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You'll hear tradcucks say a lot that women are caring and loving by nature but we all know this to be false, they are probably the most callous creatures on God's green earth. I dabble in Girlfriend ASMR from time to time and I think why it appeals to a lot of people is in part because women aren't as caring and sweet as they are when they are recording these videos.

Does anyone have any studies or material I can watch or read so I can harden myself towards tradcuck gynocentrism and bluepilled lies?

@GeckoBus
 
You'll hear tradcucks say a lot that women are caring and loving by nature but we all know this to be false, they are probably the most callous creatures on God's green earth. I dabble in Girlfriend ASMR from time to time and I think why it appeals to a lot of people is in part because women aren't as caring and sweet as they are when they are recording these videos.

Does anyone have any studies or material I can watch or read so I can harden myself towards tradcuck gynocentrism and bluepilled lies?

@GeckoBus
just ask @WorthlessSlavicShit
basically all the evidence points to women

1. being shit moms naturally - single motherhood epidemic proves this


"85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)"

Single moms are basically psychopath factories. A huge amount of people in prison come from single mom homes.

2. women being just as violent as men, even physically
Here is a whole academic text written on how women are just as violent as men - written by women even:

This critique explodes the stereotypical assumption that men are more prone than women to physical aggression
A cogent and holistic assessment of the theoretical positions and research concerning female aggression Examines the treatment, punishment and community response to female aggressive behavior Examines topics including sexual power, serial murder and the evolution of gendered aggression Treats female aggression in its own right rather than as a counterpart to male violence



In this video the foid explains how foids even betray each other in prison, which makes no sense from bluepill perspective. Aren't women naturally nice and cute and shit and want to be in relationships? She also explains that they don't give a shit about men and exploit them mercilessly.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvuFJ6_ww20


Another thing we can look at is lesbians:

They have high divorce rate and high violence rate:


The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators. The other third reported at least one perpetrator being male, however the study made no distinction between victims who experienced violence from male perpetrators only and those who reported both male and female perpetrators. Similarly, 61.1% of bisexual women reported physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners in the same study with 89.5% reporting at least one perpetrator being male. In contrast, 35% of heterosexual women reported having been victim of intimate partner violence, with 98.7% of them reporting male perpetrators exclusively.[6]

If women are non-confronational by nature, like tradcopers say, how is this possible?

Women also online stalk more than men btw:

Both men and women largely engage in passive cyberstalking, though women perpetrated more overall, passive, and invasive intimate partner cyberstalking. Women were also likely to adopt invasive behaviors to retain a long-term mate and attain a short-term mate.

This one says there are more male stalkers but women are just as likely to threaten their victims:
Contrary to popular assumptions, this study found that female stalkers are no less likely than their male counterparts to threaten their victims or attack their person or property.

3. women committing sexual assault on same level as men
@WorthlessSlavicShit
your call man. Just look at his sig:

In studies with college-aged samples, between 18.2% (Russell & Oswald, 2001) and 49.5% of women reported using some form of sexual coercion to obtain sexual contact (e.g., kissing, petting, and forced intercourse; Carvalho & Nobre, 2015; Schatzel-Murphy et al., 2009; Struckman-Johnson et al., 2003).

4. women being pedo on same level as men
  • 60% of children molested in daycares, women are perpetrators (source)
  • Women perpetrators involved in 45% of child molestations (22% female-only perpetrator + 23% both male and female perpetrators) (source)
  • Of cases of abuse perpetrated by parents, mothers more likely than fathers to be abusors (73% vs. 23%) (source)
  • 71% of Children Killed by One Parent are Killed by Their Mothers; 60% of Victims are Boys (source)
This site has more info about all of this:
http://www.mrarchivist.com/data/

Women don't like kids, they have no natural instinct for them.

5. Women gain pleasure from seeing men in pain

The study was based on brainwave monitoring.
Lead researcher Shiri Cohen of Harvard Medical School explained why women's brains showed a positive reaction to seeing their husband or partner upset. She said: 'It could be that for women, seeing that their male partner is upset reflects some degree of the man's investment and emotional engagement in the relationship, even during difficult times.”

What this amounts to in relationships is that she will start fights constantly, not because she has a problem, but because she is bored and it gives her pleasure. Often they combine the fighting with sex later. That's why some women say they have the best sex after their abusive BF beats them and shit.

