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RageFuel Being motivated by seeking what you want isn't enough. Pain, fear will be along the way, and anger helps build mental fortitude, AND boosts you also.

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Positive motivation in of itself, and just thinking about something, and just strolling along to get it... isn't realistic.
You naturally encounter things that put you in doubt/ dismay/ anxiety along the way.
There's plenty of things that make people angry. but remaining to be positive is just flushing your anxiety down the toilet instead of making proper use of it.
That's why insecurity is so good. You think/ brood on all the ways life in general undervalues/ doesn't care about you.
You gain hatred, and gain injury to your pride... and then you are motivated by hate of what makes you in a natural seat of doubt/ dismay/ anxiety.
It makes you afraid nad makes you angry.
Reason women like overly-positive guys is because that makes them feel they're around someone who has an auspicious enough of an existence that they don't need to gain spiteful sentience/ a boost up from being angry to be motivated.

You're motivated by seeking what you want, but also making due with things against you based on what you hate with anger. It's like a double boost.

Double the boost double the fun.
positivity, and having a brisk breeze mentality is bound to be jaded. You'll be disappointed, afraid, hut in life. Which is why you need something to learn how to contextualize those things while also remaining focused. Anger will give you the boost to destroy the things that slog you down in addition to mental fortitude to the things that give you doubt/ pain/ anxiety.
 
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That title gave me a stroke.
Did you write this in your native third world language and then run it through Google Translate? Because that's how it reads.
 
That title gave me a stroke.
Did you write this in your native third world language and then run it through Google Translate? Because that's how it reads.

I think what he means is, doing good isn't as powerful a motivator as defeating evil.
 
That title gave me a stroke.
Did you write this in your native third world language and then run it through Google Translate? Because that's how it reads.
The title seems to translate as:
You're motivated by seeking what you want, but also making due with things against you based on what you hate with anger. It's like a double boost.
In other words, motivation isn't just internal, but also forms from the pressures of external adversity.
 
WHAT I MEANT TO SAY
Is that if you're just motivated by just looking to what you want, and getting it (as bluepill media thinks you should) then that won't get you anywhere.
You'll find insecurity, anxiety, sadness along the way if you are not minding/ putting defenses up against the negative.
Anger puts defenses up surely by hypertense honing-in on the possible enemies. But more, it also finds injustice in them if you have self-grandiosity entitlement based anger and it pushes you to crush things you hate.
So you're motivated by the lust of what you want, and in addition to anger giving you the focus/ adrenalineal boost/ not being vulnerable to the fear/ pain coming from negative external forces... then it will also make you determined to crush what you hate that anger helps you focus on. DOUBLE THE BOOST DOUBLE THE FUN.
 
WHAT I MEANT TO SAY
Is that if you're just motivated by just looking to what you want, and getting it (as bluepill media thinks you should) then that won't get you anywhere.
You'll find insecurity, anxiety, sadness along the way if you are not minding/ putting defenses up against the negative.
Anger puts defenses up surely by hypertense honing-in on the possible enemies. But more, it also finds injustice in them if you have self-grandiosity entitlement based anger and it pushes you to crush things you hate.
So you're motivated by the lust of what you want, and in addition to anger giving you the focus/ adrenalineal boost/ not being vulnerable to the fear/ pain coming from negative external forces... then it will also make you determined to crush what you hate that anger helps you focus on. DOUBLE THE BOOST DOUBLE THE FUN.
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WHAT I MEANT TO SAY
Is that if you're just motivated by just looking to what you want, and getting it (as bluepill media thinks you should) then that won't get you anywhere.
You'll find insecurity, anxiety, sadness along the way if you are not minding/ putting defenses up against the negative.
Anger puts defenses up surely by hypertense honing-in on the possible enemies. But more, it also finds injustice in them if you have self-grandiosity entitlement based anger and it pushes you to crush things you hate.
So you're motivated by the lust of what you want, and in addition to anger giving you the focus/ adrenalineal boost/ not being vulnerable to the fear/ pain coming from negative external forces... then it will also make you determined to crush what you hate that anger helps you focus on. DOUBLE THE BOOST DOUBLE THE FUN.
Well thanks for clearing that up.
 
