Serious can an incel have standards, if so which ones

[Deleted member 6753]

some people (usually cucktears posters) claim that an incel is allowed no standards at all, and that if you reject anyone you are voluntarily celibate.

Personally I would say that there are some standards it is acceptable to have before you can't call yourself incel any more. For instance if the woman is disabled and would require you to sacrifice having an ordinary life just to care for her, or if the woman is over 40 and can't breed. However if you are rejecting a woman who genuinely likes you (however unlikely that sounds) just because she's a bit short, has acne or is not 9/10 facially, that is being a volcel.

i have a Poll for who you think it is acceptable to reject and still call yourself incel.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

5/10 and up buddy boyo

 

[Deleted member 6753]

5/10 and up buddy boyo

 

[Bangkok or bust]

No fat chicks (i'm ok with a 25 bmi but 27+ is too much). No disabled unless its aspergers or low level autism.

 

[Klikklakkek]

No fat chicks (i'm ok with a 25 bmi but 27+ is too much). No disabled unless its aspergers or low level autism.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

volcels everywhere itt

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

You should expect at least your looksmatch, if you go below that you are a feminist.

 

[ForlornOne]

Im in distgust seeing fat melting girls

 

[Insomniac]

I would never go below my looksmatch

 

[Deleted member 6753]

You should expect at least your looksmatch, if you go below that you are a feminist.

high iq post

it's a pity my looksmatch is hideous. (sigh) but i guess that is the best I can get. actually, forget that, even she would reject me

 

[Bangkok or bust]

volcels everywhere itt

I fucking don't bend over for whales. I keep myself lean-ish to average. Normans can fuck off if they think a 34 inch waist 43 inch chest 174lbs guy is equal to a 50 inch waist fupa 250lbs landwhale.

 

[Michael15651]

Definitely no overweight women.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

I fucking don't bend over for whales. I keep myself lean-ish to average. Normans can fuck off if they think a 34 inch waist 43 inch chest 174lbs guy is equal to a 50 inch waist fupa 250lbs landwhale.

you said bmi 27 in ur first post which is the average in the UK for both men and women (yeah, this country is full of fatties). you now changed it to 250 landwhale which is a world of difference.

 

[Darth Cialis]

I'd take a disabled woman but not with deep autism.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

you said bmi 27 in ur first post which is the average in the UK for both men and women (yeah, this country is full of fatties). you now changed it to 250 landwhale which is a world of difference.

Normans think 200-250lbs whales are "average" and 145lbs plain janes are "hot".

I draw the line at about 145lbs > 154bs for women depends how she holds it. I've seen 5ft4 women of 26.5 > 27bmi holding such weight. Its not ideal.

I'm 174lbs and just fucking a girl 165lbs > 170lbs is off the cards.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

Normans think 200-250lbs whales are "average" and 145lbs plain janes are "hot".

I draw the line at about 145lbs > 154bs for women depends how she holds it. I've seen 5ft4 women of 26.5 > 27bmi holding such weight. Its not ideal.

I'm 174lbs and just fucking a girl 165lbs > 170lbs is off the cards.

it would be awkward having to walk around with a woman who weighs the same/more than u. a badge of shame that says "look, this is the best I could get!" but tbh I would rather have that than nothing

 

[non_factor]

I wouldn't wanna be seen with a fat slut in public.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

it would be awkward having to walk around with a woman who weighs the same/more than u. a badge of shame that says "look, this is the best I could get!" but tbh I would rather have that than nothing

Yeah, ideally she needs to weight no more than 75%>85% of your own weight.

For a 175lbs man thats about a 145lbs woman tops.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Of course we can. We can't choose which girls we find attractive and which ones we don't.

I would find some girls unattractive to the point where I wouldn't be able to get it up for them. That wouldn't make me a volcel for not fucking them, because I physically wouldn't be able to do so.

My standards aren't unrealistic. I would only want to date a girl I found physically attractive, but they don't have to be a Victoria's Secret model for me to find them physically attractive - I simply want a girl with an attractive face who is not overweight. Things like hair colour, height and fashion sense don't come into it. I've approached short girls, tall girls, blondes, brunettes, skinny girls, curvier girls, ranging in age from 16 to 40. No-one can accuse me of being too picky.

