Discussion Before failing with women, did you think you were ugly?

[med-cel]

Basically title.

Before I asking more than half a dozen girls and getting rejected by all of them, I didn’t think I was ugly. I wasn’t some shredded model, but I didn’t think I looked bad either. Maybe I needed to work a bit on my style and hit the gym, but I didn’t think my situation was unsavable.

Now, I tell myself that’s probably all BS. Everyone around me and around my age (20) has already been in a relationship. If I haven’t, it’s probably because I’m ugly. In fact, I think all incels can agree that if they’re in their current situation, it likely has something to do with looks.

But I’m curious, before failing with women, did you guys think you were ugly? Or were you in blissful denial, like me?

 

[Linguinicel]

No, I was too busy enjoying my childhood innocence to care. The moment I hit puberty and realized I couldn’t get any foids was when everything went downhill for me

 

[FakeFakecel]

Yes. Even a 7-year old me could tell my facial deformities made me inferior to everyone else.

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

Blackpill hits as soon as you are the only shitskin in your family

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

Greynigger

 

[DonezoTheClown]

No I was pretty delusional growing up even though all the signs were already there.
Then I became a bit more blackpilled but still expecting to get my looksmatch at some point.
And now we're here.

 

[Pillow City Rev]

Greynigger

Give this user a chance

 

[CHOoseWisely123]

I wasn’t told anything by my parents about dating, sex, relationships (gf+friends) or anything like that so I never dwelled on my looks and the importance that came from it.

I had insecurities and features that made me ugly but I refused to believe I was completely ugly.

Once I started interacting with females in middle school was where I learnt I was less than dirt.

 

[med-cel]

Give this user a chance

Thanks brocel, we’re all GrAY at one point.

 

[BornToLose]

No.

And now we're here.

 

[Fifita]

Females have had me on ignore since pre - school

 

[curryboy420]

I am too scared to ask women out I asked a couple girls in my life and it was difficult and they obviously said no

 

[TheDragon]

Yes but I thought gymcoping would compensate for my face.

 

[SadButTrueCel]

No I was pretty delusional growing up even though all the signs were already there.
Then I became a bit more blackpilled but still expecting to get my looksmatch at some point.
And now we're here.

Literally me

 

[⭑papers]

ive always had people telling me i look ugly/weird ever since i was a baby