my best friend of 10 years just cut me off because his gf was mad at me. To give a bit of background to my story: I was going to a convention with him and a group of people.
It was a downward spiral over the course of 4 days.
First he insisted that him and his gf should get their own bed while the rest of us crammed into a single one. I thought to myself that I didn’t want to make a scene so I decided to let it slide.
They did their own shit with each other at the convention and refused when I asked if I could come along with them to come parties. I basically had to find people to hang out with on my own.
Considering the fact that my friendship traditionally was a give and take situation where we uplifted each other by inviting each other to social circles and events, how he excluded me pissed me off.
Throughout my time there, he literally kicked me out of my own room and told me and everyone else to leave when he was having sex with his gf, and having a heart to heart with her. This pissed me off a lot considering that the room was under my name.
I got so pissed off that I decided to get shitfaced so I can cope with the situation.
I texted them toward the end of the convention that they couldn’t just kick us all out just to have sex and talk which apparently pissed off his gf.
Apparently her dad was sick or something but considering they never told me about it. To be completely honest I think it was ridiculous to just expect me to know and snoop into their conversations. They told me that I should have “paid attention more”
His he and his gf basically cried bloody murder to me which shocked me. he decided to cut me off. In my state of shock I broke down and decided to leave early during the night.
At this point my “best friend” of 10 years seems to basically be an appendage of his gf. He already flaked on any plans with me for break which makes me suspect that he basically just spent it all with his gf.
This isn’t a give and take relationship anymore. I basically feel like a hotelier at this point. I’m only around if it enhances his relationship with his gf.
Couples are always trouble. They expect everything to everyone to accommodate them at the expense of everyone else. A good example of this are babies on airplane. Everyone else’s experience actively is made worse just to accommodate a family. Don’t bother making friends with anyone who has a significant other since you will be pilloried for the smallest perceived faults.
It was a downward spiral over the course of 4 days.
First he insisted that him and his gf should get their own bed while the rest of us crammed into a single one. I thought to myself that I didn’t want to make a scene so I decided to let it slide.
They did their own shit with each other at the convention and refused when I asked if I could come along with them to come parties. I basically had to find people to hang out with on my own.
Considering the fact that my friendship traditionally was a give and take situation where we uplifted each other by inviting each other to social circles and events, how he excluded me pissed me off.
Throughout my time there, he literally kicked me out of my own room and told me and everyone else to leave when he was having sex with his gf, and having a heart to heart with her. This pissed me off a lot considering that the room was under my name.
I got so pissed off that I decided to get shitfaced so I can cope with the situation.
I texted them toward the end of the convention that they couldn’t just kick us all out just to have sex and talk which apparently pissed off his gf.
Apparently her dad was sick or something but considering they never told me about it. To be completely honest I think it was ridiculous to just expect me to know and snoop into their conversations. They told me that I should have “paid attention more”
His he and his gf basically cried bloody murder to me which shocked me. he decided to cut me off. In my state of shock I broke down and decided to leave early during the night.
At this point my “best friend” of 10 years seems to basically be an appendage of his gf. He already flaked on any plans with me for break which makes me suspect that he basically just spent it all with his gf.
This isn’t a give and take relationship anymore. I basically feel like a hotelier at this point. I’m only around if it enhances his relationship with his gf.
Couples are always trouble. They expect everything to everyone to accommodate them at the expense of everyone else. A good example of this are babies on airplane. Everyone else’s experience actively is made worse just to accommodate a family. Don’t bother making friends with anyone who has a significant other since you will be pilloried for the smallest perceived faults.