 

[Klikklakkek]

Yeah, ideally she needs to weigh no more than 75%>85% of your own weight.

High iq, looksmatch is not exactly equal in numbers

 

[Deleted member 6753]

Yeah, ideally she needs to weight no more than 75%>85% of your own weight.

For a 175lbs man thats about a 145lbs woman tops.

i'm a lean 150 at 5'9 so ur saying my match should be ~120 (which is very rare, average woman is way fatter than that). i feel like that is unrealistic even for an average looking man.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I wouldn't wanna be seen with a fat slut in public.

overweight women are leading this pol. I've always told the normiesphere that most INCELS don't want "Supermodels" or are being unreasonable, they just don't want fat women. This poll is proving this theory right.

These idiot normies though do not take it into there thick skulls. They just parrot "you want hot girls" to incel guys that don't want fatties. Its like the world to them is made up of only landwhales and hot women. Its bizare and distorted thinking. They fail to see an average.

 

[ReallyRice]

Just don't be fat, please. I'm fit myself and like my gf to hold herself to the same standards as I do.


JFL at how DELUSIONAL I SOUND WHEN MAKING "DEMANDS" LIKE THIS.
Just have a 300lbs gf bro, if you care about her weight you don't even like her anyway, this is y u inkel.
Do be 6'3'' 230lbs of pure muscle tough, it's called being a decent human being Y I K E S.
Y
I
K
E
S

 

[Bangkok or bust]

i'm a lean 150 at 5'9 so ur saying my match should be ~120 (which is very rare, average woman is way fatter than that). i feel like that is unrealistic even for an average looking man.

Its not. theres no need for a average height *5ft4) western woman who doesn't build muscle to be over 135lbs. You have been brainwashed my friend, suckered from being around fatties all your life. Look up textbooks about ideal weight... they attest that 5ft4 women shouldn't be over 135lbs either. At 5ft9 and 150lbs your on the light side but your stil lideal and healthy. Unfortunatley in todays masculine cultures that makes you too thin.


Here is ideal weight chart. Men are left / women right

4' 6"	63 - 77 lbs.	4' 6"	63 - 77 lbs.
4' 7"	68 - 84 lbs.	4' 7"	68 - 83 lbs.
4' 8"	74 - 90 lbs.	4' 8"	72 - 88 lbs.
4' 9"	79 - 97 lbs.	4' 9"	77 - 94 lbs.
4' 10"	85 - 103 lbs.	4' 10"	81 - 99 lbs.
4' 11"	90 - 110 lbs.	4' 11"	86 - 105 lbs.
5' 0"	95 - 117 lbs.	5' 0"	90 - 110 lbs.
5' 1"	101 - 123 lbs.	5' 1"	95 - 116 lbs.
5' 2"	106 - 130 lbs.	5' 2"	99 - 121 lbs.
5' 3"	112 - 136 lbs.	5' 3"	104 - 127 lbs.
5' 4"	117 - 143 lbs.	5' 4"	108 - 132 lbs.
5' 5"	122 - 150 lbs.	5' 5"	113 - 138 lbs.
5' 6"	128 - 156 lbs.	5' 6"	117 - 143 lbs.
5' 7"	133 - 163 lbs.	5' 7"	122 - 149 lbs.
5' 8"	139 - 169 lbs.	5' 8"	126 - 154 lbs.
5' 9"	144 - 176 lbs.	5' 9"	131 - 160 lbs.
5' 10"	149 - 183 lbs.	5' 10"	135 - 165 lbs.
5' 11"	155 - 189 lbs.	5' 11"	140 - 171 lbs.
6' 0"	160 - 196 lbs.	6' 0"	144 - 176 lbs.
6' 1"	166 - 202 lbs.	6' 1"	149 - 182 lbs.
6' 2"	171 - 209 lbs.	6' 2"	153 - 187 lbs.
6' 3"	176 - 216 lbs.	6' 3"	158 - 193 lbs.
6' 4"	182 - 222 lbs.	6' 4"	162 - 198 lbs.
6' 5"	187 - 229 lbs.	6' 5"	167 - 204 lbs.
6' 6"	193 - 235 lbs.	6' 6"	171 - 209 lbs.
6' 7"	198 - 242 lbs.	6' 7"	176 - 215 lbs.
6' 8"	203 - 249 lbs.	6' 8"	180 - 220 lbs.
6' 9"	209 - 255 lbs.	6' 9"	185 - 226 lbs.
6' 10"	214 - 262 lbs.	6' 10"	189 - 231 lbs.
6' 11"	220 - 268 lbs.	6' 11"	194 - 237 lbs.
7' 0"	225 - 275 lbs.	7' 0"	198 - 242 lbs.