You cant win these fights as a man because they are not about problems being solved, they are about giving her narcissistic supply.
Women deliberately pick men that give them this kind of behavior, fighting, violence, drama.
This has been evidenced again by studies like this one, also dug up by @WorthlessSlavicShit


In Conclusion:
Women are basically men who can get away with toxic behavior.
A toxic man is just a man who acts like a woman.
A toxic woman is just a woman acting like a woman.

They are not inherently more caring, soft, nice etc... - to even claim that is putting them on an insane pedestal.
You have to think about this, imagine you said the same thing about any other group.
"Chinese people are just better people by nature bro, idk what to say, they just are."
That would be ridiculous. But when it comes to women that's fine.

The mechanism behind why we ignore the bias we have for women is neoteny.
They look child like in adulthood, hence we forgive them their narcissism, like we forgive children their self-centeredness.
And puppies. And kittens.
And Otters.

Nature isn’t always kind and cuddly. A study showed that sea otters will restrain baby seals and then begin copulation; sometimes drowning it during the 105-minute-long process. Even after the seal is dead, the otter will hang on to the carcass and continue to mate with it for up to a week.
Heather S. Harris, Stori C. Oates, Michelle M. Staedler, M. Tim Tinker, David A. Jessup, James T. Harvey, and Melissa A. Miller, Lesions and Behavior Associated with Forced Copulation of Juvenile Pacific Harbor Seals (Phoca vitulina richardsi) by Southern Sea Otters (Enhydra lutris nereis) Aquatic Mammals 2010, 36(4), 331-341, DOI 10.1578/AM.36.4.2010.331

Basically Otters rape everything, even corpses. They reproduce mainly by raping.
Yet everyone thinks they are cute and nobody ever talks about this shit.
Because they don't look like they are doing that shit.

When it comes to other, completely harmless animals, like spiders, you can torture them, burn them etc... and put it on youtube and it's fine.

When you look at stats for fatherhood, it becomes apparent that the nurturing gender is actually men.
If you go on the website I linked, http://www.mrarchivist.com/data/
you will find info on how the presence of the Dad raises the childs IQ for example.
There is also data that shows that children that are in shared custody with the father grow up normally.
And that only children that are with the mother alone get fucked up.


This can be easily deduced by the fact that most custody battles are won by the mom.
So when children have issues in single parent households, it's related to mothers fucking up the kids.
And this implies that in shared custody, it is the time spend with the father that makes these kids grow up normal.

So again, just like the insane claim that women just inherently less violent, nicer people, the claim that women are just natural born perfect moms is ridiculous. Raising a child is a skill that needs to be learned, and we all know which genders value is based on performance and not just on being born at all.
Men learn to be dads.
Women just think they know how to raise kids (nacissism) and then fuck them up.
 
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just ask @WorthlessSlavicShit
basically all the evidence points to women

1. being shit moms naturally - single motherhood epidemic proves this


"85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)"

Single moms are basically psychopath factories. A huge amount of people in prison come from single mom homes.

2. women being just as violent as men, even physically
Here is a whole academic text written on how women are just as violent as men - written by women even:





In this video the foid explains how foids even betray each other in prison, which makes no sense from bluepill perspective. Aren't women naturally nice and cute and shit and want to be in relationships? She also explains that they don't give a shit about men and exploit them mercilessly.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvuFJ6_ww20


Another thing we can look at is lesbians:

They have high divorce rate and high violence rate:




If women are non-confronational by nature, like tradcopers say, how is this possible?

Women also online stalk more than men btw:



This one says there are more male stalkers but women are just as likely to threaten their victims:


3. women committing sexual assault on same level as men
@WorthlessSlavicShit
your call man. Just look at his sig:



4. women being pedo on same level as men
  • 60% of children molested in daycares, women are perpetrators (source)
  • Women perpetrators involved in 45% of child molestations (22% female-only perpetrator + 23% both male and female perpetrators) (source)
  • Of cases of abuse perpetrated by parents, mothers more likely than fathers to be abusors (73% vs. 23%) (source)
  • 71% of Children Killed by One Parent are Killed by Their Mothers; 60% of Victims are Boys (source)
This site has more info about all of this:
http://www.mrarchivist.com/data/

Women don't like kids, they have no natural instinct for them.

5. Women gain pleasure from seeing men in pain

The study was based on brainwave monitoring.


What this amounts to in relationships is that she will start fights constantly, not because she has a problem, but because she is bored and it gives her pleasure. Often they combine the fighting with sex later. That's why some women say they have the best sex after their abusive BF beats them and shit.

