Discussion Brothers, how are you all dealin with the fact of being an incel?

[ER44]

Im 20 by now

unkissed, virign, never had any romantic relation to a girl/woman and so on...
im wondering what to do right now?

- toys and reallife dolls dont give the real intimacy with another human (of course)

- masturbation doesnt excited me (porn addicted since the age of 11)

- dating apps suck and the outcome of all matches is zero... (havin a good chat and theres was always a reason, that it couldnt work out and goes to ghosting...)

- escort maxxing is expensive and i cant deal with the fact, that the opposite isnt really attracted to me

- cuckolds / swingers and so on are pretty off putting to me. (i dont wanna see or heare a dude when im havin sex lol)


just gimme your perspective and tell me youre coping methods and also some tips or strategies you do, to get the real deal...

 

[Animecel2D]

LDAR

 

[endoftheskies]

Im 20 by now

unkissed, virign, never had any romantic relation to a girl/woman and so on...
im wondering what to do right now?

- toys and reallife dolls dont give the real intimacy with another human (of course)

- masturbation doesnt excited me (porn addicted since the age of 11)

- dating apps suck and the outcome of all matches is zero... (havin a good chat and theres was always a reason, that it couldnt work out and goes to ghosting...)

- escort maxxing is expensive and i cant deal with the fact, that the opposite isnt really attracted to me

- cuckolds / swingers and so on are pretty off putting to me. (i dont wanna see or heare a dude when im havin sex lol)


just gimme your perspective and tell me youre coping methods and also some tips or strategies you do, to get the real deal...

Why are you on dating apps. If you really want something to do in life, find an passion or hobby and stick with it. Honestly, that is my best advice. Find something you are good at, and follow it.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Gaming
Tranime
Youtube
Hentai
Learning

 

[Dr. Autismo]

I'm used to inceldom

 

[SergeantDick]

i cope by accepting that i don't need a woman

 

[ER44]

Why are you on dating apps. If you really want something to do in life, find an passion or hobby and stick with it. Honestly, that is my best advice. Find something you are good at, and follow it.

i get youre point but im completely full in that aspect but besides all the things i like to do and my passion and my job, the zero intimacy kicks in so heavily dude ( guess you all can agree)

 

[Tšuudi]

I stay inside as much as possible and spend most of my money and time on copes.

 

[dirlewanger88]

Feeling that most relationships are purely superficial and hypocritical affairs

 

[Solid State]

A lot of my time is occupied by work, as I am a corporatecel, and I have two cats. While cats and dogs are not the same as having a romantic partner, they do keep you company and they are much more loyal and less demanding than most people are.

 

[ER44]

I stay inside as much as possible and spend most of my money and time on copes.

what are you doin exactly?

 

[Aspiring Janitor]

JoinedDec 23, 2025 Posts 3

 

[ER44]

A lot of my time is occupied by work, as I am a corporatecel, and I have two cats. While cats and dogs are not the same as having a romantic partner, they do keep you company and they are much more loyal and less demanding than most people are.

thats 4 sure

 

[ER44]

Feeling that most relationships are purely superficial and hypocritical affairs

good point but dont you have the craving of someone who truly desires you and appreciates you in a realtionahip and/or sexual?

 

[SergeantDick]

Feeling that most relationships are purely superficial and hypocritical affairs

what do you mean hypocritical?

 

[ER44]

JoinedDec 23, 2025 Posts 3

?

 

[Xul]

Live long enough to turn numb

 

[Tšuudi]

what are you doin exactly?

I mostly play video games and watch movies and anime, also if I have enough money I buy books and read them. Sometimes I also just collect things and explore random websites.

 

[BricABrac]

You just live.

Work, play games. Cook stuff and eat it.

Go drink or don't. Play golf or don't.

Read? Music?

I am choking on these pills man

 

[dirlewanger88]

what do you mean hypocritical?

That a guy is with foid just to show status, and brag, for example

 

[Autist]

There's no way to deal with it, you just suffer until you die and stop suffering

 

[ER44]

That a guy is with foid just to show status, and brag, for example

get your point but i would be with one mostly cause of the sexual desire

 

[ER44]

You just live.

Work, play games. Cook stuff and eat it.

Go drink or don't. Play golf or don't.

Read? Music?

I am choking on these pills man

and thats how you counter the desire? or run from it?

 

[ER44]

I mostly play video games and watch movies and anime, also if I have enough money I buy books and read them. Sometimes I also just collect things and explore random websites.

and thats how you counter the desire? or run from it?

