There is nothing I can do for the OP here. He has just realized that current official Christianity is completely rotten. That is not really news. It has been like this for the last 50 years at least.
When someone is in that state of rage and disappointment against official Christianity, there is nothing you can say that will calm them down. They have become allergic to the word "Christianity". You have to let them cool off for at least a period of years (if not decades), before you can broach the subject again.
In the meantime, I suggest you have a look at this:
I agree with @K9Otaku How can you reject the premise that Culture can Override Genes when Americas 1950s is a great testament to his argument? High Birth Rate Low Divorce Rate High Marriage Rate low Inceldom Rate Etc Truth is Women NEEDED Men back then and toed the line and kept their act...
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