AutismKing
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1t5ysr6/a_psa_for_incel_lurkers/?utm_source=embedv2&utm_medium=post_embed
Brutal NTpill post from IT
"Just be NT!" true... how I wished...
Suifuel ngl
The most brutal part is this:
A lot of incels clearly struggle with reading cues, conversational pacing, tone, eye contact, and boundaries. That may explain the behavior, but it doesn’t excuse refusing to work on it. Normal people are not going to rewrite the entire social script around you, especially in dating. You have to consciously learn the skills you don’t naturally have.
Nigga I am trying to be "normal", but can you just imagine this kind of discourse applied to any other group today?
Imagine if you said to people today:
"Racism may suck but you cant expect everyone to rewrite the rules of society around you, suck it up, it is your responsibility to improve and stop blaming racism"
"Being a woman may suck, but that's just how it is, you cant expect "normal people" to change the entire law and norms societies have been using for millenia just around you, you gotta work on that and stop crying about it"
"Being gay sucks, but you cant expect heterosexual society to change their script to accommodate you yadayada..."
How do you think people today like in IT would react to these examples?
Hell, even for autism and mental illness, there is so much sympathy for women.
I remember a woman saying:
"I have bpd and hurt others, I just cant control myself, I wish people could understand..."
And everyone thought it was normal and accommodated her feelings.
Imagine a guy saying his bpd makes him violent and makes him play with women's emotions in a manipulative and harmful way, they would say "You need to take responsibility bro! You monster, that's abuse! How dare you abuse a girl's emotions?! You deserve it!"
For a girl that is just "cute mentally ill girl thing aww how cute and quirky <3"
These examples I gave would all be taken as invalidating and insensitive for any other group, but for us it is just heartfelt advice. And these niggas think they are "helping incels out" with this shit.
These niggas think I just stumbled upon this shitty life of loneliness and pain, instead of being dragged into it by NT society and decades of abuse and suffering which further amplified my social anxiety and avoidance leaving me completely unprepared for life and suicidal, and just chose to stay with it like an idiot because why not.
This is why a lot of response to inceldom from society fails. They dont think our suffering is real at all, just some kind of joke or play we choose to partake in.
Sorry for not being "normal", what a choice of wordThey are *normal for a reason*.
I guess not fitting in into society means it is all your fault, all their "systemic critique" flew out the window
I know I am not normal and dont belong in this shitty world, I get reminded of that everyday, no need to remind me
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