Discussion Brothers, how are you all dealin with the fact of being an incel?

[auxcking]

Im 20 by now

unkissed, virign, never had any romantic relation to a girl/woman and so on...
im wondering what to do right now?

- toys and reallife dolls dont give the real intimacy with another human (of course)

- masturbation doesnt excited me (porn addicted since the age of 11)

- dating apps suck and the outcome of all matches is zero... (havin a good chat and theres was always a reason, that it couldnt work out and goes to ghosting...)

- escort maxxing is expensive and i cant deal with the fact, that the opposite isnt really attracted to me

- cuckolds / swingers and so on are pretty off putting to me. (i dont wanna see or heare a dude when im havin sex lol)


just gimme your perspective and tell me youre coping methods and also some tips or strategies you do, to get the real deal...

I went insane and I have no one to save me

 

[Cuckoja]

do yo think about gettin after it so do somethin about it or just cope away? and if so, why?

I still try and hope to find love. Maybe not in some exhausting way, because then it will only bring pain and disappointment

 

[ER44]

I went insane and I have no one to save me

whats your current situation? so are you doin anything agaisnt teh fact of bein an incel or what? and tell me about your " insanity"

 

[poorenglishcel]

Try eating in front of a hungry pack of cats

Can't the same be said about dogs or any other animal in general?

 

[Bulbasaur]

I go to church

 

[Emba]

Can't the same be said about dogs or any other animal in general?

Yes

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

LDAR

 

[VanGobbel]

im in denial irl

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

The best way to cope is to minimize your exposure to people who are better than you.

 

[auxcking]

whats your current situation? so are you doin anything agaisnt teh fact of bein an incel or what? and tell me about your " insanity"

I cope

 

[160cmbloop]

don’t know

 

[Wolnir]

I'm beginning to care less and less, I've not been posting on here as much as I used to. At some point I probably won't post at all.

 

[Felinor]

best thing you can do is maximize coping. Hobbies, music, youtube, overall media will keep your mind busy enough.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Im 20 by now

Kids.is

 

[Grodd]

I’ve accepted this life

 

[Grodd]

I just try keep my mind off the suffering with copes.

 

[arkaxfoidletslayer]

unkissed, virign, never had any romantic relation to a girl/woman and so on...
im wondering what to do right now?

either attempt hard to pull the lowest of the barell woman who'd maybe love you genuinely if she's well below you in everything enough or be proud it never happened. it's like mourning someone. easier to get over them when you never knew them compared to when you actually spent time with them. anytime i had some form of a relationship it was like cumming , good for 10 seconds miserable after for 100x longer

 

[arkaxfoidletslayer]

Hentai

cmon brocel

 

[alcoholmybestfriend]

Alcohol but wouldn't recommend it. Music/Niche Hobbies are much better copes

Alcohol is best cope