it’s my birthright to live without sexual temptation, but am still struggling with achieving it. Can someone share some solid advice?
cold showers
Don’t fap
Don't go to the NSFW media section
Remember how much toilets hate you and wish you to suffer remember they'd never let you touch them and freak if you even looked at said degenerate porn whore irl. Works for me though less intentional and more a consequence of my inceldom leading to porn making me either angry or disgusted rather than horny.
Idk what you complain about sounds like a youngcel problem I am a 29 year old KHHV so that phase is long gone being an alcoholic does not help with boners either.
Yes. After struggling for years I have found peace.
The most brutal, but most crucial thing is WILLPOWER. There are very little strategies, the most important thing is will. Ask yourself, if you can not conquer your own devices for pleasure seeking nor conquer your own urges, how will you be ever able to impose your will upon anything else?
The second most important thing is STAY BUSY. Keep yourself occupied at all times. The best occupation is being around others. Get a roomate, or when you have urges, leave your place of dwelling.
Pray. Pray to the Lord GOD to give your strength. Visualize the Sorrowful Mysteries. Think about Christ's suffering. Compare yours
AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP WATCHING THINGS WITH HOT FEMALES IN IT, I KNOW YOU WANT THE ASSHOLE AND PUSSY BUT DONT WATCH IT!
UMMM, Socialize with others? but were incels?
Yes, it is not easy
How you do it?
I am extreamly flawed, but I have managed to do it to good success
Some advice
-Take EVERY opportunity to be social. "Hey man mind if I hop in this game? Are you a (enter sportsball team here) fan, me too blah blah blah?) any conversation starter is the start to a friendship.
-Introduce yourself to all who surround you, a friend of a friend is your friend. "Hey man, I'm _____, what's your name again? Nice to meet you."
-Be able to talk about anything. Know atleast one fact about everything.
-be relaxed, never nervous nor anxious. Always confident in your body language and speak. Doth upright and laid-back. Have a strong command over the English Language. Anything over-thought or planned is not authentic speech nor connects you to others. Speak authentically.
-Always grab contacts
-do not be timid, be strong and demand respect.
-listen more then you speak. Learn to both listen and to speak. Only speak when it is necessary, do not dominate a conversation, but know when to add in when necessary.
-always gather others and send out invites. Do as much as possible to get involved. This one is the most important. Events are what wield together a true bond. Something as small as: "I'm headed to lunch man, want to join?"
-always greet those who you know and all who you see
-always stay positive and do not judge others, be kind to all even those who are different. Surround yourselves with all differant types of people,
-Be keen and observative, pick up on things about others and engage these topics. Seomthing as simple as the observation of one wearing a cultural necklace and asking "Are you from____? (EX) I know someone from there, ive heard great things about that, oh really whats that like, etc etc." People love to talk about themselves. A great conversation goes such a long way.
-associate with those who you wish to be associated. Keep close both those who are similar and different.
Im still ugly tho
Yes, I am too. Males judge less on appearance. If you are physically strong, you will be very well respected amongst men
I tried packing on muscle for 4 years but i never got any bigger
It is not easy. That is a completly differant topic. I am going to sleep, it is past midnight (sleep is VERY important for muscle building)
Did that too
The only good nofap advice is dont count the days and if you relapse it doesnt reset the streak
Other than that most incels would stop fapping if they had a GF, best advice is get a GF
Other than that most incels would stop fapping if they had a GF, best advice is get a GF
no nofap for your face
Keep yourself productive and busy with other things. Don't look at fap material in order to avoid temptation. If you're feeling particularly horny, write about sexually arousing things you've seen.
These are some of the strategies I used during No Nut November. But above all willpower is the most important thing.
These are some of the strategies I used during No Nut November. But above all willpower is the most important thing.
K
sungaze and eat fruit diet. for me constipation could have stimulated the need to release the downward flow of semen but really was just needing to take a shite.
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