 

[Gengar]

I am fucking no whale son.

 

[Deleted member 17883]

Tbh it's not like I have the option to choose and be nitpicky since I'm a midget manlet. But I'd like to have that if given the opportunity. Who doesn't dream of an ideal gf from time to time anyways?

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Just don't be fat, please. I'm fit myself and like my gf to hold herself to the same standards as I do.


JFL at how DELUSIONAL I SOUND WHEN MAKING "DEMANDS" LIKE THIS.
Just have a 300lbs gf bro, if you care about her weight you don't even like her anyway, this is y u inkel.
Do be 6'3'' 230lbs of pure muscle tough, it's called being a decent human being Y I K E S.
Y
I
K
E
S

Fucking rage fuel but thats how normies act. They actually think a 5ft9 160lbs guy wanting a 125lbs woman is being an absolute dick, and even more of a dick by refusing a 5ft4 200lbs hog. yet women can openly reject men under 6ft.

Fat women and their backers/wknights army are ruining society. I want them incinerated tbh.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

Its not. theres no need for a average height *5ft4) western woman who doesn't build muscle to be over 135lbs. You have been brainwashed my friend, suckered from being around fatties all your life. Look up textbooks about ideal weight... they attest that 5ft4 women shouldn't be over 135lbs either. At 5ft9 and 150lbs your on the light side but your stil lideal and healthy. Unfortunatley in todays masculine cultures that makes you too thin.


Here is ideal weight chart. Men are left / women right

4' 6"	63 - 77 lbs.	4' 6"	63 - 77 lbs.
4' 7"	68 - 84 lbs.	4' 7"	68 - 83 lbs.
4' 8"	74 - 90 lbs.	4' 8"	72 - 88 lbs.
4' 9"	79 - 97 lbs.	4' 9"	77 - 94 lbs.
4' 10"	85 - 103 lbs.	4' 10"	81 - 99 lbs.
4' 11"	90 - 110 lbs.	4' 11"	86 - 105 lbs.
5' 0"	95 - 117 lbs.	5' 0"	90 - 110 lbs.
5' 1"	101 - 123 lbs.	5' 1"	95 - 116 lbs.
5' 2"	106 - 130 lbs.	5' 2"	99 - 121 lbs.
5' 3"	112 - 136 lbs.	5' 3"	104 - 127 lbs.
5' 4"	117 - 143 lbs.	5' 4"	108 - 132 lbs.
5' 5"	122 - 150 lbs.	5' 5"	113 - 138 lbs.
5' 6"	128 - 156 lbs.	5' 6"	117 - 143 lbs.
5' 7"	133 - 163 lbs.	5' 7"	122 - 149 lbs.
5' 8"	139 - 169 lbs.	5' 8"	126 - 154 lbs.
5' 9"	144 - 176 lbs.	5' 9"	131 - 160 lbs.
5' 10"	149 - 183 lbs.	5' 10"	135 - 165 lbs.
5' 11"	155 - 189 lbs.	5' 11"	140 - 171 lbs.
6' 0"	160 - 196 lbs.	6' 0"	144 - 176 lbs.
6' 1"	166 - 202 lbs.	6' 1"	149 - 182 lbs.
6' 2"	171 - 209 lbs.	6' 2"	153 - 187 lbs.
6' 3"	176 - 216 lbs.	6' 3"	158 - 193 lbs.
6' 4"	182 - 222 lbs.	6' 4"	162 - 198 lbs.
6' 5"	187 - 229 lbs.	6' 5"	167 - 204 lbs.
6' 6"	193 - 235 lbs.	6' 6"	171 - 209 lbs.
6' 7"	198 - 242 lbs.	6' 7"	176 - 215 lbs.
6' 8"	203 - 249 lbs.	6' 8"	180 - 220 lbs.
6' 9"	209 - 255 lbs.	6' 9"	185 - 226 lbs.
6' 10"	214 - 262 lbs.	6' 10"	189 - 231 lbs.
6' 11"	220 - 268 lbs.	6' 11"	194 - 237 lbs.
7' 0"	225 - 275 lbs.	7' 0"	198 - 242 lbs.