You cant win these fights as a man because they are not about problems being solved, they are about giving her narcissistic supply.
Women deliberately pick men that give them this kind of behavior, fighting, violence, drama.
This has been evidenced again by studies like this one, also dug up by @WorthlessSlavicShit


In Conclusion:
Women are basically men who can get away with toxic behavior.
A toxic man is just a man who acts like a woman.
A toxic woman is just a woman acting like a woman.

They are not inherently more caring, soft, nice etc... - to even claim that is putting them on an insane pedestal.
You have to think about this, imagine you said the same thing about any other group.
"Chinese people are just better people by nature bro, idk what to say, they just are."
That would be ridiculous. But when it comes to women that's fine.

The mechanism behind why we ignore the bias we have for women is neoteny.
They look child like in adulthood, hence we forgive them their narcissism, like we forgive children their self-centeredness.
And puppies. And kittens.
And Otters.


Heather S. Harris, Stori C. Oates, Michelle M. Staedler, M. Tim Tinker, David A. Jessup, James T. Harvey, and Melissa A. Miller, Lesions and Behavior Associated with Forced Copulation of Juvenile Pacific Harbor Seals (Phoca vitulina richardsi) by Southern Sea Otters (Enhydra lutris nereis) Aquatic Mammals 2010, 36(4), 331-341, DOI 10.1578/AM.36.4.2010.331

Basically Otters rape everything, even corpses. They reproduce mainly by raping.
Yet everyone thinks they are cute and nobody ever talks about this shit.
Because they don't look like they are doing that shit.

When it comes to other, completely harmless animals, like spiders, you can torture them, burn them etc... and put it on youtube and it's fine.

When you look at stats for fatherhood, it becomes apparent that the nurturing gender is actually men.
If you go on the website I linked, http://www.mrarchivist.com/data/
you will find info on how the presence of the Dad raises the childs IQ for example.
There is also data that shows that children that are in shared custody with the father grow up normally.
And that only children that are with the mother alone get fucked up.


This can be easily deduced by the fact that most custody battles are won by the mom.
So when children have issues in single parent households, it's related to mothers fucking up the kids.
And this implies that in shared custody, it is the time spend with the father that makes these kids grow up normal.

So again, just like the insane claim that women just inherently less violent, nicer people, the claim that women are just natural born perfect moms is ridiculous. Raising a child is a skill that needs to be learned, and we all know which genders value is based on performance and not just on being born at all.
Men learn to be dads.
Women just think they know how to raise kids (nacissism) and then fuck them up.

Thank you so much for providing me with some juicy knowledge :feelsokman::feelscomfy::feelsstudy:
 
PMS does not exist and is just an excuse to shit on men:

 
That's why some women say they have the best sex after their abusive BF beats them and shit.
brutal
They look child like in adulthood, hence we forgive them their narcissism, like we forgive children their self-centeredness.
And puppies. And kittens.
And Otters.
Ptobably also why they get like 25 percent less harsher sentences than men for the same crime.
So again, just like the insane claim that women just inherently less violent, nicer people, the claim that women are just natural born perfect moms is ridiculous. Raising a child is a skill that needs to be learned, and we all know which genders value is based on performance and not just on being born at all.
Men learn to be dads.
Women just think they know how to raise kids (nacissism) and then fuck them up.
:feelshehe::bigbrain:

I also heard in a debate that when it comes to child abuse, that actually the mother's that are the vast majority of perpetrators and apparently it's correct.


Statistics show a different story from the one we are accustomed to

Data from Child Protective Services in the US, mirrors the pattern around the world. Of children who become victims of maltreatment, the huge majority of perpetrators of the crimes are the biological parents (not adopted or foster parents, as you might think).

The Child Family Community Australia reports, “A British retrospective prevalence study of 2669 young adults aged 18-24 (May-Chahal & Cawson, 2005) found that mothers were more likely than fathers to be responsible for physical abuse 49 per cent of incidents compared to 40 per cent).”

Other sites that are trying to raise awareness in this area will bombard you with statistics. Breaking the silence, for instance, says 71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers, 60 per cent of those victims are boys.

I am curious how you would respond to the argument that this only is the case because most single mothers are poor? How does this factor in the calculation?
 
Naturally women only care about their offspring and only long enough for it to fight for itself. Primates aren’t monogamous like christcucks say. It isnt in their nature.
 
