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Serious Before .is, I was always gaslighted and told I'm a horrible person

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Before .is, when I was younger and I'd tell people online that I'm jealous of sexhavers, I was called a horrible person and that I should be happy for people and that I shouldn't be upset I can't get a girl because you don't need a relationship to be happy.

Here on .is I know nothing is wrong with my thoughts and that this is a natural response to ostracization and deprivation.

Who has had a similar experience?
 
horrible people get gfs all the time
 
Before .is, when I was younger and I'd tell people online that I'm jealous of sexhavers, I was called a horrible person and that I should be happy for people and that I shouldn't be upset I can't get a girl because you don't need a relationship to be happy.

Here on .is I know nothing is wrong with my thoughts and that this is a natural response to ostracization and deprivation.

Who has had a similar experience?
Same, especially with the "be happy without one" aspect. I hope people who think like this get run over while crossing the street. That is what they deserve after all.
 
who gives a shit what others think. Once you are on .is, it's already over. People might be right, but at least you have accepted what you are.
 
who gives a shit what others think. Once you are on .is, it's already over. People might be right, but at least you have accepted what you are.
I like being able to express myself here and my true feelings without being told to shut up and worship normfags and toilets
 
The problem with normies and just-world fallacy is that they blame us only for all our own failures. This would lead me to a spiral of lowering self-esteem and self-pity because I believed that the problem was my behavior, that I wasn't trying hard enough, that I didn't truly want things bad enough, etcetera.
With the blackpill I realized that some things were simply more difficult for me, so I'm not so hard on myself and I don't hurt myself with futile attempts anymore. But other people, like my parents, still blame me for being a broke outcast incel and think that I would become normal and successful if only I wanted to.
 
Before .is, when I was younger and I'd tell people online that I'm jealous of sexhavers, I was called a horrible person and that I should be happy for people and that I shouldn't be upset I can't get a girl because you don't need a relationship to be happy.

Here on .is I know nothing is wrong with my thoughts and that this is a natural response to ostracization and deprivation.

Who has had a similar experience?
More or less the same with me. And when I finally became blackpilled, I KNEW I wasn't crazy!
 
Same, especially with the "be happy without one" aspect. I hope people who think like this get run over while crossing the street. That is what they deserve after all.
More or less the same with me. And when I finally became blackpilled, I KNEW I wasn't crazy!
I fell the same way. Also, every time I talk about this problem I get gaslited
 
I fell the same way. Also, every time I talk about this problem I get gaslited
I think people do understand but want us to shut up. But the same people who tell us it's ok, themselves have relationships.
 
I think people do understand but want us to shut up. But the same people who tell us it's ok, themselves have relationships.
Therefore, we have every moral right to treat them equally and to take revenge. Since they themselves are driving us out of society, we should be provided with the means to stay outside of society.
 
Therefore, we have every moral right to treat them equally and to take revenge. Since they themselves are driving us out of society, we should be provided with the means to stay outside of society.
I agree. Actually I have refused to associate with sexhavers since more than ten years ago and I feel better this way. But I do talk to sexhavers in my family but very infrequently like I respond once a month. Idk how to take revenge generally but on reddit I used to write foids creepy sexual comments if they mentioned having a bf or husband like I'd message them so when's the last time you fucked your bf or what's your favorite position but then I got banned. What about you, I saw your post how you don't have energy to actually do things which is understandable
 
Before .is, when I was younger and I'd tell people online that I'm jealous of sexhavers, I was called a horrible person and that I should be happy for people and that I shouldn't be upset I can't get a girl because you don't need a relationship to be happy.

Here on .is I know nothing is wrong with my thoughts and that this is a natural response to ostracization and deprivation.

Who has had a similar experience?
The main thing is that you should realise that the outside world will never accept the normalized views we hold here.

Low sentientcels only get into more trouble because they constantly try to blackpill people irl. That doesnt work.

I even seen some retards talking here about trying to blackpill literal escortwhores smfh
 
The main thing is that you should realise that the outside world will never accept the normalized views we hold here.

Low sentientcels only get into more trouble because they constantly try to blackpill people irl. That doesnt work.

I even seen some retards talking here about trying to blackpill literal escortwhores smfh
True, people won't understand. I actually don't talk to people irl at all other than very infrequent texts to family members. Do you have much contact with people irl?
 
True, people won't understand. I actually don't talk to people irl at all other than very infrequent texts to family members. Do you have much contact with people irl?
No but thats because im in between jobs, so i've been just ldaring these last couple of weeks. I will start a fulltime officejob soon again where i will have to be amongst normies all day long. Dreading it already :fuk:

Anything for the paycheck i guess...
 
No but thats because im in between jobs, so i've been just ldaring these last couple of weeks. I will start a fulltime officejob soon again where i will have to be amongst normies all day long. Dreading it already :fuk:

Anything for the paycheck i guess...
Normies are terrible in my experience they are constantly talking about all the relationships and sex they are having, sorry about your future job :feelscry:
 
Normies are terrible in my experience they are constantly talking about all the relationships and sex they are having, sorry about your future job :feelscry:
Yeah or their kids if you're stuck with oldfags. Normie babble is true suifuel.
 
Yeah or their kids if you're stuck with oldfags. Normie babble is true suifuel.
When I worked at a store people brought in their kids and babies but once the manager told them off for doing that haha
 
I agree. Actually I have refused to associate with sexhavers since more than ten years ago and I feel better this way. But I do talk to sexhavers in my family but very infrequently like I respond once a month. Idk how to take revenge generally but on reddit I used to write foids creepy sexual comments if they mentioned having a bf or husband like I'd message them so when's the last time you fucked your bf or what's your favorite position but then I got banned. What about you, I saw your post how you don't have energy to actually do things which is understandable
It's good that you're doing something, at least symbolically. Honestly, I'm too depressed, exacerbated by the trauma, to do anything. Even if I try for a few days, I usually give up, and I'm often unable to do anything other than doomscroll. In fact, I simply can't force myself to do anything.
 
It's good that you're doing something, at least symbolically. Honestly, I'm too depressed, exacerbated by the trauma, to do anything. Even if I try for a few days, I usually give up, and I'm often unable to do anything other than doomscroll. In fact, I simply can't force myself to do anything.
Believe me I completely understand. Doing anything is extremely difficult when we feel this depressed
 
Believe me I completely understand. Doing anything is extremely difficult when we feel this depressed
I know but but not everyone knows it.My defense mechanism has partially kicked in and I manage to do some of my duties walking around like a zombie without using my own will and thanks to that I somehow went to work but then I don't think at all, plus it only worked with some things, not all of them.
 
I was called a horrible person and that I should be happy for people
I hate it when people say anything along this lines. I don't want to be happy for anyone for anything.
 
I hate it when people say anything along this lines. I don't want to be happy for anyone for anything.
They are very greedy, already having sex and relationships and still need the validation of us treating them like some kind of hero because they got their dick wet
 

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