Venting Being rejected when warm approaching is far more brutal than when cold approaching

[Flagellum_Dei]

Title. It's extremely frustrating when you invest lots of time, energy and feelings into a foids just to get spittled in the face. Cold approaching on other hand is much less resource consuming and feelings it gives are much less extreme. Fortunately only bluepillers have to suffer this for their dellusions, which if they recognize patterns fast enough will be shortly after dispelled by blackpill.

 

[user]

No shit, its like investing time into a project all for it to be corrupted

 

[ldargoblin]

if the guy is smart, he will be able to read the behavior of the female and decide whether or not to warm approach her and won't get hurt.

 

[Darth Aries]

Yes, that’s how my oneitis rejected me. I knew her since we were children and she still rejected me while seeing my full jestermaxxed and confident personality. She put me in the brother zone and eventually stopped speaking to me entirely.

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

Yes, that’s how my oneitis rejected me. I knew her since we were children and she still rejected me while seeing my full jestermaxxed and confident personality. She put me in the brother zone and eventually stopped speaking to me entirely.

Very similar thing happened to me bro, oneitispill is brutal

 

[nice_try]

if the guy is smart, he will be able to read the behavior of the female and decide whether or not to warm approach her and won't get hurt.

Only if he's very smart and blackpilled. An average bluepilled guy can't read a girls behavior that easiely. Girls are masters of manipulation.
I had a girl who was nice to me, who texted me alot and who even texted me first. There was no reason to think that I didn't have a chance. Turned out that she was only texting me so she could show around my messages and people were laughing about me behind my back.
I learned my lesson, but if you're still young and naive girls can easiely trick you.

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

Only if he's very smart and blackpilled. An average bluepilled guy can't read a girls behavior that easiely. Girls are masters of manipulation.
I had a girl who was nice to me, who texted me alot and who even texted me first. There was no reason to think that I didn't have a chance. Turned out that she was only texting me so she could show around my messages and people were laughing about me behind my back.
I learned my lesson, but if you're still young and naive girls can easiely trick you.

That's exactly why blackpill is a thing and not common knowledge, without it you have to rely on false hope.