Hoppipolla
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OK erm... basically it's a substantial amount of money for a big and important purchase.
It would be difficult for me to get a loan for that amount.
The problem is... my dad seems to have this habit of guilt-tripping me until he's involved and then being bossy when I let him be involved.
So... I feel like if I accept this money even as a gift (from eventual inheritance) that it will be impossible to act like there are no strings as the guilt-tripping will be immense and then he'll have to be involved and then he will be bossy...
I hope this was OK to follow, lol
Maybe this is too obscure, sorry. I'd be interested to hear if anyone else has had similar experiences or has thoughts on these types of "gifts"!
It would be difficult for me to get a loan for that amount.
The problem is... my dad seems to have this habit of guilt-tripping me until he's involved and then being bossy when I let him be involved.
So... I feel like if I accept this money even as a gift (from eventual inheritance) that it will be impossible to act like there are no strings as the guilt-tripping will be immense and then he'll have to be involved and then he will be bossy...
I hope this was OK to follow, lol
Maybe this is too obscure, sorry. I'd be interested to hear if anyone else has had similar experiences or has thoughts on these types of "gifts"!