The real question; Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
 
Anyone who tries to deny the power of hate is just a mushy makeoverer.
Of course for halo effect you can't show that you run purely off rage.
For the sake of a good system coolant, then intellectualization will work.
Fear/ pain/ insecurity are the gunk that you're drenched in naturally from life.
Anger is the ignition system that turns that gunk into a fuel for an adjustment/ self improvement machine.
Hate is a force that keeps you going. Willpower/ courage are used to better adjust agaisnt hostile terrain that puts stress that is meant to disorient you from your focus-podium.
But anger/ hate can be disorienting which is why you need a conscience cleanser/ serenity maker like intellectualization which allows you to control whether or not what you feel or what you don't.
(even in intellectualization you still need high mental fortitude garnered from seeing the universe in a light which desensitized you to pain, fear, distraction... curing anxiety/ low pain threshold/ adhd/ impatience which we are ALL born with).

That adjustment machine must be used and is kept operational by willpower/ courage amidst things that put stress on the machine, and it is kept going even amidst times where you feel like you want to let go and release

It gives you the determination/ mental clearance and operation space. And the more you value the clearance rather than take it for granted (if you are constantly insecure, and value whenever you can be operational) then you will act more. Urge to act. urge to use operation space. The more powerless you feel, but the more spiteful and desiring for glory, then you will make the most out of this operation space. Some of us go through so many mental developments without even keeping track of how we can have OPERATIONAL ABILITY, that we forget that we would have loved to have been the person we are today.

Hate is the furnace when stabilized/ recurring. Though it may still cause stress which is where you need to use intellectualization to free your mind from feeling complete stress... in relation to a system of mental order where you develop an aggressive zen of sorts.
The real question; Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
Sarcasm which hardly applies. The irony isn't big enough to warrant even that comment.
nitpickers lol.
Did I get it? Is my interpretation right?
More that you'll be doubly motivated if you hate the things that separate you from what you love, and cross lines which you abstractly/ personally hold sacred. Then you'll be motivated to move forward out of spite, and claiming what is rightfully yours.
If you don't choose to do that, and choose to put down negativity, and remain pure calm zen then you're missing out on a great motivation opportunity.
And if you choose to not reflect on the problem at all, and mistake being at peace with the emotions negativity leaves you with as "zen" then you're stuck in an anxiety/ depression rut that will take willpower to get out of when you accept being a peasant for a comfortable amount of time.
Better to turn it all into high-resistance emotions like preventative paranoia/ hatred/ anger/ etc.
 
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Making workable choices occurs in a crucible of informative mistakes. Thus Intelligence accepts fallibility. And when absolute (infallible) choices are not known, Intelligence takes chance with limited data in an arena where mistakes are not only possible but also necessary. We witness a passing phrase of eternity. Important things happen but some people never notice. Accidents intervene. You are not present at episodes. You depend on reports. And people shutter their minds. What good are reports? History in a news account? Preselected at an editorial conference, digested and excreted by prejudice? Accounts you need seldom come from those who make history. Diaries, memoirs and autobiographies are subjective forms of special pleading.

The best art imitates life in a compelling way. If it imitates a dream, it must be a dream of life. Otherwise, there is no place where we can connect. Our plugs don’t fit. We do not teach history; we recreate the experience. We follow the chain of consequences — the tracks of the beast in its forest. Look behind our words and you see the broad sweep of social behavior that no historian has ever touched. Rules build up fortifications behind which small minds create satrapies. A perilous state of affairs in the best of times, disastrous during crises.

If you believe certain words, you believe their hidden arguments. When you believe something is right or wrong, true of false, you believe the assumptions in the words which express the arguments. Such assumptions are often full of holes, but remain most precious to the convinced.
 
uh lol. low iqness here I can barely take.

Anyway, to add, it's less common for people to fight against negativities that put them in peril/ pain through herism/ nobility, and more through personal entitlement/ primal pride.
Anger comes to people more naturally when we're talking about this kind of double-downer power than getting people to be determined through calm/ having zen monk willpower, and having heroic conviction to get to that kind of extremity.
Zen is good for being precise. Rage is good for thrust.
 

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