what part about "average vs ideal" don't you get. the average is fat, so the women who aren't are going to be seen as higher status and have even higher standards. and we know that women only date up, so a fit woman will leave healthy weight and fit normies and incels in the dust and date chad. My argument was that a healthy normie male is unrealistic to expect to date a healthy woman who is his looksmatch, because women only date up. Wanting and expecting are two different things.

jfl @ you calling me "brainwashed".

 

[PotatoTomato]

No old hags (can't make babies) or fat girls (not human).

 

[Vorbei]

For me there are two standards. There is "would a relationship with her make my life a living hell" standard, e.g. the sort of woman whose life revolves around a bigger house and a better job. There is also the "can I get hard" standard, it would be impossible for me to perform with a hambeast.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

No old hags (can't make babies) or fat girls (not human).

agepill is real

 

[UglyBastard]

No massively obese deformed women or single mothers . But let's be realistic here. Any girl that's not extremely fat can easily get a guy that's much better looking than myself .

 

[Bangkok or bust]

what part about "average vs ideal" don't you get. the average is fat, so the women who aren't are going to be seen as higher status and have even higher standards. and we know that women only date up, so a fit woman will leave healthy weight and fit normies and incels in the dust and date chad. My argument was that a healthy normie male is unrealistic to expect to date a healthy woman who is his looksmatch, because women only date up. Wanting and expecting are two different things.

jfl @ you calling me "brainwashed".

The average woman in USA is overweight yes, but you shouldn't be bullied into accepting that as your equal if you are not overweight yourself. If you do your a feminist.

An ideal woman is on the lighter side of BMI (18 > 20) , an ideal man on 25 BMI with low fat and muscle.

I do agree that a thin man is not equal to a thin woman. Most foids above a 5/10 wants you to have mass.

here is what men find ideal in women. Notice its all clustered around 17 > 25 bmi for women. But strangely some outliers like hogs.

I can't find a chart for what women voted for ideal BMI in men but I have read its 24 > 25 BMI with low teens to 10% bodyfat.


But people are brainwashed to think all 125lbs foids are unobtainable. You can get them in other countries like thailand as an average guy, even with a dad bod. Its just that we live in suich a a fucking fat pig culture that most men aren't even allowed or will never enjoy a sub 150lbs woman and that needs to be fought. men should just walk away if they are pushed to date fats when they are normal healthy non-overweight men. Your not going to enjoy the sex anyway, so you might as well escortcel.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

The average woman in USA is overweight yes, but you shouldn't be bullied into accepting that as your equal if you are not overweight yourself. If you do your a feminist.

An ideal woman is on the lighter side of BMI (18 > 20) , an ideal man on 25 BMI with low fat and muscle.

I do agree that a thin man is not equal to a thin woman. Most foids above a 5/10 wants you to have mass.

here is what men find ideal in women. Notice its all clustered around 17 > 25 bmi for women. But strangely some outliers like hogs.

I can't find a chart for what women voted for ideal BMI in men but I have read its 24 > 25 BMI with low teens to 10% bodyfat.


But people are brainwashed to think all 125lbs foids are unobtainable. You can get them in other countries like thailand as an average guy, even with a dad bod. Its just that we live in suich a a fucking fat pig culture that most men aren't even allowed or will never enjoy a sub 150lbs woman and that needs to be fought. men should just walk away if they are pushed to date fats when they are normal healthy non-overweight men. Your not going to enjoy the sex anyway, so you might as well escortcel.

so you admit that I am right that for most men a healthy white woman is unobtainable, which was my point. also I said nothing about fat woman being my "equal", my whole argument is that women date up. no man ever dates his "equal".

