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Serious Cannot come to terms with being an old man

tehgymcel420

tehgymcel420

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I haven't been able to cope ever since I turned 30. I've never been with a female, never kissed, had, sex, or hugged, I haven't even spoken to a female my age (for something not related to work/school) in several years, maybe a decade at this point. Yet there are children less than half my age who've done everything with a foid, it's a brootal realization.

And apart from the fact I'm so behind in life that it would be impossible to catch up, there is also the fact that even if I could ascend now it just wouldn't be worth it. If I do ascend it would be with a used up middle age foid who is fat and ugly, there is absolutely no chance of sex with a genuinely attractive foid.

Life is bleak and boring.
 
I haven't been able to cope ever since I turned 30. I've never been with a female, never kissed, had, sex, or hugged, I haven't even spoken to a female my age (for something not related to work/school) in several years, maybe a decade at this point. Yet there are children less than half my age who've done everything with a foid, it's a brootal realization.

And apart from the fact I'm so behind in life that it would be impossible to catch up, there is also the fact that even if I could ascend now it just wouldn't be worth it. If I do ascend it would be with a used up middle age foid who is fat and ugly, there is absolutely no chance of sex with a genuinely attractive foid.

Life is bleak and boring.
Man it's not your fault
 
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Relateable, although I'm a bit younger. Turning 27 this year and there is no hope in sight.
 
I am 41. I am in the same boat as you eleven years later.
 
I haven't been able to cope ever since I turned 30. I've never been with a female, never kissed, had, sex, or hugged, I haven't even spoken to a female my age (for something not related to work/school) in several years, maybe a decade at this point. Yet there are children less than half my age who've done everything with a foid, it's a brootal realization.

And apart from the fact I'm so behind in life that it would be impossible to catch up, there is also the fact that even if I could ascend now it just wouldn't be worth it. If I do ascend it would be with a used up middle age foid who is fat and ugly, there is absolutely no chance of sex with a genuinely attractive foid.

Life is bleak and boring.
Wizard
 
While I am a few years younger than you, I understand how you feel.

Out everything in this world, I fear time most of all. The keeps moving while we remain frozen in stagnation.
 
I am 41. I am in the same boat as you eleven years later.
I once met a 40-something virgin who lived with his mother in a senior home, I never want to end up like that.
 
I once met a 40-something virgin who lived with his mother in a senior home, I never want to end up like that.
I live by myself in a tiny apartment that I pay for with my boring corporate job. My mother died when I was 15 and my father is in a nursing home.
 
as an oldcel, i 100% commiserate. copes stop working.

losing my hair, the rest of it turning grey. i have diabetes now too so i can't even eat 70% of food out there.

there is nothing left to live for.
 
I once met a 40-something virgin who lived with his mother in a senior home, I never want to end up like that.
arrange marriage no option for you?
 
I haven't been able to cope ever since I turned 30. I've never been with a female, never kissed, had, sex, or hugged, I haven't even spoken to a female my age (for something not related to work/school) in several years, maybe a decade at this point. Yet there are children less than half my age who've done everything with a foid, it's a brootal realization.

And apart from the fact I'm so behind in life that it would be impossible to catch up, there is also the fact that even if I could ascend now it just wouldn't be worth it. If I do ascend it would be with a used up middle age foid who is fat and ugly, there is absolutely no chance of sex with a genuinely attractive foid.

Life is bleak and boring.
I feel your pain bro I'm 29 close in age to you and haven't experienced any of that either
 
I live by myself in a tiny apartment that I pay for with my boring corporate job. My mother died when I was 15 and my father is in a nursing home.
What keeps you going?
 
I don't want to age anymore man. I am in my early twenties and the knowing that the train has left the station would be such a brutal feeling. I dont' want to reach such a point.
 
life as an oldcel is worse than hell!
i wouldn t wait until i would become old, somehow i would still find a way to rope
 
Wait until you start nostalgia tripping and realize stuff like "Wait, that was seven years ago. Man, seven years have already passed since then." .

Sometimes it hits you like a train.

The older I get the faster time seems to pass and the less I seem to get done each day.
 
Oldest Celibate i’ve known was 40 by the time we stopped being friends. He was pretty much a blading obese ‘Incel’ who hated teaching at his high paying job and liked pursuing a bunch of Master Degrees IRL to Online, except apparently some females inadvertedly/somewhat pursued interest in him that he said he had denied and used Christianity to justify it to everybody and didn’t really care about it. Lived alone in an apartment but apparently got so lonely he moved back in with his soon-becoming elderly Mom and Schizo sister.

Felt bad for him until he started being a severe dickhead to people including me, guy fell off radar. Maybe died, who knows. But living alone 30+ with all to look forward to being a Paycheck seems like hell.
 
Wait until you start nostalgia tripping and realize stuff like "Wait, that was seven years ago. Man, seven years have already passed since then." .

Sometimes it hits you like a train.

The older I get the faster time seems to pass and the less I seem to get done each day.
I already feel that way though.
 
What keeps you going?
My cats, they are nice, and the realization that since I am not religious, this is all we get in terms of life, there is no "afterlife" or a mulligan. I have other things I would like to see and do other than ending my inceldom so I might as well. There is also the fact that life is short enough, so what is the hurry to get to the end?

It also seems rather cucked to off yourself over women, especially when I hear the massive arguments through the walls that the neighbouring couples are constantly getting into, so maybe the grass is always greener on the other side.
 
My cats, they are nice, and the realization that since I am not religious, this is all we get in terms of life, there is no "afterlife" or a mulligan. I have other things I would like to see and do other than ending my inceldom so I might as well. There is also the fact that life is short enough, so what is the hurry to get to the end?

It also seems rather cucked to off yourself over women, especially when I hear the massive arguments through the walls that the neighbouring couples are constantly getting into, so maybe the grass is always greener on the other side.
It is comforting knowing my suffering here is finite and that we stop existing when we die.
 
It's indeed a brutal AF thing.
 

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