and a decent car. If you do not have any of this at age 20, it is over.
I didn't realize it until a few years ago, but life is fucking unforgivable. You fall behind by just a bit, and you're pretty much done for, stuck at the bottom of society for the rest of your life. Sure, there's exceptions, but it takes extremely lucky circumstances for that.

Oh my god I'm so old, I die inside every time I think about my age. I'm so far behind though, I've seen 20 year olds more successful than me.
 
I didn't realize it until a few years ago

Same. Back in time I was just too occupied by my childish thoughts ignoring everything else, ignoring that I am nothing but a failure.

I'm so far behind though, I've seen 20 year olds more successful than me.

Not even that. I heard that even friends of my sister (they are around 18+) having a driver licence, while I still live with my parents. In the end, I am 17 years old mentally. I made no real progress whatsoever in this world. I did not succeed anywhere.
Well ok, I do made some progress at the gym, but that is about it.
 
You could act like a kid and not be ripped or have a six pack and still get a gf 30years ago. Its just female empowerment fucked everything up its not as much your fault as you think
 
Not even that. I heard that even friends of my sister (they are around 18+) having a driver licence, while I still live with my parents.
They prolly fuck your sister in the car too, which is like rocket science to us.
 
Don't let them emasculate you brother.
They always tried with me subtly because of my height but don't give in. Unironically go to the gym
 
It's so fucking unfair all a foid has to do is to simply exist
this pisses me off SO FUCKING MUCH. All the foid have to do is literally exist and she will reviece constant support and validation on account of being a fucking hole. I hate it so much. And yet they are the ones who complain the most. I bet most foids never have had an empty moment in their entire lives. They wouldn't last one day as a true subhuman incel .
 
I’m 24 but have the mental maturity of a 15 year old tbh.
 
Same. Back in time I was just too occupied by my childish thoughts ignoring everything else, ignoring that I am nothing but a failure.



Not even that. I heard that even friends of my sister (they are around 18+) having a driver licence, while I still live with my parents. In the end, I am 17 years old mentally. I made no real progress whatsoever in this world. I did not succeed anywhere.
Well ok, I do made some progress at the gym, but that is about it.
Still living with my parents too. Working full-time and can't even afford to live alone, what the fuck is wrong with me? How can a human being fail in so many aspects of his life?
 
Still living with my parents too. Working full-time and can't even afford to live alone, what the fuck is wrong with me? How can a human being fail in so many aspects of his life?
im way older and dont work i wonder the same thing. somethings went very wrong that is for sure.
 
There are certain ... standards, expectations from a man. Criteria that if you do not fulfill you're not even on the radar.

Now, we all know that ugliness is of course the top thing eliminating us from the dating pool. But a lot of us are also crippled by various mental problems and weaknesses. Other than that, we have the lifestyles of children, not men. Many of us haven't even reached the lifestyle of a teenager, I certainly haven't, I'm a damn kid at 26.

I see the importance of gymcelling now. It might not get you women, but there are certain things a man must do to be a man, and being physically strong is one of those things.

sorry but this comment is fucking childish
 
You know @anon1822 it's bullshit what you wrote. You'd see lesser "men" than you with girlfriends/wives.
Convicts, drug dealers, addicts, and so many trashy men who are considered the bottom of the society.
The difference between you and them, they're not particularly ugly. You're lacking something and it's not your personality.
 
wagecucking will set us free tbh
 

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