I am curious how you would respond to the argument that this only is the case because most single mothers are poor? How does this factor in the calculation?
its a non-sequitor
poverty does not equal becoming a violent child abuser
thats fucking retarded
thats like saying poor people hate kittens and puppies
the reason why people treat children like children is their looks


this foid got adopted and treated like a child depsite being a teenager
its just looks

this also destroys trad arguments about the past
if looks determine how we treat the other gender, why would women be treated differently in the past?

another thing is that it does not logically make sense
there is no point in becoming more violent towards your own kids when you are poor because it does not benefit you
violence against someone else in order to survive, yes that would make sense
against your own kids makes no sense

another point
people nowadays live in giga luxury compared to just few generations ago
the average modern day single mom lives like a nobleman 200 years ago
yet people back in the day obviously didnt beat the shit out of their kids across the board, that is retarded
so there can not be a link between lack of material wealth and child abuse

also people in impoverished countries like somalia are shockingly happy:


even in 3rd world countries they live like kings compared to past generations now - running water, electric light, smartphones
long-distance transportation with public transport, cars, internet access

again, there can not be a connection between material wealth and life satisfaction if this is true and previous genreations didnt just all fucking rope because they had to shit on the ground outside their house
and get water from a well

the real thing that makes life worth living is the quality of your relationships with other people
which is of course determined by shit like looks
most people are normies, so they have average life satisfaction
and this applies to all people on every country on earth, poor or rich

there is an 80 year harvard study on this and they found the same thing: relationships are the most important thing, not money, wealth etc...

1708389046945




 
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another thing is that it does not logically make sense
there is no point in becoming more violent towards your own kids when you are poor because it does not benefit you
violence against someone else in order to survive, yes that would make sense
against your own kids makes no sense
This is an imagined response against this "imagine a single mother working 2 jobs being exhausted trying to provide for maybe multiple kids. Now let's say that the kids made a mess in the house after she comes home from 2 shifts at 2 different places. Would it not make sense that a lonely frustrated woman in that scenario would be more likely to abuse her kids?"
people nowadays live in giga luxury compared to just few generations ago
True. A lot of people take this for granted. Most people live like little kings.
 
This is an imagined response against this "imagine a single mother working 2 jobs being exhausted trying to provide for maybe multiple kids. Now let's say that the kids made a mess in the house after she comes home from 2 shifts at 2 different places. Would it not make sense that a lonely frustrated woman in that scenario would be more likely to abuse her kids?"

True. A lot of people take this for granted. Most people live like little kings.
Not really because we dont see the same behavior from fathers + fathers and men in general work way more physically taxing and dangerous jobs. Also most single moms get welfare or food stamps from government + they get money for the kids either from child or government support. In germany you get 200€ a month PER CHILD.

OIP.s3hd4WmvprT25BjrcF-SKwAAAA


Also kindergarten and daycare exists.

Here are some two links on the connection between material wealth and life satisfaction is not a given.


i updated my earlier reply with links about this.
 
Not really because we dont see the same behavior from fathers + fathers and men in general work way more physically taxing and dangerous jobs. Also most single moms get welfare or food stamps from government + they get money for the kids either from child or government support. In germany you get 200€ a month PER CHILD.
From what I am reading single fathers still have 8 times more wealth than single mothers. I think that if I were to bring this up in an argument that the fact that single mothers usually live at the poverty line which creates more stress which causes abuse would BTFO me.
 
From what I am reading single fathers still have 8 times more wealth than single mothers. I think that if I were to bring this up in an argument that the fact that single mothers usually live at the poverty line which creates more stress which causes abuse would BTFO me.
but the reason men earn that much more money is because they work high stress jobs in the first place, so that doesnt make sense.
Men die much more and younger than women and obviously lead way more stressful lives on average.


another thing is that women are actually wealthier while married and only become poor after making themselves single moms by divorce:

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So these single moms are basically venting their poverty related frustrations on their kids, even though the poverty is the result of their shitty choices (women initiate most divorces).
 
From what I am reading single fathers still have 8 times more wealth than single mothers. I think that if I were to bring this up in an argument that the fact that single mothers usually live at the poverty line which creates more stress which causes abuse would BTFO me.
also, it's still a non sequitor to go from poverty to child abuse
"i am stressed" does not equal "i have to beat up children"
in fact that is kind of nasty to claim about a person or people group
they are basically saying
"when a woman is stressed, they vent their frustration by hitting their kids"
there are other ways to deal with stress, more positive ones
the way they frame it still reflects negatively on women
 
but the reason men earn that much more money is because they work high stress jobs in the first place, so that doesnt make sense.
Men die much more and younger than women and obviously lead way more stressful lives on average.


another thing is that women are actually wealthier while married and only become poor after making themselves single moms by divorce:

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So these single moms are basically venting their poverty related frustrations on their kids, even though the poverty is the result of their shitty choices (women initiate most divorces).
Great stuff man. I would not be able to connect the dots on my own.

