One of the most commonly shared grievances on here it seems is the constant or repeated states of boredom, as well as the inability to find adequate ways to suppress this. Honestly, i'd say this amounts to one of the worst aspects about Inceldom as a whole: To put it simply, an ideal mind quite literally is the devils workshop. I feel this is when a lot of my negative thoughts come out, I start reminiscing over the past the most, and I then get stuck in this "loop" in which I think about the past too much, obsess on what I could have done to make my shit life a bit better/bearable, and then obsess over the future, what could happen, will I ever be able to at least live on my own?
I think this is one of the reasons as to why I would like a job, since it would be best for me to have something to learn. By a job, i don't mean some standard grocery store, part-time bullshit, I mean an actual job which allows me to learn something which I can distract myself with & make actual money with at the same time. If I had this my current state in life of being a bored, passively suicidal, depressed 23 y/o male.
I probably need to also find a new hobby/cope. Not just playing vidya, reading, etc. i mean something I can use to get me unironically outside somewhere I can do something & interact with others.
Honestly, this is one of the worst parts of this "life" for me. It just adds to the issue & makes me stuck in my own head more, I wish I could escape it all.
I think this is one of the reasons as to why I would like a job, since it would be best for me to have something to learn. By a job, i don't mean some standard grocery store, part-time bullshit, I mean an actual job which allows me to learn something which I can distract myself with & make actual money with at the same time. If I had this my current state in life of being a bored, passively suicidal, depressed 23 y/o male.
I probably need to also find a new hobby/cope. Not just playing vidya, reading, etc. i mean something I can use to get me unironically outside somewhere I can do something & interact with others.
Honestly, this is one of the worst parts of this "life" for me. It just adds to the issue & makes me stuck in my own head more, I wish I could escape it all.
