Can one learn to ignore his inceldom?

[Deleted member 7448]

Ok it's become crystal fucking clear to me years ago that I'm never going to get a woman. It just won't happen, I know it.

I'll soon be 30, then eventually 35 etc... a virgin having never experienced the many things that I've strongly wanted to experience with women for decades now.

So I need to ignore this part of life. No sex, no love/affection/ intimacy/ companionship etc.

Can it be done? Can you learn to ignore it? For example, due to my avoidant personality, I'm find with not having friends and I actively avoid them and seek solitude. It only bums me every now and then and I just think about how weird it is being so different from everybody having never had friends, but at the end of the day I'm fine with it. Maybe it can be like that with inceldom?

 

[UglyBongola]

Once you get older yes

 

[Pengwin]

In the best case

 

[Deleted member 24256]

It's possible. You gotta keep yourself occupied tho

 

[Deleted member 27249]

No, your lonliness will manifest, you'll become like the 40 year old virgin collection funko pops and action figures going crazy inside your own head. It's not natural, we weren't meant to be this deprived of affection. Our bodies will not cope

 

[Deleted member 27204]

You can lessen the effect if you try to avoid seeing PDA and hearing people talk about their relationships.

 

[nystagmuscel]

You can but it’s insanely difficult

 

[shii410]

you can, it's called coping. no one will fault you for wanting to make the best of your situation, it's just nothing really substitutes for genuine love and affection from another person

 

[RedIce]

I guess as you grow older it will just become part of "being".

 

[Edantez]

Regress back to age 12 and find joy in the childhood delights that made you happy before girls became interesting.

 

[MaxZM98]

rope. you'll forget it then

 

[Cyanide]

Impossible. You can cope to take it off your mind for a while, but you’ll again realize the shitty situation your in. Vicious Cycle that only makes you angrier

 

[Emba]

Çest la vie. (Such is life)

Things are, what they are...

It is what it is...

If you cannot change it, then get used to it.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

Yes, it is call estrogenmaxxing, just stay away from tofu, that stuff will age your face at 40 years old like you are 80 as some female Buddhist monks have found.

 

[Ellsworth]

No. Perhaps if you take testosterone blockers and estrogen supplements.

 

[Tenshi]

Çest la vie. (Such is life)

Things are, what they are...

It is what it is...

If you cannot change it, then get used to it.

 

[EeEcel]

 

[LooksAreLife]

I think you just get used to it at one point.

 

[Deleted member 17606]

Its something you first have to accept, and then forget. Ofcourse its everywhere around us, couples on the beach, the music on the radio. But what a non neet oldcel can do is find exotic destinations around the world and travel to them. I think that is a great way to cope, and I look forward to doing that

 

[Deleted member 25707]

No. Perhaps if you take testosterone blockers and estrogen supplements.

 

[dahmer]

Can one learn to ignore his inceldom?

no.