Thanks :bigbrain: :feelsaww:
 
"when a woman is stressed, they vent their frustration by hitting their kids"
Made me kek XD. But yeah you're right it's a self own
 
also, it's still a non sequitor to go from poverty to child abuse
"i am stressed" does not equal "i have to beat up children"
in fact that is kind of nasty to claim about a person or people group
they are basically saying
"when a woman is stressed, they vent their frustration by hitting their kids"
there are other ways to deal with stress, more positive ones
the way they frame it still reflects negatively on women
You should really make a channel or blog something man the blackpills are endless with you.
 
Abortion, infanticide, abandoning kids... they are the antithesis of caring.

Creating kids with shitty genetics. There are women who have GARBAGE genetics who want to pass on their genes, selfish as fuck, more than many men.
 
A toxic man is just a man who acts like a woman.
This is so true, you can even see it with some of the users here *cough cough*

Female psychology is very easy to spot when you know what to look for. They use the exact same subversive tactics as women. Hypothesis: likely due to being raised by one or having a weak father/no male role models.
 
You should really make a channel or blog something man the blackpills are endless with you.
im obsessed with this shit and idk why. I have bigger issues to deal with IRL
sometimes I think about writing a book on it.
Maybe it's because I have autism and when something doesn't make sense, I can't let go.

This is so true, you can even see it with some of the users here *cough cough*
:feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek:

Female psychology is very easy to spot when you know what to look for. They use the exact same subversive tactics as women. Hypothesis: likely due to being raised by one or having a weak father/no male role models.
Yes exactly. You can always tell. A lot of people on here are also attached to their mom. They openly say that, like you see users saying "the only person I can trust is my mom" and so on.
Maybe I lack that connection to my mom because she was not really present and I grew up with my dysfunctional dad. Also she is cold.

One thing they do IMO is putting you on ignore list or threatening to do it. Like who gives a shit? I don't have a single person on ignore on here.
That is bitchmade shit, threatening to deprive you of their presence LMAO
 
A toxic man is just a man who acts like a woman.

This is so true, you can even see it with some of the users here *cough cough*

Female psychology is very easy to spot when you know what to look for. They use the exact same subversive tactics as women. Hypothesis: likely due to being raised by one or having a weak father/no male role models.

True and true. This is why France is the worst country to live in (and its garbage Maghrebi/Quebec colonies). It's full of effeminate men who have the brain of a woman. They simp and will betray their own like it's nothing. Very racist, will stab in the back with very low blows without a shed of honor, etc. Fuck I hate them. And low IQ of course. Short sighted. Feminists. Cucks.

I'm gathering money to move to Germany ASAP. At least men there are men (and women women) regardless of what some haters say.
 
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True and true. This is why France is the worst country to live in (and its garbage Maghrebi/Quebec colonies). It's full of effeminate men who have the brain of a woman. They simp and will betray their own like it's nothing. Very racist, will stab in the back with very low blows without a shed of honor, etc. Fuck I hate them. And low IQ of course. Short sighted. Feminists. Cucks.

I'm gathering money to move to Germany ASAP. At least men there are men (and women women) regardless of what some haters say.
The funny thing about this is I notice a lot of the Haitian blacks and others colonized by France are similar.

I don't think I've met a single Haitian that did not have some sort of estranged relationship with their father.
 
The funny thing about this is I notice a lot of the Haitian blacks and others colonized by France are similar.

I don't think I've met a single Haitian that did not have some sort of estranged relationship with their father.

Yes good observation, which is why I mentioned that it's the same thing with their former colonies. Their culture infected everywhere where they went. You can almost consider that a french speaking person is going to be a garbage person in 99% cases (even French blood is dangerous, cf. Angelina Jolie). Smoking, low IQ, belittling, mean and mocking, lazy, stab in the back... women basically. Waiting for the State to do everything, socialists, incapable of critical thought and inventing something or simply being blackpilled.

My "father" was fine until he arrived here and became a foid like the others. This country poisons all the weak males to turn them into foid minded losers. That's one of the reasons I'll burn bridges with my family in the future, they were infected by French culture, they are irredeemable. I am a man, not a loser.

It's their assimilationism + racism culture. It breaks weak males into self hate, submission and conformism.
 

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