 

[SupremeSaint]

Gaming
Tranime
Youtube
Hentai
Learning

 

[SupremeSaint]

I’ve accepted this life

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Brutal story and welcome to your new homeland

Idk if you ever tried AI stuff

There are many AI image generators and girlfriend chatbots out there

It does work on some people, maybe it won't work on you but imo it would be worth a try

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Actually that’s the neat part, i don’t deal with it.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Why are you on dating apps. If you really want something to do in life, find an passion or hobby and stick with it. Honestly, that is my best advice. Find something you are good at, and follow it.

I'm good for nothing

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

I'm used to inceldom

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

I LDAR, and delude myself into thinking that celibacy is a good thing

 

[Tšuudi]

and thats how you counter the desire? or run from it?

A bit of both.

 

[Cuckoja]

There's no way to deal with it, you just suffer until you die and stop suffering

Yeah, its what i do.

 

[BricABrac]

and thats how you counter the desire? or run from it?

There is no counter.

Perhaps only distraction.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

By gaining blackpill knowledge

 

[itsovER99]

Pc games

 

[RandomGuy]

Youtube

View: https://youtube.com/shorts/bu3sD9ppsJA?si=wfPGRw817EG1v2Ez

 

[OverLoner]

Meh I guess? I can't even force myself to get mad about it. I know I'm not a great choice.

 

[Erenincel]

Im drug addict. Better cope that porn

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

As I got to my 20s and realized that I don't have infinite time, I started worrying more about my position in society, not becoming a homeless deadbeat failure, and the dream that I failed to reach due to procrastination because "there was still time". My dream was to become a comic artist or illustrator, and despite having the talent I didn't practice enough throughout the years, and now I'm suddenly at the age where I thought I would've "made it" when I was a kid, and skilless.

Surely, a foid would help. I think that all my issues are caused by the mental situation that I got from never experiencing romantic love. It's hard to find motivation for anything as an incel.

 

[Nicusor_delaBraila]

Im 20 by now

unkissed, virign, never had any romantic relation to a girl/woman and so on...
im wondering what to do right now?

- toys and reallife dolls dont give the real intimacy with another human (of course)

- masturbation doesnt excited me (porn addicted since the age of 11)

- dating apps suck and the outcome of all matches is zero... (havin a good chat and theres was always a reason, that it couldnt work out and goes to ghosting...)

- escort maxxing is expensive and i cant deal with the fact, that the opposite isnt really attracted to me

- cuckolds / swingers and so on are pretty off putting to me. (i dont wanna see or heare a dude when im havin sex lol)


just gimme your perspective and tell me youre coping methods and also some tips or strategies you do, to get the real deal...

Do smth without foids to occupy ur time

 

[ER44]

By gaining blackpill knowledge

So you dive into looksmaxxin or what? did the same

 

[ER44]

As I got to my 20s and realized that I don't have infinite time, I started worrying more about my position in society, not becoming a homeless deadbeat failure, and the dream that I failed to reach due to procrastination because "there was still time". My dream was to become a comic artist or illustrator, and despite having the talent I didn't practice enough throughout the years, and now I'm suddenly at the age where I thought I would've "made it" when I was a kid, and skilless.

Surely, a foid would help. I think that all my issues are caused by the mental situation that I got from never experiencing romantic love. It's hard to find motivation for anything as an incel.

sad to heare that brother. jus the best for you man. why do you think, girls arent interested in yo?

 

[ER44]

Im drug addict. Better cope that porn

porns deadlier to yourself ye

 

[ER44]

Meh I guess? I can't even force myself to get mad abouty it. I know I'm not a great ch

There is no counter.

Perhaps only distraction.

do yo think about gettin after it so do somethin about it or just cope away? and if so, why?

 

[ER44]

Yeah, its what i do.

do yo think about gettin after it so do somethin about it or just cope away? and if so, why?

 

[ER44]

A bit of both.

do yo think about gettin after it so do somethin about it or just cope away? and if so, why?

 

[ER44]

I LDAR, and delude myself into thinking that celibacy is a good thing

do yo think about gettin after it so do somethin about it or just cope away? and if so, why?

 

[Emba]

A lot of my time is occupied by work, as I am a corporatecel, and I have two cats. While cats and dogs are not the same as having a romantic partner, they do keep you company and they are much more loyal and less demanding than most people are.

Try eating in front of a hungry pack of cats

 

[onetwothree]

Alcohol but wouldn't recommend it. Music/Niche Hobbies are much better copes