 

[The End]

I have really high standards I'm afraid: human female. No wonder I'm incel if I'm so choosy.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

No massively obese deformed women or single mothers . But let's be realistic here. Any girl that's not extremely fat can easily get a guy that's much better looking than myself .

No man, even 600lbs hogs on My 600lbs Life (tv show) have 180lbs Simp men as husbands.

Any woman can get a man better looking than herself.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

I have really high standards I'm afraid: human female. No wonder I'm incel if I'm so choosy.

does that only include cis women? if so then VOLCEL!!! u should ask out a tranny as well!

No man, even 600lbs hogs on My 600lbs Life (tv show) have 180lbs Simp men as husbands.

Any woman can get a man better looking than herself.

the 600lb life thing baffles me. i have to think there is either some weird feeder fetish insanity going on there or she had his kid before becoming a whale and he would feel bad for leaving.

 

[AntiPain]

Every single standard, his ability to find females according to his actions is what defines him as an incel, not his preferences.
According to your logic this man might be a chad if he only wants nordic 1.8m virgin blonde blue eyed women -

What you're talking about is indication, learn to differentiate.

 

[r9kcel]

Old women are infertile
Fat women are repulsive
Have any of you talked to mentally disabled women? Not talking about aspergers or something mild but anything harsher and it's basically not even human

 

[Bangkok or bust]

so you admit that I am right that for most men a healthy white woman is unobtainable, which was my point. also I said nothing about fat woman being my "equal", my whole argument is that women date up. no man ever dates his "equal".

Yes I agree a healthy weight lean man will struggle to a get healthy weight or slim woman who is otherwise his looksmatch (say both are 5's or 6's). Height and face of man become the deciding factor, then muscles and status. But abroad in thin countries like Thailand you can get a slim woman as a man between a 4 and 6.

 

[a1mless]

Every single standard, his ability to find females according to his actions is what defines him as an incel, not his preferences.
According to your logic this man might be a chad if he only wants nordic 1.8m virgin blonde blue eyed women -
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What you're talking about is indication, learn to differentiate.

Thankyou for finding someone I look better than.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

does that only include cis women? if so then VOLCEL!!! u should ask out a tranny as well!

the 600lb life thing baffles me. i have to think there is either some weird feeder fetish insanity going on there or she had his kid before becoming a whale and he would feel bad for leaving.

On My 600lbs they often show pictures of the women from childhood and they have been obese women all their life, so these normal weight men took them when they were already obese. jfk, I wanna shoot such men. Despicable.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

the first one. but no point since its over for sub4s

 

[TheRealChincel]

No deformed women, I think we shouldn’t have to settle for being with a spectacle.

 

[Deleted member 677]

You should expect at least your looksmatch, if you go below that you are a feminist.

 

[exe]

Not disabled, obese or a granny.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Normies potray us as obese 1/10 neckbeards demanding a Stacy to strawman our arguments. Femcels really are the massively fat, ent!tled-to-Chad spergs people like to pretend we are.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

Like most people, I draw the line at women that I can't get hard for which means no physically deformed, overweight or old women. I put quite some effort into remaining thin since I gain weight easily so it's only fair I expect the same from a potential partner. I wouldn't mind a gf that's a bit chubby though (chubby for European standards, not American).
I think it's dumb to assume that incels only go for 8/10 blonde women, most of us would love to have a relationship with an average-looking girl with minor flaws (like acne) if she had a good personality. I even used to have oneitis for a girl like that.

 

[The End]

does that only include cis women? if so then VOLCEL!!! u should ask out a tranny as well!

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[Hate_my_life]

JFL at the volcels at the top ITT.

I don't care about race, height, "non-NT intensity" and to some degree BMI.

If a foid is morbidly obese, they can fuck off.

If you wouldn't go after all of those chicks listed above you're volcel tbh.

If you wouldn't go in the 35%-45% bf you better be lightweight status.